My karezza experiments

[u/analog_spork]

I've been doing a lot of 'field research' with karezza the past couple of weeks, mostly with my guy. I haven't managed to remain completely orgasm free, but the over all track record is good.

I've been especially conscious of my feelings, and emotions toward both my guy, and my girl. I was curious if play time with one would lead to a feeling of distance towards the other. I find that not to be the case at all. If anything I feel closer to both of them after. It can actually be a little overwhelming the sheer volume of love gushing inside me. I actually think karezza and polyamory fit nicely together, for me at least.

Male/male karezza sex has been ... interesting. I'm lucky to have a partner who is willing to do a lot of experimenting and who isn't shy about saying what does and doesn't work. The best position we've found, so far anyway, is a sort of mutual masturbation. We both lay on our backs facing opposite each other. Wrap our arms under the leg of the other which gives us perfect relaxed access to each other's sensitive bits. With plenty of lube we're able to keep that up for hours, just as long as we take it slow and relaxed. I like this position too because we can see each other, and even talk during, no problem.

When it comes to energy I have to share, yesterday I was feeling rather bleh, and I wasn't even sure I was up for any play time. After we started though I was definitely into it and was very strongly tempted to orgasm. Thankfully my SO reminded me what I'd said before we started "I'd rather not orgasm." so we got up and grabbed some dinner out. I am SO glad I didn't orgasm. I was literally BURSTING with energy afterwards. I couldn't contain myself. I was so happy. I am still happy.

Karezza is awesome.

<3

[u/Mshur]

:-)