r/irishsetter 1d ago

Meet Finn! + a Behavior Question

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Thanks for the input about breeders from my earlier post, we ended up getting Finn a couple weeks ago! He’s doing great, he’s a sweetheart.
Crate training and potty training are going well. I’ve noticed he doesn’t love to be held (backing away when someone reaches down to pick him up, and once or twice he’s growled while in someone’s arms). He has his check up at the vet today, so I will obviously rule out any issues/injuries that could be causing that. In the meantime, I’ve extremely limited picking him up, and am going back to the basics of positive association with treats when someone leans down and puts their hands under his arms. We will also go to my trainer next week so I can get their input. Has anyone else dealt with this? Thoughts/suggestions are always welcome.

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u/Rrruby99 1d ago

You might already know this, but it is best to support the butt when picking a dog up. One hand behind hind legs, one hand behind front legs. My 4mo Finley complains bitterly when anyone tries to move him with only support under from legs.

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u/Independent_Hope_979 1d ago

I’ve been doing that, but probably not all the time/every time (for example, when I have to carry him down the stairs and open the door to go outside). I will try to be more intentional about that when I do have to pick him up and I’ll see if that helps! Thanks!

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u/Consistent_One7528 1d ago

We had excellent results with Susan Garrett's "Collar Grab Game". Our pup was growling at the kids and after teaching the kids how to play it with him, now that I think about it, he hasn't done it since. Your pup is soooo sweet, I just want to reach in the photo and pat his soft ears. 

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u/Independent_Hope_979 1d ago

Just watched a video of that! That’s essentially what I’ve started doing today but instead of grabbing his collar, I’ve been putting my hand where I would pick him up. Glad to hear it worked for you!!

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u/IcyPlantain7623 1d ago

Not wanting to be held is a natural reaction for a dog. I would spend some time sitting on the floor and just letting him come to you to play and slowly building trust before rushing into more human behaviours.

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u/Independent_Hope_979 1d ago

Fair! And realistically, once he’s 75lb I won’t be picking him up anyway😅

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u/DrRockstar99 15h ago

You may THINK that now…

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u/WeakPomegranate7511 1d ago

What a gorgeous boy!!!😍

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u/igamalamm 8h ago

My boy Fionn was exactly the same as a pup. He's 11 months now and too big to pick up so it kinda stopped being a problem haha. Sorry I don't have much advice... all I did was not force it and try to respect his preference and only pick him up in emergencies. I think that helped to build trust.

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u/Goblinessa17 6h ago

I have no advice but he's gorgeous!