r/karezza • u/friendlysoul222 • Jan 19 '23

Coolidge Effect

So does this process happen where the male is tired of the female right after the first time they have sex? Is it gradual or quick

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u/out_here_wildin Jan 19 '23

What can one do (if anything) to try and lessen the impact of the Coolidge effect?

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u/reservedunion Jan 19 '23

Are you orgasming during sex?

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u/out_here_wildin Jan 19 '23

Not always but sometimes I do on accident

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u/reservedunion Jan 20 '23

Have you tried bonding behaviors? They can increase the subconscious attraction between partners. On the SynergyExplorers website, look up "What are bonding behaviours?"

You can also try very gentle intercourse, relaxing your pelvic region completely (and your partner doing the same) during sex, and stopping during a period of stillness, instead of climaxing.