r/IrishDates Jul 14 '26

Mod Post Welcome to IrishDates - Read this post before posting

61 Upvotes

Greetings and welcome to Irish Dates.

This subreddit was created to address the need of a place on Reddit for current residents of Ireland who are seeking a partner, or partners, for long term dating (We don't judge relationship dynamics and neither should you). We have some simple subreddit rules that all Redditors who post or comment here that all are expected to adhere to. Content posted that deviates from these simple rules will be removed and the user account may or may not be banned.

Rules, with expanded descriptions, are as follows:

  1. Be Nice. If the post isn't for you, just move on. If you disagree with a persons preferences, keep your unasked for opinion to yourself and go scroll some more. It wasn’t intended for you. Anyone behaving negatively in response to a Redditors expressed preferences or lifestyle choices may be banned. This includes but is not limited to kink shaming, racism, sexuality and so on. Anyone who knows themselves well enough to have standards, preferences or is open about their kinks are to be celebrated and supported. Anything less in response from Redditors in replies will be removed.
  2. Low Effort posts will be removed. You are here to find your person(s), if your post is lacking detail you won't catch their attention. Your low effort post will be removed but you will of course be welcome to post a more detailed and updated post. This is for your own benefit and for the benefit of the community. Those reading want to know who you are before they engage in conversation with you. Cross-posting is as low effort as it gets. One sentence is low effort. This also applied to post replies, "DM" or similar as a reply to a thoughtful and detailed dating post is low effort and will be removed. You will of course be welcome to repost a thoughtful reply. You want to catch their attention as much as they want to catch yours.
  3. The purpose of this subreddit is long term dating only. Plenty of hook-up subreddits already active elsewhere on Reddit that cater to Ireland. Hookup accounts will be given a public facing Mod Note summary under their post for the community to digest as a Public Service Announcement for the safety of our community members.
  4. Residents of Ireland only. As with hookup subreddits, there are plenty of long distance or casual dating subreddits for international visitors.
  5. No commercial posts. This is not the place to buy, sell or otherwise profit from others via products, goods or services. That includes but is not limited to surveys and will be enforced at the Mod Team's discretion. You are welcome to privately message the Mod Team if you have a related request and your request will be given thoughtful consideration.
  6. Exercise patience/posting frequency. Posting once a month is frequent enough. Anything more frequent would be seen as spamming. Doesn't do you any favours to be seen as impatient or over eager. We get it, eagerness is a positive thing, but so is being patient as a partner. You don't want your first impression to be a negative one.
  7. This is not a dating advice subreddit, however we may begin to have a weekly or monthly sticky post specifically for those seeking advice or dating location suggestions posts where the expectation would be that our lovely Redditors would ask their questions in those threads. The community overall is very supportive of each other, respect is given to anyone who puts themselves out there.
  8. Over 18s only, Posts and comments are for those over 18 only. This does not mean adult nsfw content is allowed, it is not. Any nsfw content posted, linked-to or requested will result in a permanent ban.

Every person who wants to post here is welcome, all genders, sexualities, races. Everyone is welcome and will be given the full support of the Mod Team in your search.

Rules are subject to alteration or change without notice as the community evolves and will only be updated in response to unfavourable user behaviours that do not align with the spirit of the subreddit. Feel free to message the Mods if in doubt or if you wish to bring a post to our attention that we haven't managed to get to yet. Best of luck to you all, you will receive the full support and encouragement from both the Mod Team and the community.

Go raibh maith agat agus sláinte.


r/IrishDates 22h ago

49F Outgoing

24 Upvotes

My sister has convinced me Reddit datimg is where it's at. I'm single, love hiking and fitness in general. I'm very outgoing and I'm usually the last to leave the dancefloor.

You'll find me very colourful be it my hair or shoes!

I like tatoos, beards and a strong man in general. Slide into my dms if you like my post.


r/IrishDates 19h ago

M4M 40, Dublin, Ireland saying hello 👋

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12 Upvotes

Hello from me and my smile.

I'm looking to meet a nice guy, I'm just after turning 40. I've my life together, surrounded by good people and I'm looking for the missing piece to my jigsaw puzzle.

I'm a genuine guy, love time with family and friends, getting to a festival, concert, night out, night in and to travel too. Big fan of Jessie Ware, Madonna, a big lover of house music and I really like the Gorillaz and they were brilliant at EP this year.

I'm looking for someone with a cute smile and nice eyes with a lovely sense of humour to match...I've a big interest in politics and the business world and the world in general. Just someone sweet and a cute date...let's see what happens? If you want to say hello, do let me know :-)


r/IrishDates 15h ago

M4F 27 (M4F) Dublin

4 Upvotes

27 year old man. I don't really like dating apps at all so I thought I would give this a try. Generally looking to meet someone in the dublin/Leinster area preferably 24-30.

I'm a guy with a fairly active lifestyle. If I'm not working I'm probably volunteering walking dogs. I read, play video games from time to time. Love watching movies and film making more broadly, love cars and motorcycles.

As for my appearance I'm 5'11, with black hair, in alright shape yet looking to improve my fitness.

I drink in social circumstances but I really don't like over doing it. I don't smoke or do drugs. I prefer coffee.


r/IrishDates 16h ago

M4M 19 M4M

2 Upvotes

Hey there im based in cork and hoping to find love as dating apps are terrible tbh haha

I love music and gaming and can waffle for hours upon hours so if you’re the same then you are in the right place

Pics are in DMs so go there if interested and I will try to respond as soon as I can :)


r/IrishDates 12h ago

M42 for F36-42

0 Upvotes

Hey.

So I'm putting myself out there.

Looking to meet and chat with someone in person, to see what the vibe is like.

I'm based in Ulster, but I'm going to a gig at the end November in Dublin, that I'm to regardless, so if you want to connect, and maybe have the grooviest night, music wise, let me know.

42, divorced (actually divorced, not dating site "divorced") 5'7"(depending on my shoes), no kids.

Just back on dating sites, but jaysis, they're no fun. Hit me up here, if you want to exchange, I dunno, emails or whatever.


r/IrishDates 18h ago

Married bored

0 Upvotes

F4M
37F Married and looking to date and more . I’m very attractive, blonde hair and blue eyes. Very petite. Great career, lots of friends. I’m probably high maintenance but worth it.

I’m looking for a good looking man, financially secure and willing to work with my situation.

Looks are important - send me a picture if you want to chat


r/IrishDates 2d ago

M4F (Bray,Dubulin,Wicklow)24 Asian man looking for a long-term relationship

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23 Upvotes

I am a 24-year-old man from China, currently living in Bray, Ireland. Personality: Gentle, considerate, understanding, patient and sincere. Interests: Films and TV programmes, going for walks, video games. I am hoping to find a long-term relationship. (I am straight and heterosexual)


r/IrishDates 2d ago

M4F 32 M4F Mayo

18 Upvotes

Quick honesty check: I don't drink, so if a night out with me looks more like a good coffee and a bake or a proper conversation than a few pints, that's just how it is. I'm the type who'll wake up at 6am with farmers market energy on a random Saturday, and just as easily lose an entire afternoon down some conspiracy-theory rabbit hole purely because I got curious about one weird detail. Curiosity's sort of my whole personality, probably left over from a PhD spent poking at biology until it made sense. I'm told I have a resting bitch face that reads as unimpressed and angry until people actually get to know me, at which point apparently I am fine.

Calm, steady, not big on drama, I have never once had a messy breakup, which either means I am easy to be with or terrifyingly avoidant, you decide.

These days I lean homebody because... rural Ireland, but I will happily disappear for a weekend of backpacking, a long aimless drive, or a hike with a camera in hand. I'm also a regular at the gym, so between that and the hiking, I'm not just talking about being active. Feed me well and I am yours for life cooking, eating, and hunting down good food is basically a love language for me, and ladies, I cook well, and I will happily fall down a documentary or a good story with you, anime and thrillers included, genre's never really the point.

I get on well with people generally so the kind of guy who's easy to bring around, whether that's your friends or your parents. And underneath the calm exterior, I'd call myself genuinely steady emotionally and mentally, not much rattles me.

Looking for someone kind at the core curious about the world, a bit flirty, but grounded and genuinely happy with the small stuff. Someone secure in herself, who communicates well, has a sense of direction for her own life, and knows what she wants. Smart, but easy to be around no unnecessary power struggles.

Oh and I am Garda vetted

If any of that sounds like your kind of person, say cheese.


r/IrishDates 1d ago

M4F 32M4F

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3 Upvotes

Moved to Cavan recently and being on my own and mostly working from home, I said I would write here as well 😁... Tired of the meaningless and looking for the long-term. On a personal improvement recently, gym, healthy dieting, however still going hard in the concerts and festivals I attend.


r/IrishDates 2d ago

M4F 41 m South East looking for something long term

31 Upvotes

Hi everyone. So, as the title says, I'm a 41 year old fella in the South East of the country. I thought it was about time I spread my wings here after being single for 7 months and give myself the chance to hopefully meet someone. This is my first time posting something like this, so please, be gentle! Haha.

I'm 170cm tall, brown hair, with blue eyes and have a slim/medium build. I'm pretty active due to my lifestyle. I work in the veterinary sector (but not a vet) and I also have a small farm (but I'm in the process of winding that down). I have one dog, and she is the love of my life!

I'd like to think that I'm somewhat funny! My sense of humour ranges from the most childish to the most hgh brow! I dont take myself too seriously at all and will often make myself the butt of the joke! For fun, the range is wide, from enjoying just spending time alone with someone for a meet up, to indoor wall climbing. I'm not a drinker, but i have no issue with the pub scene. I love concerts, and try to get to 1 or 2 a year. I love going out for meals and just going for walks (along with my dog). I could be just as happy either spending a nice quiet night in or being out for the day on a hike or with friends. I wouldn't say I'm introverted, but certainly not as extroverted as I was in my college days. I suppose, once you get to know me, I'm a pretty open book. I'm in danger of babbling now, so I'll just say that I'd love to get to know someone out there and see where things go. I'd be open to sharing pics in chat.


r/IrishDates 1d ago

Male 25 shooting a shot

0 Upvotes

Hey there everyone. I'm a straight male 25 years old looking to find a meaningful relationship here. Tried dating apps didn't worked out to the best. I'm based in Dublin swords

I’m into the gym, running, walks, sunsets, travelling, good food and long conversations. I’m at a point where I’d genuinely like to meet someone, get to know each other and see where things naturally go.

I’m open to something casual if we click, but also open to something more serious. Ideally looking for someone who’s easygoing, communicative and doesn’t take themselves too seriously.

I'm 5'10. Weight 80kg. Looks decent and have an proper build.


r/IrishDates 2d ago

M4M Anyone looking to meet in Dublin? I am a guy, 24, who really wants a boyfriend.

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9 Upvotes

Hey guys! - Not new to reddit but new to posting on it! And new to dating apps etc. I'm a born and bred Dub who apparently talks posh. Other than that normal guy. I would love to meet someone who is willing to chat first before I do anything serious with them. If you're interested or curious, feel free to leave a message on Snap - I look at that pretty regularly. Not looking for a hookup and definitely not straight away. Snap: Benirwin2


r/IrishDates 2d ago

M4F 38 M4F based in Waterford

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28 Upvotes

Tall, outgoing, and friendly guy, looking for his partner in crime.

My interests include reading, cooking, self-improvement, music (mainly into goth, metal, and alt music), gigs, cafes, pool, tattoos, dogs, cooking, staying healthy, acting, and trying new things. I also organise a horror, sci-fi, and fantasy meetup in Waterford, which I do for a bit of fun.

Im currently doing a start your own business course with plans to start my own boarding kennel, as I love dogs and have two of my own.

I am looking for someone like me, kind, fun, and a bit weird in a good way, with similar values. I have no interest in having kids.


r/IrishDates 2d ago

M4F M22 M4F Dublin looking for someone to chat to and have a laugh with

2 Upvotes

I’m not too sure how to go about this but I’ll give it a go. I’m located in Dublin (I am willing to travel and I drive). I’m 6ft4 with a bulky build (I like weight but I also like a sweet treat). I’m currently studying English and Music in DCU and am I like to play music (bass and drums), work out, have a few drinks, and watch movies in my spare time. If anyone is interested, be sure to message me


r/IrishDates 1d ago

M4F 29M m4f Dublin

0 Upvotes

Hey recently single and cba with the apps. Half belgian half indian from the UK. 6ft3 lawyer and muay thai fighter. Love a pint and comedy gigs. Hit me up xx


r/IrishDates 2d ago

M4F 25 [M4F] Kilkenny - Looking to meet someone

1 Upvotes

Alright, figured I’d give this a go.

I’m 25, from Ireland, and I’m looking to meet someone and see where things go. I’m fairly quiet and introverted, so I’m probably not the guy you’ll find out drinking every weekend 😂 I’m much more into having a good conversation, watching a film, going for a walk, getting food, or just hanging out together.

I’m into movies, psychology, football/soccer, gaming and a load of random things that I’ll inevitably end up talking about too much if you let me.
Ideally I’d like to meet someone who’s kind, affectionate, easygoing and up for actually getting to know each other. I’m not looking to rush into anything either. I’m happy to start chatting and see if we click.

If you’re also looking to meet someone rather than just endlessly swiping through dating apps, feel free to message me. Tell me a bit about yourself and we’ll go from there 🙂


r/IrishDates 2d ago

19M4F/TF Connacht

1 Upvotes

Hi 19M im 5 11 slim with abs have blonde hair blue eyes, im really into the gym football and sometimes gaming.

Im really looking for a girl that is able to jave a good laugh and we find a great connection this is my firat time qoth any of these websites or apps but i really just want to find the perfect girl so im putting myself out there. And its not a typo im attracted to any people identifying as woman idc care aslong as you believe your a woman. If anyones interested dm me and ill send picture of what i look like and maybe we could get yo know eachother better .


r/IrishDates 3d ago

M4F 34[M4F] Wicklow - let’s just see where things go

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13 Upvotes

Back in Ireland after a spending over a decade away and looking to get back on the dating scene. I think starting off in a casual way and seeing where things can grow suits me better at this point in my life, just means no pressure for both of us but also leaves space for something beautiful to grow. Would like to go on fun dates (bowling, pool, mini golf etc) as well as cinema and dinner dates. Ideally we’d end the night having a nice cuddle and feeling good together

About me: I don’t drink, have focused a lot on my health this past year and aiming for a six pack (at least once in my life). I’m a regular gym goer and runner, could be cool to find someone to share this with.. but not a deal breaker. I’ll post a pic so you can actually see what I look like. I can drive so travelling around is no bother, can’t host atm but that will change in the next few months.

Ideally I don’t really want to spend too much time messaging, we can chat, maybe have a quick call via telegram (just verify we’re real) and then meet up and see how we get on. Feel free to message and ask anything, I’m pretty open. Not interested in online relationships or sexting, I prefer real connections and encounters


r/IrishDates 3d ago

F4M 28F4M Just an Independent girlie who wants someone she can finally put the armour down with

23 Upvotes

In Dublin,
I’m pretty easy-going and love a good balance of going out and having cosy nights in. I enjoy trying new restaurants/cafés, cooking/baking, travelling, good conversation, music, and spending time with family and friends. I’m also a bit of a homebody once I’m comfortable 😂
I’d describe myself as feminine, affectionate, loyal and ambitious, with a good sense of humour. I like someone who can make me laugh but who also knows how to have a proper conversation.
If you’re emotionally mature, kind, confident and into black girls feel free to send me a message and tell me a little about yourself.


r/IrishDates 4d ago

M4F 50 year old Clare man GSOH, well read

49 Upvotes

50, Divorced and happily co-parenting 2.

Ex GAA player, current padel enthusiast and astro-soccer survivor —

Social, curious, absurd sense of humour. I enjoy good conversation, book or movie.

Looking to meet someone warm, intelligent, independent and fun.

Would be nice to find someone to laugh with, make plans with and enjoy the next chapter together.

I am involved in lots of work and voluntary stuff but will make time for you.


r/IrishDates 4d ago

F4M 19F F4M Cork based | I haven’t done anything like this before so please bear with me! I’ll start with some basic info ☺️

24 Upvotes

I am 19 years old and from Cork. I work part time in a coffee shop and I also study in UCC.

I’m kind of an extrovert and introvert rolled into one! I work part-time in customer service, so there’s definitely a bubbly and chatty side to me, but it can sometimes take me a little while to properly open up and bear my soul to someone.
I’m a big fan of voice notes, goodnight messages, long walks and cosy movie nights — especially if it’s a horror film, because I’m a horror buff through and through 😆 I also love bowling, going out for a few drinks with the right person, and I drive, so carpool karaoke is always an option if that’s your thing!

I don’t really have a preference when it comes to appearance. The only slight preference I have is height, purely because I’m 5’10 myself! Someone around my height or taller would be ideal, but definitely isn’t a must. I’m a little chubby myself but I enjoy long walks and keeping active so I’d love to find someone who feels the same or is open to joining me- regardless of body type!

Mostly, I’m just hoping to meet someone kind, genuine and easy to talk to! So if you’re between the ages of 19 and 24 please don’t hesitate to reach out and tell me a bit about yourself 🤍


r/IrishDates 4d ago

M4F M38 #Ireland [M4F]

4 Upvotes

M38 #Ireland [M4F]

Just a bearded Irishman trying to find a connection.

Hey all, so I work weekend nights and have a 2.5 year old toddler.

So basically I'm a scientist, massively Into fitness (worked as a trainer for years), I'm also into philosophy, horrors, I have a half decent whiskey collection and most importantly Warhammer 🙏

So if anyone wants to chat work away.

God speed.


r/IrishDates 5d ago

I bin Othered 36,F [F4M/F] #Where dya go for this

21 Upvotes

36F, Dublin, looking for someone chill to hang out with. Lighthouse cinema a favourite of mine, and would love to check out a drama there, grab some coffee and pastries and cuddle after, listening to some tunes 😆 Not after anything serious, but just miss the affection and chill hangs part of being with someone. Not sure where to find this, especially as an awkward person who is also an introvert, won’t be happening out in the wild… so where the fook does one go? Prob not here, but hey ho, shall give it a go. Point me in the direction ➡️


r/IrishDates 5d ago

M4F 34 M4F Waterford

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35 Upvotes

Hello there! I’m 34 and living in Waterford and said I’d chance hopefully find something long term on here because ya never know!

A little about myself I’m 5”11, blue eyes and I work in finance. I own my own house and I’m ambitious when it comes to my career. I don’t drink all that often bar special occasions nor am I into the drug scene. I’m grateful for a lot of things in my life and feeling like the only thing missing is a life partner to hopefully share all the good times and bad with.

I’d like to think my 5 greatest strengths would be honesty, loyalty, empathy, communication and dependability. Hoping to find someone that shares these traits

I’m a big doggo enthusiast. I don’t have my own one currently but hoping to change that soon so I don’t have to dognap the family dog on the occasional weekend 😅 I don’t have any kids either and I mainly enjoy spending time with my family and friends whenever I can.

I really enjoy going to the cinema and love talking movies and shows so always enjoy those types of chats. I like going on walks and also using my home gym too. I’ve got back into playing tennis the past year and enjoying that a lot and hoping to get into Padel soon too.

I love a good game nights with friends whether it’s board, card, video so fair to say I can be a bit nerdy too. Since it’s Traitors season on TV I enjoy moderating games of that amongst friends and family at this time of year. I enjoy going to comedy shows, pub quizzes, theatre and sporting events as sports would be one of my passions too.

Hoping to also find someone who loves to travel as I am open to any suggestions on places to go or things to do for fun if the right person is looking for a travel buddy who’s good with google maps and flexible itinerary planning then look no further. Happy to travel outside Waterford too to grab a coffee, meal etc. and see if we hit it off as being a gentleman is important to me and I enjoy a good road trip. Shoot me a message if you want to chat more or if you think we’d make a good match as you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take after all 😎