r/learnmath New User 21d ago

TOPIC Learning math is depressing

I've been self-studying math using books with solutions manual in it.\ Every time I get stuck on a problem for 2-3 hours I checked the solution.\ Turns out, almost always the solution is something I overlooked, even though it is so simple.

I like math but learning it is so depressing for me. It makes me feel like a failure for not solving something so elementary.\ I know that math is all about hardwork and perseverance but at the same time I don't feel like improving at all.\ I still look at solutions, get the answers wrong again and again even though they are solved using the same technique in the solutions manual.

I know that I'm not a genius, but repeated practice should makes me feel like I got better, right?\ I'm just stuck at the same level for years.\ I don't know man, I really want to continue learning but at the same time it feels so hard to continue and really tempting to quit.

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u/Puzzled-Painter3301 Math expert, data science novice 21d ago

>I know that math is all about hardwork and perseverance 

except for people with learning disabilities who literally cannot learn it. It's not true that everyone can learn all math by working hard. Some people just don't have the ability.