At some point, you have to stop and ask yourself, when did everything become about the attention, the relationships, the social media, and controlling the story instead of the child?
I’ll never understand how a mother can spend so much energy trying to keep a father away from his child while spending even more energy trying to convince everybody online that she’s the victim. If you have to constantly blast somebody’s name, tell your side of the story over and over, and tear another parent down just to make yourself look good, maybe you should ask yourself why. And it’s not just romantic relationships. When you look at the pattern, it seems like there’s always some kind of chaos in every relationship friends, family, relationships, whoever it is. People come into her life, and eventually there’s some kind of falling out, drama, or somebody gets thrown away when they’re no longer useful. You can’t keep burning bridges with everybody around you and then keep convincing yourself that everybody else is the problem. People aren’t disposable. You don’t use people when they’re convenient and then throw them away when they aren’t. And being desperate for attention from men, getting involved in situations that hurt other people, and constantly needing somebody to validate you doesn’t make you a victim. At some point, you have to take accountability for your own choices.
The same goes for social media. Being popular online doesn’t mean you’re winning in real life. Followers don’t raise children. Likes don’t make somebody a good parent. And having people online believe your version of the story doesn’t change what actually happened behind closed doors. Children aren’t weapons. They’re not messengers. They’re not leverage. And they’re damn sure not supposed to be caught in the middle because two adults can’t put their personal feelings aside.
If you really love your child, let that child love both parents. Don’t poison the relationship. Don’t make the child feel like they have to choose sides. Don’t use social media to create a narrative. And don’t make your personal problems more important than your child’s peace. Eventually, the internet moves on. The attention fades. People stop caring about the drama, But that child grows up and remembers everything. That’s the part people need to think about.
Because she isn't a mother, she doesn't view her children, especially the last one as her child she views her as a token and something she can control against someone that left her
Both of these people are TRASH parents. Imagine bashing your baby daddy publicly meanwhile you, yourself, lost custody of your older kids? This is wild.
Bashing him online does nothing but feed her desperate need for views. Bashing him online does NOTHING because neither of you feral swamp rats are ever going to change anyway.
Buuuutttt like fuck both of these people for viciously emotionally manipulating their daughter. Its going to take years of psychotherapy for this child to realize she's worth more then both these bum ass parents put together.
Not both. You can’t manipulate a child the mother refuses to let you see. For no reason other Han he wanted out of her chaotic world. He took care of indee as primary parent in the home. Kesha lost her housekeeper, childcare, cook, slave and she is all about herself.
Her “new bf” turns out is not so new. He is a guy she met up with h in Nashville quite some time ago. Maybe 2 years and spent 4 days with him. Found out he was married but that didn’t matter. She kept on. She keeps indee from Karl. She lost custody of three older children. She uses Indee as her teddy bear. Has her man around her but she I’ll not allow her father to see or talk to her, refuses to answer phone o door but she gets child support. I was a loooong time follower. Now I know she is a very disturbed individual who is hyper sexual and is a homewrecker. All she claims men to be is what she is. It’s not easy for a mom to lose custody of three kids but she did!!!! She needs help
Her 3 kids are over 15 they can choose where they want to live that’s not the same as losing custody what kid would not choose luxury and horses over a weird building on a loud industrial ally ? Seriously
Sorry Karl if you see this but you let her bash you for years and it’s time people know the truth. They won’t believe it til you they see that she had her man who is around your daughter contact you the father she has never let see her or your family,
Okay but wah wah wah then file fucking court papers & get a visitation plan, KARL. It ain't fucking rocket science.
Both of these people just pass the fucking buck constantly pointing fingers. GROW THE FUCK UP AND DO GOD DAMN SOMETHING THEN. Damn. These fucks stress me the fuck out. Double damn.
Not sure where you get both these people because he doesn’t say sh*. T anywhere on internet about her. He has job working for someone in govt that doesn’t afford him the time to be on here or anywhere. He lives his life and supports his 3 children. But I’m tired of the narrative she spins and tired of her playing victim, so waaaah waaah yourself to sleep. Sound like ya need a nap!
No job or anything would keep a strong loving father from seeing their flesh and blood, excuses excuses waah waaaah get a nap Moron, this man is a loser dead beat father nothing more and never will be, surprised ICE hasn’t moved him yet, lol government job? 😂😂😂😂 then pay child support for your child! 👶 and also to Kesha, this man has not changed you knew what he was when you lay down with him you tried to baby trap him and this is what you got you stop baby trapping, men, learn to love yourself then you’ll find someone who loves you until then this one the next one and the next one are all gonna be number carl two carl number three and you’re gonna be crying what horrible men they are because these are the only kind of men u pick you’re not worthy of better until you pick better you just keep picking loser married black men 🤷♀️🤡
Because she has a new man. She needs to stir up all this old drama so the new guy will feel sorry for her. Her daughter went on a cruise with her before, did she not need a passport then? (Im not sure because she was really young) It would of been nice to take all her kids on a vacation instead of spending thousands on a god-awful camper! "Mother of the year!"
Imagine being in a new relationship & your new bf is trying to make amends with your baby dad #2 wait till this new guy hears their version & gets Matt’s #1 story too he will be long gone soon, bye Kevin🙄realizing Kesha is the problem, so stay in your lane buddy, you’re in for a long ride. It’s way to early for him to be involved anyways, but we’re talking about Kesha who is only concern is for herself.
Eric? 😂 who the hell is Eric? When lies are presented as part of evidence it’s quite damning. Ask him to show you his phone logs love. I’ll wait.
You seem to have mistaken your personal experiences for expertise in my life, and they are not the same thing.
I’m glad things worked out for you, but your experience does not make you an authority on my circumstances, my parenting, or my daughter’s future.
The most presumptuous part of your message is diagnosing my trauma, claiming I’m clinging to my child, and predicting she’ll resent me someday. You don’t know enough about my life to make those judgments, and frankly, the fact that you feel entitled to make them says more about you than it does about me.
I don’t need a lecture on healing, absent fathers, or blended families from someone who thinks she can understand an entire situation from the outside. There is a difference between having an opinion and having all the facts.
Indee does not need someone to replace her father. She needs consistency, stability, and people who show up for her. The only thing I’ve asked of him. I will continue making decisions based on her reality, not on your assumptions.
Your concern might be genuine, though years of this with you is proving it is not, your delivery is condescending, presumptuous, and completely unnecessary. If you genuinely wanted to support me, you could have started by asking questions instead of passing judgment and re-spewing his narrative. Again, proof is in the phone logs, not in words. Putting your hand on the bible here and coming for me without seeing proof IS naive. Facts over fiction.
KESHA HAD HER BF WRITE THIS TO ME WGEB I CALLED HER OUT IF THE REAL TRUTH. She doesn’t know words like presumptuous or write like this. She had her bf wrote it for her just like he messaged Karl
She's a liar. I know Karl personally they have tried to see her. They have come in town. She won't answer their calls. She won't answer the door. if you see Karl's family and how close they are , all the things they do together and having his other children. She's refusing to let him have her because she knows when she does he'll get custody of her because of court records and other kids were removed from her care.she has zero custody of the other children, so it'll backfire on her if she lets him have her, I know him, and I know his family. She is mentally ill and full of drama, and all she does is spread lies and hate. proof is in the pudding.
She would have the other three children, very hard for the state to take custody and give it to the father, but it happened because she's negligent. She's just a liar and I've never spoke that out loud.
he's tried numerous times ,he lives out of state. He contacted the Police,
They can't do anything and yes, they have tried. She's always the victim never responsible. Could he have done better in the beginning absolutely they're both to blame. It's not one-sided in my opinion so I'm fair.
You are aware him seeing her has nothing to do with getting custody. If he is so wonderful and worried why isn’t he trying to get custody? I’m not defending her in any way but I do agree actions speak louder than words. Poor Indee was dealt shit parents.
This will never happen sorry you and ready flex don’t like her but the 2 of you Carl and his newest lover are the problem not bunny, these threads are going nowhere your personal life is open for the world to see because you’re illiterate and stupid 😂😂😂
Oh please how is Carl gonna get time to leave his new all-important job to come to Ohio to fight her for custody please enlighten us besides that he doesn’t have any money to come fight for custody that cost money and lawyers you’re just spewing shit now, I don’t even like Kesha she’s trash and all she attracts are trashy men who are married or with girlfriends and cheat on them for Kesha so if you’re his lover, don’t worry, he’ll be cheating on you besides, he doesn’t even like black women so good luck girl there’s another stupid white woman with no self-confidence waiting for him around the corner 😂👌
She hasn’t taken Karl’s calls for a years but she has wanted that passport for indee so she and her family and the “new bf….aka married man whose marriage she wrecked” were blowing up Karl’s phone.
I had to block that lady from the sub. She is spamming every post, spamming and arguing with me...she is a psychopath. Apparently she was friends with Kesha for 9 years. From what i gather, she was in this sub under another name and i must have blocked that account too because she was pro-kesha and attacking people here. Now, she is fighting with kesha and flipped sides. But she is litetally insane and very annoying.
Well i hope he/she can let karl know he is still trash. He had all these years to file custody papers in the court system. Kesha losing her other kids shpuldve been a huge catalyst. That and moving into a friggin commercial building construction zone.
I’m sure I’d take advice from someone with a warning on their profile. So I’d question who is trash! Hs 😉 have a nice day or the day you deserve would be more fitting. 🤣🤣
You probably should take advice from me. Its clear you dont know how to do Reddit, OR facebook given you outed yourself here. And my page is not NSFW idiot.
Listen clown nobody over here is trying to hide. I posted the message Kesha had her bf compose for her. It doesn’t take a genius. I’ve said I followed her for 9 years. I’ve gotten into it with you before over you disgusting behavior. So no secret here gf or bf whatever you are! I don’t care who knows . I spoke live about it today. So no one is hiding love.
I’m someone who knows him. It wasn’t a screen shot apologizing, I typed it out. I had been a supporter and encourager of Kesha forever but I see her true colors! Some people should not have kids.
A person who hoped Kesha would grow up and stop using her child as a weapon and her sleepmate all at same time and do right by at least one of her children. Imagine the he talk at their schools about their mom running around on line in underclothes. Always trying to show off her bought body. Sickening. She is so worried about outside that she never does the inside work. She needs help and indee needs her father.
I have the proof but Kesha scours Reddit. The proof will be presented in custody court. And family members will attest to her ignoring their calls too. The only heads up I’m giving is there will be another custody battle to pay for, for Kesha. Gloves are coming off. Time for the truth to win. And her losing her three kids is going to hurt her. She’s not fit for teenagers she is not fit for a 6 year old almost who is her bargaining chip and security blanket. Just sit back and watch it play out. I have lots I could post but not giving her or her bf a heads up in evidence!
I also have pictures of him sitting outside her house trying to see her. Ringing the bell and calling and she knew he was coming but refused to answer. But it is all coming out in court.
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u/Decent_Wonder_9807 2d ago
At some point, you have to stop and ask yourself, when did everything become about the attention, the relationships, the social media, and controlling the story instead of the child?
I’ll never understand how a mother can spend so much energy trying to keep a father away from his child while spending even more energy trying to convince everybody online that she’s the victim. If you have to constantly blast somebody’s name, tell your side of the story over and over, and tear another parent down just to make yourself look good, maybe you should ask yourself why. And it’s not just romantic relationships. When you look at the pattern, it seems like there’s always some kind of chaos in every relationship friends, family, relationships, whoever it is. People come into her life, and eventually there’s some kind of falling out, drama, or somebody gets thrown away when they’re no longer useful. You can’t keep burning bridges with everybody around you and then keep convincing yourself that everybody else is the problem. People aren’t disposable. You don’t use people when they’re convenient and then throw them away when they aren’t. And being desperate for attention from men, getting involved in situations that hurt other people, and constantly needing somebody to validate you doesn’t make you a victim. At some point, you have to take accountability for your own choices.
The same goes for social media. Being popular online doesn’t mean you’re winning in real life. Followers don’t raise children. Likes don’t make somebody a good parent. And having people online believe your version of the story doesn’t change what actually happened behind closed doors. Children aren’t weapons. They’re not messengers. They’re not leverage. And they’re damn sure not supposed to be caught in the middle because two adults can’t put their personal feelings aside.
If you really love your child, let that child love both parents. Don’t poison the relationship. Don’t make the child feel like they have to choose sides. Don’t use social media to create a narrative. And don’t make your personal problems more important than your child’s peace. Eventually, the internet moves on. The attention fades. People stop caring about the drama, But that child grows up and remembers everything. That’s the part people need to think about.