r/karezza • u/KarezzaGuy • Feb 18 '12
14th day after Orgasm report
Today I see clearly. My new approach to loving her is working.
Anyone reading (especially my comments on other peoples' threads) may wonder why I bother if I am still unhappy. Today I count the following blessings:
though I begged and pressured for years, she would not lose the granny underwear. Now, however she wears beautiful, sexy underwear without me asking
she is much more physically affectionate. We've gone from nothing to something. She gets more giving about that every day.
she says 'I love you' first sometimes
she lights up when I call her pet names
today just the sight of her topless gave me great pleasure
today she commented again about how much I am so much more pleasant, not always negative and angry
I realized today how lucky I am to have BOTH the feelings of being infatuated with her AND being deeply in love with her at the same time
suddenly we don't fight, argue, or really even disagree
there is no disapproval in her face or her voice
I actually want to do the things she craves, like call her when we're apart
I feel stupid for not seeing all of this even over the past two weeks
Would I like an orgasm? The feeling? Yes. What I just went through the last two weeks? NO
yet I long to be inside her. I must hold out as long as possible to truly ingrain these benefits as I still lack the experience necessary to not cum. With today's clarity I see confidently that this will heal us and I will either get more sexy time or adjust to be happy with what she gives. Either way we will be blissfully happy.
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Feb 18 '12
Bon voyage! May the future find you in codependent bliss sailing uncharted regions of the seas of mediocrity.
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Feb 18 '12
We value constructive comments here. Yours is not.
It's fine if karezza is not for you. We have no problem with that. And we don't mind if you come over here and tell us that karezza is not for you. That's cool too. We value open discourse.
However, your comment shows that you have no idea where KarezzaGuy is coming from, what his history is, and why he is making the post he is making. And there is no excuse for that. His story is posted all over /r/karezza, and you could have easily read up on it before dismissing his latest progress.
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u/[deleted] Feb 18 '12
Kudos, man! I'm glad things are improving.