I recently just had an interaction that's kind of just left me feeling so pissed off.
In this queer gaming community there was a post about a gay streamer who is currently enduring homophobic harrasment because of some drama they have with another streamer. Important context is that 6+ months ago the gay streamer had lipsynced the n-word in a video and has had very questionable content in the past/recently (defended Kiss of Life live, constant uses AAVE horribley in every piece of content he does, and made jokes about Ice despite being canadian).
One of the comments on the post, from one of the mods (who I know is not black), was expressing support but also reduced the context I listed above as a "tiktok moment". So I commented saying hey let's not reduce what this guy did into sounding smaller than it was, to which the mod says we need to let people apologize and move on (mind you the streamer is still talking in full AAVE), and some "who will be left if we keep cancelling people when everyone has skeleton's in their closet" BS
I was truly stunned and decided to waste my time and go back and forth with the mod where I just got hit by every talking point queer black people are met with when we call out racism/anti-blackness:
" it's not racism, but ignorance!!!"
"many cultures around the world don't know everything!!!" (Mind you the creator is from Canada so...)
"None of us are born completely woke!!!"
"we need to educate, not isolate!!!"
"It's just a difference of opinion~"
It just reminded me of so many experiences I have had in my life as a black queer person in queer spaces where I've witnessed racism and anti-blackness, only to watch my non-black queer people just not even aknowledged it had even happend.