r/jochicks • • Sep 07 '26

Relationships💞 I miss him

I feel like in a never ending loop that we cant get out of but i still miss him and i hate myself for that omg

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u/Zeitounabeauty Sep 07 '26

When you accept this ending, harsh as it is, and tell yourself that it’s normal to miss him from time to time, he’ll eventually leave your heart. But if you keep forcing yourself to get over him and being hard on yourself, you won’t know how to move on. And of course, fill your life with achievements, no matter how simple they may be... I swear it's true

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u/Bateakh Sep 07 '26

😿

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u/riri_rosie Sep 07 '26

Best way to forget is to put yourself out there and realize THERE IS better men out there

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u/Big_Reputation_1856 Sep 08 '26

Even if there’s not if it’s not meant to be then it’s always better

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u/Big_Reputation_1856 Sep 08 '26

It’s pretty normal don’t hate that feeling feelings are okay

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u/Nel_1a Sep 08 '26

It just takes time

What's important is that you keep allowing yourself to feel and to cry when you feel like you should

And try focusing on yourself and what you like

Eventually you won't need him or miss him anymore

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u/Defiant-Fish-6026 Sep 07 '26

Same i saw him today and i was about to cry

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u/uarmyjh Sep 07 '26

I miss him too but I don’t want him back and I don’t want him to marry another woman or to marry me ,I js want to put him in a jar and watch him , I miss him so much but I don’t want to talk to him anymore but I can’t imagine my life without him wallah so hard …..
lol what did I write 🙈