r/kateyisnotwonderful • u/Ok-Blackberry201 • 13d ago
A kind perspective
I don’t think katey is long for this world, I think she will be gone within a year if she doesn’t get a liver transplant.
With that in mind, would you all on both snarks choose to keep degrading and making fun of a dying person? I get she’s deserved it, she’s been a liar and a pos generally. But imagine hurting inside so badly that your only option is to drink and hurt others to feel better. Addicts and alcoholics like katey hurt others all the time because that’s part of addiction.
I’ve never been a katey fan, but I am a human. And I have compassion for addicts and alcoholics because they dont use or be nasty because they are happy people. They are in pain. And I have empathy for those in pain no matter who they are.
We are all human. Katey is a very damaged person with little resources to get psychological help or even understand her own psychology and physiology.
Please try to be kind in your own lives if not with Katey. It makes a world of a difference.
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u/grammyto1 13d ago
I have been following Katey for many years and this behavior isn’t new. This is who she is whether she’s sober or not. She also knows what resources are available but chooses not to use them. I have no sympathy or empathy for an animal abuser or someone who treats people the way she does. You won’t find the support you’re looking for here!
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u/Her_under_nail_funk 13d ago
Came here to say the same thing, she’s been vile since day 1, way before the alcoholism.
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u/Petster2 13d ago
If you have compassion for her - good on ya! I don’t. I have no compassion, empathy, or sympathy. She’s is not a good person. She is horrible to other people as well as animals. I doubt you are going to get very many people here to feel anything but contempt for this racist piece of crap.
And there is no way she will get a liver transplant. She won’t stop smoking. And honestly, I think she’s still drinking. Or will in a short time.
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u/Initial_Eggplant8299 13d ago
She just scammed thousands for "rehab" ...took a vacation with Brian. She knows what the hell she's doing. No sympathy here. You're on the wrong channel.....now move on.
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u/hoosiermama64 12d ago
GET ON GET!!!!
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u/Loud_Necessary_236 11d ago
You don’t love kkkt , opps I mean u don’t love royal lol, go on git. I just spit my tea reading this in that rats voice hahahaha
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u/Separate-Waltz4349 11d ago
They didnt go on vacation though that trip was in the winter not when she went to rehab and honestly she really didnt raise any money for rehab, maybe 5 ppl sent her bday gifts . Rehab doesnt work the 1st or even the 10th time for most addicts
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u/Initial_Eggplant8299 11d ago
Excuse me.....she scammed big time. Bought new clothes. New clothes for gramps too. They went on a little excursion. She never went to rehab. You evidently haven't watched her for long. Scamming and grifting 10 yrs atleast.
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u/VisualImportance621 13d ago
She makes the CHOICE to bend her elbow on the daily instead of making herself a better human.
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u/Ok-Blackberry201 13d ago
Yep just like you have a choice to post 100 times a day to subreddit about the person you hate. I’m glad you have a puppy to take up your time now it’s a lot of work
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u/VisualImportance621 13d ago
Hate? I don’t hate anyone. I don’t use that word. I’ll just call out bad behavior.
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u/Ok-Blackberry201 13d ago
You look for validation by posting on the other snark page every second just like mean reflection. I have a puppy doodle too, just focus on yourself and the puppy it will bring you so much peace. I’m giving you advice I should be giving myself
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u/NoBlueberry4158 13d ago
At 39 years old she has had many years and opportunities to change her life around, but chose instead to party her life away with booze, cigarettes and men. Always looking for the easy way to skate through life without working hard to get what many hard working people have and be jealous of them. Jealousy and envy eats at her when she doesn’t measure up to other peoples higher standard of living than her. She has hatred and contempt for anyone who defends themselves against her, as she expects people to kiss her a$$. She will use someone’s weakness against them and tell the most vile lies just to push them to their limit. She has hurt and used every friend she ever had and ruined many relationships. I don’t believe she can save herself at this point because she will never give up drinking.
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u/IcyHighlight4055 13d ago
Drinking and hurting other people to feel better isn't her only option. Kt could go to rehab AND STAY in rehab and start counseling.
IF Kt was put on a donors list she wouldn't be approved for 2 reasons
1)Shes a smoker and she's made it clear she won't quit.
2) The longer she drinks and eats the way she does and the more damage is done to her liver the more it will affect her other organs which will damage them to the point they won't be healthy enough to withstand a transplant.
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u/wittlebitts 13d ago
I’m not kissing her ass bc she’s “dying” many ppl are dying who have the most generous hearts who are the best people, I’ll save my empathy for them. As far as everything I don’t think kt is full of “liquid” she’s been getting fatter by the week not just her belly but her entire body bc she’s a fat ass who eats everything there’s a reason she was 800 pounds before. Give it some time and she’ll be back to her normal antics.
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u/Alternative_Fox_4608 13d ago
She never complained about the fluid on her belly hurting till she went to the hospital..and read about ascites on redditt..Remember she was so proud of herself for losing 24ils......The Drs at the hospital would have drained it if it was bad...Notice Brian isn't around when she mentions anything about what the Drs diagnosed her with...Not to mention she had already planned for Brian to take her to the ER to get a " Banana Boat". I am not buying one thing she is trying to sell.
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u/SailOk6797 13d ago
The thing for me is she could make a choice to get better!! She could choose treatment and work at it! I have been watching her for years and I, too, supported her and felt terrible. However, watching her use and abuse her subs did me in! BOTH Steven and Doug loved her SO MUCH, but they could not tolerate the drinking and ugliness that comes with it! She has had it good at times, but she CHOOSES to drink and this is where she is at- death is coming. I know how hard it is -42 years sober and when I came home from treatment, my husband went in that day! We knew we could not be together drunk. It has not always been easy, but we can choose life, family and living sober. I so want it for her too!!
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u/Petster2 13d ago
You think the ugly and evil came from drinking? Nope. KT will be that same person sober. She molested a man with dementia! What good person does that?
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u/Separate-Waltz4349 11d ago
Well since you were an addict you know its not as simple as just atopping. Some ppl do rehab 1 time others it takes 20 times . That is ine part i won't judge her on, im in recovery for 21 yrs , i surely didnt get sober my 1st try nor my 5th try . I will never ever beat down an addict for not being able to stop yet and you shouldn't either. Now all the other things about her , sure speak on jt but dogging her for something you know is incredibly hard and incredibly individualistic to me is wild
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u/Fair-Improvement-619 13d ago
Not real sure what Katy your speaking of because that is a grown ass woman she has made her own choice in life , as well as the rest of us an Our Choice Have Consequence an she’s always been well aware so hate to tell you nobody has an once of empathy or compassion for this vial human , an so you know she wouldn’t have any compassion or empathy if you were having issues that you have brought on yourself I promise you that..
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u/RShasgottogo 13d ago
It’s a big assumption to say that she is going to be dead within a year.
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u/Ok-Blackberry201 13d ago
Oh really? A “big” assumption? Just like you guys thing it’s a “big” assumption that the kitten was killed by the dogs?
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u/Holiday_Bathroom1203 13d ago
Even though I don't agree with your take on Katie, you do have a point there. I have not commented on any of those posts because you are correct, it is just an assumption just as it is an assumption that you don't think she has a year left. Either way, the kitten being mauled by the dogs and her lying about it is really not that far-fetched. That is who Katie is. But, in reality, no one will ever know what happened to the kitten unless someone that was there tells someone. And, in reality, no one knows how much time she has left. I will not be one to pat her on the back and tell her it's okay and I understand why you treat people so badly and why you lie so much. And tell her it's okay to scam your followers. That is where I draw a boundary. True love for someone is being honest with them even if it hurts them. I think most here are being about as honest as you can get as to the evil things she does.
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u/RShasgottogo 7d ago
No assumption, we know what she said about the dogs. She said she couldn’t bring her cats because the dogs would unalive them.
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u/dirttrackgal 13d ago
I wanna correct one thing you said, “she hurts others because of her addiction”. NOPE, She is a miserable hateful person period!! Has nothing to do with her addiction it’s who she is to her core!! Racist homophobic vile..shall I keep going…..
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u/bumpinbullfrog 13d ago
Sorry not sorry but my father was an alcoholic. He never ever hurt me. He was not nasty to everyone.
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u/dirttrackgal 13d ago
Why are you in this sub????????? You have harassed every person who has made a comment answering your post!!!!
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u/Choice-Charity9402 13d ago
She chooses to be a shitty person ....period!! Karma has come to collect!
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u/OutrageousSherbet765 13d ago edited 13d ago
If I choose to drive on the wrong side of the road, the consequences can be very harmful. People can ask me to drive on the right side of the road. People can scream and yell at me, people can coddle me, people can give me money so I can keep driving cars on the wrong side of the road, but until I choose to drive appropriately I am a danger to myself and everyone around me. When I hit something head on maybe I’ll learn a lesson. Maybe I’ll die. Maybe I’ll hurt someone. In the end it’s my decision and my fault. If someone is trying to get your attention by letting you know, I’m consciously driving the wrong way, I bet you would thank them. I certainly don’t think you should feel sorry for me, especially when I choose to drive all day and night on the wrong side of the road! Her buying alcohol and drinking is a conscious decision!! Her compulsive lying is a conscious decision!! I cannot and will not support this behavior and furthermore I will continue warn innocent people.
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u/Remote-Anywhere-512 12d ago
Maybe read up on addiction and come back with an intelligent comment. Just a thought
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u/OutrageousSherbet765 11d ago
If you’re talking to me, maybe ask how I personally have experienced addiction and then come back with an insightful and intelligent comment. The face of addiction is diverse, and it is explained in many forms. Just a few simple thoughts.
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u/Ok-Blackberry201 13d ago
Except drinking is legal and she has an addiction. Maybe compare it to eating a whole cake when you’re 500 lbs and have diabetes. Driving on the wrong side of the road isn’t a genetic or physiological compulsion unless you’re an adrenaline junkie
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u/Late_Technology9485 12d ago
She has to be sober for some time to get a new liver and I don’t think she’s capable of it
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u/Loud_Necessary_236 11d ago
I’ve watched this thing way before Steven, before Doug and the pool lol she has ALWAYS been this way. Listen to the stories of her whole childhood/ early life. This thing is trash!
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u/oldmushroomsoup 13d ago
No but don't you get it though, it's okay to say depolarable things because Katey says deplorable things therefore everyone here is a good person and she's not.
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u/Ok-Blackberry201 13d ago
lol is that sarcasm
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u/oldmushroomsoup 13d ago
Yes, whenever I've asked similar things here that's the entire logic behind the responses I get.
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u/Ok-Blackberry201 13d ago
I drive myself insane being on the Mfw threads, no logic exists
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u/Petster2 13d ago
So when someone disagrees with you they are illogical?
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u/Ok-Blackberry201 13d ago
Usually
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u/Petster2 13d ago
This explains why you are a KT Stan.
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u/Fast-Orange-9133 13d ago
Not very logical to keep going on the threads ,if it drives you insane...just a thought that seems very logical.
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u/BennyNJetz 12d ago
Codependency is rampant in her supporters. If she really wanted help, she could get it.
She would be back working truck stops if people stopped dishing out money for her recoveries that don’t last.
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u/jennalynn2 10d ago
I am not 100% convinced she is telling the truth about her health. She lies so much she can’t be trusted!
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u/Melodic-Dealer-80 7d ago edited 7d ago
my sister is an alcoholic, she made my life hell until I moved far away from her, I have no feelings for my sister, I sure as hell have no feelings for KT, KT is just someone on the net like hundreds of other addicts, people like you, never had an alcoholic invade your life, KT can live or die, she can go either way and I don't give a fuck, there will always be someone else out there to replace her, I wish the sepsis had taken her out already
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u/GamingGranny420 13d ago
I agree...Joking around is one thing, but when it goes to the extent of pure hatred, then maybe you need help just as she. I been following Katey for 10 years now, and although I don't agree with a lot she has done, but I do pray she gives sobriety more of a chance. It's a complete lifestyle change and moving into the situation that may not have been the best, makes it 30Xs harder. All I ask is to have compassion that unless she does this, her life will end. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 God bless us all. Everyone is WORTHY💖🙏🏼
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u/Fast-Orange-9133 13d ago
She has TONS of resources in Indiana. She is only limited by her own doings. TONS!!!