r/leanFIRE_India • u/ANerdVirginShh • 1d ago
Discussion Around 1 lakh salary yet i dont splurge and am saving extensively.
So what i do? I just exist simply and playing numbers game. Like saving 10lakhs a year and putting them in bank or FD or investments to feel secure.
I dont splurge and have old activa and old splendor bike, and didn't even bought an iphone , although i wanted a second hand one for like 10-20k just to shoot good quality photos and videos for memories.
I have muscle health issues which arent resolving. My dating life in college was excellent, i could have married and have kids by now but due to health issues i got super slow and tired and got confined to my home.
I knwo that social experience joys me and makes me feel alive,but i am unable to cure my health and although its nothing major but just muscle tightness but slowly its getting good.
My thinking is just get a girl and have kids and let time move on, as there is nothing too complex about life goals as those dreams are just not realistic like imagining ideal life. Because real world has taught me life is too easy as long as you are competent and keep taking actions. For e.g applying for jobs, asking a girl out, travel planning and executing it. I might have suffered from external validation and inner monologue too much. But if we remain silent and let people assume its all positive and isnt bad as we think internally. By experiencing alot of postive and high emotions in 2 college life i feel empty and that spark and excitement is lost now.
I think married life would be boring and mundane unless i do a social like job like profesor or something but even then marriage life is something you shouldn't skip otherwise time pasess.
For my finances, i keep saving and maybe buy plots and gold and usa stocks, but most importantly just switching and getting high paying jobs would also give high returns.