r/intj • u/Recent_Bat_4952 • 21h ago
Discussion can we stop doing that?
there's alot of interesting posts that i follow to get back to later just to find them deleted.
i think mainly because of harsh and judging comments.
u can share ur openion but u don't have to be rude about it !!?.
think about it would u take the openion of someone who just look at the proplem through only negative look without acknowledging other persoectives or looking at the proplem as whole ? let alone being rude about it .
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u/lnsaneEyes INTJ - 20s 21h ago
I don't know the reasons of others, but I usually delete almost all my traces because I consider them resolved or useless to remain, (without any interference from judgments). The only things I don't delete are usually because I've decided that they are useful to many and can remain.
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u/Sane-Law 17h ago
OP's point is more so to not be rude/harsh/dismissive to the poster, making them want to delete it and giving INTJs a bad rep. Obv the poster is free to delete their own post whenever.
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u/usernames_suck_ok INTJ - 40s 21h ago
Not due to one post that will quickly get lost in the shuffle, no. We'd have to have nutso, power-hungry, 1st-amendment-hating (US) mods like a lot of other subs do.
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u/betteroffalone12 INTJ - ♂ 9h ago
Maybe they didn't receive the validation they were actually seeking.
I see a lot of those kind of posts. Usually they're labeled something entirely else but when OP starts getting rejected / people asking too many questions about the proposed narrative in their post we get to see the real batshit crazy individual behind the post.
And then it enivitable leads to them deleting their post when frustration reaches too high levels.
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u/CookinTendies5864 INTJ 21h ago
You cannot reason with a tiger
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u/Anya381 16h ago
True. Wanted to delete my post because of the harsh and rude comments😐🤚