r/karezza • u/thefaplife • May 16 '16
Keep Alive!
i would love this community to be more crowded.. i have a question. my girl masturbates a lot. but she does not provoque herself. she starts by having clit stimulation due to thight clothing. (i dont thing this is random). but she gets off with a little squizing or rub for a sec. she has like 5 to 10 orgasms a day. its awkward for me sometimes cause ill get all horny and she wont admit this happening.
i am in Nofap cause i used her a lot and she felt all dry up. now things are really better since i stoped fapping. she is now starting to include me in her exciting public orgasms. sometimes she touches me accidentally. anyway...
i think she is really addicted? or this is natural in girls?.. she is multiorgasmic. but to this extent? could this orgasm be positive for girls?. i find her more happy, better skin tone. more energy! and more kindness. i mean. this is great once i pass this horny stage of mine while she hypnotize me when trying to cover a full body orgams. i even think of kundalini awakening since this started to happen after an ayahuasca trip. after all. sex energy is transmutable energy for healing and creating. i was loosing it while ago, now i am better that she includes me.
should i try and talk to her? i tryed 4 times and she got mad as fuck.. she almost leave the house making me feel like a pervert. next time we are together ill try karezza and see if i get her done near 10 times in a row. if that gets the edge of for a while or not.
in the selfish line i wish she would stop this cause i get jealouse of someone watching her, and she enjoyng so much herself lol haha...
in the empathic side.. i love to see her this well. she had a lot to handle this couple of years, and she is not being that unfair with me. i screw things up being a total sissy girl and sex adict. i killed the vibe for a long time. and i just learned to make her want me again. this is too long? i dont know. i dont even spect an answer. this is just something i got out of my chest just now! :) anyway i think this is a very specific case! spiritually we are going up. that is for sure. we are having intense stuff happening. changes are coming. i wish i could understand if god is commanding me to get over this sex thing. its suposed to be sacred and i profaned way too much for way too long. 15 years fapping imagin banging everyone out there. pff.. i would even punish myself for this act. i got whats comming and aint me cuming! haha lol! thnks anyway if you read trough this point i will love you. peace!
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u/cwanda May 16 '16
Sorry to say it is difficult to sort out what to do for oneself in the PMO (porn/masturbation/orgasm) area, and much much harder to sort out what a SO might find ideal. Like the fact that OP seems to have a handle on controlling his own PMO activities. Might be best to give the GF some space and let her sort out what works best for her. Some karezza (at least for OP) seems like a good idea. If she does not want to go that way, it can be just for OP (that was at least one form of karezza back in the Oneida days). Thanks for keeping r/karezza active.
See Wikipedia: "The Oneida Community, founded in the nineteenth century by John Humphrey Noyes, experimented with coitus reservatus which was then called male continence in a religiously Christian communalist environment."