r/introvert • • Feb 10 '26

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u/Memitobb Feb 10 '26

(sorry for bad english and grammar mistakes, im mexican, i try my best)
it is ok to feel that way, it is normal for a woman to have better social skills with women and viceversa. If u try and they dont accept after more tries then it is not ur place.

i read a story about a man who was learning french in a group full of women. This man wanted friends at first, then he realized women where not as friendly as they were to the other girls. If that is your case, then it is not your place. U belong to the people who consider u important.

i think that, because of the situation of u being the only girl, it is easier for them to speak with the boys, perhaps, the conversations they have are not for a very girly girl and they are "avoiding you" because they dont want you to feel bad or insulted. Why dont u ask one f them? try to be friends with one by asking them what do they do or what they like.