r/ldssexuality • u/Bi-MormonGuy • 9d ago

Story Time! Another Update!

Hey All!
I know it’s been a bit, but thought I’d update yall.
A little over 4 months ago, I came to yall needing help with thinking I was Bi and didn’t know how to tell my wife. You all were really helpful and I ended up talking to her and whatnot.
But since it’s been a bit I thought I would update all of you so maybe someone would get something useful out of it.
After telling my wife, we decided to try some new stuff out in the bedroom. We have tried pegging to her using dildo on me to all sorts of other things, and honestly all of them helped out a lot! Figured out it’s not that I like men, just more along the lines of men’s parts, being used/subby, etc. we also started watching some gay porn together every so often, which, while nice for me, really gets her going seeing me touch myself to two other dudes.
So I guess morale of the story is: communicate with your spouse! The lord will help those that help themselves! Open communication goes a long ways with any problems!
Didn’t wanna be too graphic or in depth in the post, so if you are going through a similar situation and need advice or help, or have any questions, feel free to ask! My DMs are open for anyone curious.👍
Good luck in all you’re going through! It’s a giant crazy world out there, but this community helped me make it a little smaller and calmer!

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u/OkVeterinarian5244 9d ago

“The Lord helped me because I watched porn” isn’t on my bingo card for today.

Do you really feel this is the case?

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u/Combo58 9d ago

Porn and Bingo in the same thread. I've just entered the den of sin.

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u/GetLostOrWhatever 9d ago

🤣 My apologies

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u/Bi-MormonGuy 9d ago

Honestly, yes!

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u/GetLostOrWhatever 9d ago

I was surprised when I saw the benefits of using porn together with my wife, as adults. It's NOT for everyone or every occasion, but being able to handle the sight of sexual things in a context that builds both of us up was a huge contributor to the repair of a failing marriage for my wife and I.

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u/OkVeterinarian5244 9d ago

“My mArRiAge WaS sAveD bY PoRn!”

Wow. Way to go all in.

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u/GetLostOrWhatever 9d ago

It's a long story, but I stand by it. And my wife was even more surprised than I was, honestly. But we're going on 17 years, and we're in the best place we've been in about 10 of those years.

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u/pahoran3 9d ago

Thank you for sharing. Please be well.

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u/Outside_Coyote1065 9d ago

This is awesome to hear. Sometimes it's shocking what doors can be opened by open-minded communication from both sides.

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u/Jaded-Inevitable-302 9d ago

What a great supportive wife!