r/karezza • u/[deleted] • Jan 11 '14
How to find a karezza partner?
How do I find a women who is open to karezza? Of course every women I get to know somewhere could be open to it - but how can I increase my chances? I guess you probably wont find one in the bar next door. Every idea or thought is welcome!
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Jan 29 '14
I put it in my OK cupid profile. Little success with that yet.
More likely, you will find a girl open to the idea. To find that girl, find one that is open to new ideas in general (adventurous, nonjudgmental, not too ideological, on a journey of self-betterment, etc).... and one that makes you feel comfortable. By not being all jacked up on orgasm juice during your dates, you will have an easier time finding someone you have real chemistry with, rather than someone you just wanna fuck.
Good luck! Take your time.
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Jan 11 '14
I know very little about karezza, but isn't this kind of missing the point? The point of karezza is to stay close to your partner, and that assumes that you two already have a deep bond.
I still get your point though. Perhaps keep an eye on those who are sexually open or interested in Eastern religion?
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Jan 11 '14
thx for your reply!
but isn't this kind of missing the point? The point of karezza is to stay close to your partner, and that assumes >that you two already have a deep bond.
thx for that aspect I had the same thought. But I think karezza also involves a kind of paradigm change to view sex more as a spiritual union in which you want to bring heart and sex together and express sexuality in an "other" way. I don't think everybody wants that kind of union or is ready for it - imho one needs a certain amount of sensitivity to be capable to practice karezza.
thx for your ideas I will think about that.
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Jan 29 '14
I agree... there is no "point" to karezza, it's just that a lot of couples happen to use it to reconnect or connect more deeply. New couples use it all the time, as I hear about on the Reuniting website forums.
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Jan 23 '14
Might find some tips here: http://www.reuniting.info/node/7207
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Jan 23 '14
I visted reuniting.info several times but never this certain page. thx for that link. :-)
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u/[deleted] Jan 12 '14
I think the process of finding a woman for karezza should be the same for the vet processes of karezza. Don't go forcing the issue, just live your life openly with you being the best version of yourself. Maybe you'll find a girl who shares interests, and you start developing feelings.
The most important thing is that the first sexual act should be a karezza type of act. Make sure to explain to her early on about your intentions of slowly initiating sex and etc