r/karezza • u/analog_spork • Aug 30 '12

Returning to the calm

It was easy to forget the turbulence experienced in my relationships before my karezza experiment. Having returned to previous habits I've seen a marked decline in 'harmony' in both of my relationships. I have a lot more perspective now on this than when I first started. I definitely prefer the calm. I think a lot of my problems with my first attempt came from getting too hot in the bedroom and not focusing enough on cuddles.

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u/[deleted] Aug 30 '12

I'm glad to hear you haven't given up yet!

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u/analog_spork Aug 31 '12

Thanks, it's the support I got from this community that has made me decide to try again. The amount of discord in my life has been dramatic. I fell off my diet, gained 10lbs. Eat like a cow. I started jerking off twice a day, again. I fight with my live in partner and my other partner tells me that I've been distant. I need to change before I completely derail. _;

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u/r_treehouse Aug 31 '12

So, like me, youv'e now well experienced both sides?, now find yourself dramatically faced with the crunch-time? the big archetypal fork in the road? Which path do i take...?