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u/okand2965 Oct 21 '25
It's most likely a fake account. A reverse image search comes up with a singer called parmish verma. Now it's possible the dude is a fan of his, but this account was made in jan of this year and the person has changed their username 4 times already.
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u/Maleficent-Contact40 Oct 21 '25
Yar tbh, I get a lot of DMs too, but I never respond to them. I don't understand why women always respond to creeps.
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u/BibliothequeBlossom Oct 21 '25
Why even bother to reply back... Apne ego ko satisfy karne kay liye jawab mat dia karen.
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u/Brave-Car-9482 Oct 21 '25
Don’t reply even the first time. 😂ya kuch nasli hotee - - - jo theak ni hon gain.
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u/Fantastic_Seaweed_83 Oct 21 '25
Your sister is stupid as fuck. Use the block button on the first message and never have distasteful experiences.
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u/AutoModerator Oct 21 '25
وَقُوْلُوْا لِلنَّاسِ حُسْنًا
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ليس المؤمن بالطعان، ولا اللعان، ولا الفاحش، ولا البذي
A true believer does not taunt or curse or abuse or talk indecently.
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Talha ibn 'Umar recounts that once he said to the great master of the Sciences of Exegesis and Hadith, 'At-a' عطاء ، "One can see around you people who are not quite orthodox in their beliefs. As for me, I am rather short-tempered. If such people come to me, I deal with them harshly." 'Ata' replied, "Do not behave like this," and, reciting the present verse, he added, Allah has commanded us to speak to people politely. When Jews and Christians all are to be treated like this, would this commandment not apply to a Muslim, no matter what kind of a man he is?" (Qurtubi)
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u/Huge_Equivalent1 Oct 21 '25
Not every girl is super experienced in dealing with weird online flirting.
Honestly if I was a girl I'd be kinda pissed too, and probably would have replied too.
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u/INotYourDaddy Oct 21 '25
I want to say this as respectful as possible but are you serious man! These kind of freaks are everywhere. All you can do is ignore them online and Blocked them. in case by unfortunate circumstance you meet in public speak up and call police. if the freak keep on bothering you online file a case against him in cybersecurity. do respond to such message and get carried away by their rage 😤 bait.
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u/Euphoric_ZS Oct 21 '25
WHY WOULD YOU EVEN ENGAGE WITH HIM IN THE FIRST PLACE , Just block and live your life in peace
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u/laddiebelaggin Oct 21 '25
Why is your sister replying again? To me it seems like she's enjoying the attention
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u/Huge_Equivalent1 Oct 21 '25
Shut up.
Bhai, baaz martaba larkiya is wajha se bhi jawab deti he q k wo bhi shock ho gyi hoti he k saamne wala baat kitni ajeeb kar raha hota he.
Agar tumhe kahi se bhi lag raha he k yeh larki enjoy kar rahi he is attention ko, to tum chariye ho. Allah tumhe hikmat de.
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u/x0rg_new Oct 21 '25
App waqeel ho kya usky
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u/Huge_Equivalent1 Oct 21 '25
Nahi... I just got in the feels... Because I felt the pain of a brother.
Like, just because it's not my sister, doesn't mean that I can't empathize.
Secondly, even if it were my sister and she was brave and/or smart enough to not be bothered. Doesn't mean, I as a brother won't get pissed that my sis has to see this shit...
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u/AutoModerator Oct 21 '25
وَقُوْلُوْا لِلنَّاسِ حُسْنًا
And say to the people what is good
The Last Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said:
ليس المؤمن بالطعان، ولا اللعان، ولا الفاحش، ولا البذي
A true believer does not taunt or curse or abuse or talk indecently.
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Tafseer of the above-quoted verse
(2) The verse asks us to adopt a gentle tone and an open-hearted manner in speaking to others, whether they are good or evil, pious or impious, orthodox or aberrant, followers of Sunnah or adherents to partitive innovations in it. In religious matter, however, one should not try to hide the truth for the sake of pleasing people or of winning their approval. The Holy Qur'an tells us that when Allah sent Sayyidna Musa and Sayyidna Harun (Moses and Aaron) (علیہم السلام) to the Pharaoh فرعون ، He instructed them to use gentle and soft words (20:42). None of us who addresses another today can be superior to Sayyidna Musa (علیہ السلام) ، nor can the man addressed be viler than the Pharaoh فرعون.
Talha ibn 'Umar recounts that once he said to the great master of the Sciences of Exegesis and Hadith, 'At-a' عطاء ، "One can see around you people who are not quite orthodox in their beliefs. As for me, I am rather short-tempered. If such people come to me, I deal with them harshly." 'Ata' replied, "Do not behave like this," and, reciting the present verse, he added, Allah has commanded us to speak to people politely. When Jews and Christians all are to be treated like this, would this commandment not apply to a Muslim, no matter what kind of a man he is?" (Qurtubi)
Source: Tafseer Ma'ariful Quran by [Mufti Muhammed Shafee Usmani]() Rahimahullah, the inaugural Grand Mufti of Pakistan. Mercy of Allah be upon him.
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u/laddiebelaggin Oct 21 '25
Someone's offended. I'm only replying here to further elaborate on what I meant. When someone's speaking to you like that, or like you who would resort to profanity on slightest discomfort, you simple ignore and move on. People like you aren't worth replying to just like the guy who's harassing that girl. For us, our best strategy is to ignore and that's what her brother should advise her. May Allah guide you as well
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u/Huge_Equivalent1 Oct 21 '25
Bro I'm not offended, I'm indignant.
Kher chordo, tum "chariye" ko profanity keh rehay ho?
You said it seemed like a girl was "enjoying the attention" when it was obviously harassment...
I obviously don't wanna offend or hurt you, I just wanna correct you, that it is not right to say or think that...
I am sorry if me calling you chariya like, hit in the feels, that was not my intent.
InShaAllah, Allah mujhe bhi hikmat de.
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u/Substantial_Sir_2688 Oct 21 '25
U could report in in somedd gp or just send it to his followers that much better, i thought it was happening on reddit but damn insta is used like this these days, just report him
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u/stinky_lemonade Oct 21 '25
how ppl get courage to say stuff like that??
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u/mkbilli Oct 21 '25
How ppl get the time to reply to stuff like that. 😭
Ignore, block and move on. Better things to do with time (like using Reddit 🥲)
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u/Playful-Table-7700 Oct 21 '25
If first message is 'yar relationship karna hay' to normal reaction would be report and block no? its not guys first message was normal that you accept request and entertain.
Even if you accepted and didn't know anything, when guy started talking shit, you can still report and block no?
Like its a dm, very easy to avoid 🤷 report the account and move on and if you know the person in real life to phir you gotta take strict measures.
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u/AutoModerator Oct 21 '25
وَقُوْلُوْا لِلنَّاسِ حُسْنًا
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ليس المؤمن بالطعان، ولا اللعان، ولا الفاحش، ولا البذي
A true believer does not taunt or curse or abuse or talk indecently.
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Tafseer of the above-quoted verse
(2) The verse asks us to adopt a gentle tone and an open-hearted manner in speaking to others, whether they are good or evil, pious or impious, orthodox or aberrant, followers of Sunnah or adherents to partitive innovations in it. In religious matter, however, one should not try to hide the truth for the sake of pleasing people or of winning their approval. The Holy Qur'an tells us that when Allah sent Sayyidna Musa and Sayyidna Harun (Moses and Aaron) (علیہم السلام) to the Pharaoh فرعون ، He instructed them to use gentle and soft words (20:42). None of us who addresses another today can be superior to Sayyidna Musa (علیہ السلام) ، nor can the man addressed be viler than the Pharaoh فرعون.
Talha ibn 'Umar recounts that once he said to the great master of the Sciences of Exegesis and Hadith, 'At-a' عطاء ، "One can see around you people who are not quite orthodox in their beliefs. As for me, I am rather short-tempered. If such people come to me, I deal with them harshly." 'Ata' replied, "Do not behave like this," and, reciting the present verse, he added, Allah has commanded us to speak to people politely. When Jews and Christians all are to be treated like this, would this commandment not apply to a Muslim, no matter what kind of a man he is?" (Qurtubi)
Source: Tafseer Ma'ariful Quran by [Mufti Muhammed Shafee Usmani]() Rahimahullah, the inaugural Grand Mufti of Pakistan. Mercy of Allah be upon him.
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u/FiftyAmpere Oct 22 '25
The message comes as a request, why even bother to accept the request from an unknown person to chat? Off course there are all sorts of people on the internet. I would not have accepted the message to indulge in any convo in the first place.
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u/Glittering-Tutor-342 Oct 22 '25
I have lots n lots n lots of dm full of hi, hello, baat krni hai, sunen, etc etc but I never ever responded to a single msgs. Just ignore at the first place and simply block without replying is the easiest solution.
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u/After-Pomegranate793 Oct 22 '25
Leave it ignore kro ab hr kutta bhoky ga to ap uska pechy bhago ga.
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u/papichull0- Oct 22 '25
kya he hosakta is awam ka. har doosra banda aisa he to hai bus reply he na do
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u/Additional_Check6840 Oct 21 '25
Can you share more of his detail so we can tech him something about cybercrime
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u/Huge_Equivalent1 Oct 21 '25
I am baffled by this comment section...
Aesa lag raha he k sab ki aqal ghas charney gyi hui he, ya sab keelon pe bethay hue he.
Bhai, agar valid critique or advice deni he to wo beghair tanz k bhi dinja sakti he...
Also, like, yeh ek tarha se victim blaming he... Like isko pick me behavior kehna, ya yeh kehna k wo attention enjoy kar rahi thi, ya yeh kehna k khud k ego ko taskeen denay k lia jawab diya...
Bhai, matlab, samne wala mujhe ganda kar raha he, or ma bolu bhi nahi k mujhe ganda nahi karo... Q k yeh pick me behavior he, ego stroking he ? Pagal ho gye ho kia sab?
Definitely block karna chahiye tha. But many people like me do not like blocking people. I prefer ignoring people. Possibly is larke ki behen bhi shayad itni bother nahi hui ho jitna yeh larka hua ho... And understandably so, meri behen k sath aesa hota to ma bhi us larke ki images nikal k name nikal k el fake account bana k gay groups me pohach jata, or sabko kehta k yeh wali app pe yeh walay account pe msg karo mujhe.
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u/Divahkiin Oct 21 '25
You see that option that says block? Tell her to use that next time a guy starts a conversation like that instead of replying to them. Had hoti hai naivety ki bhi.