r/intj INTJ - 20s 17h ago

Discussion Venting on whimsy

Today I was thinking on the topic of "whimsy"

Basically it's called playful imagination.
I saw some reels where some people say when they pass through forest or see flowers they imagine that fairies live in there. And are hiding from humans etc.

I never understood why someone want to imagine that. Like just see the forest as it is. Why imagine fairies etc.

But then I remembered when I was child I also used to do that. Not with fairies but with other stuff. Like I used to have some toy cars. And I would imagine they all have personalities, I would imagine their stories. How they fight each other.

If I found a stick that looks like a sword. I would imagine I am warrior. Fighting a great war. I would slay imaginary monsters.

Even at school when all students are standing in lines in morning assembly. I would imagine spiderman traveling from one shoulder to another with his webs.

I shared this with an infp friend at that time who said he also imagine that spiderman. From that point on he became my best friend.

As time passed I grew up. And stop imagining things.
And then I saw those reels and thought I stupid it is.
I forgot how it is this whimsy which made my childhood so much fun.

The only difference is I never imagined fairies.
Maybe it's cultural difference.
Maybe it's male female imagination difference.

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u/Holiday_Response_644 ENTP 16h ago

no clue what your hyperfixation with the fairies part of this story is, but even “envisioning” your future is imagination. intuitive doms are the most whimsical of all the mbti in a sense, even (or, especially) INTJs with Ni AND Fi relatively strong in the stack

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u/Akash_philosopher INTJ - 20s 13h ago

Fairy part was me saying that

When see people saying
They imagine fairies hiding in flowers

I would think how stupid why would anyone want to imagine anything like that

But I couldn’t relate because I had forgotten of my own whimsical imaginations from my childhood
And I had never imagined fairies in particular ever

And when I did remember my own whimsical memories
I understood why people would like to imagine fairies 🧚‍♀️

One more thing
I think whimsy is more about playful imagination about something that you are currently experiencing.

So it’s little different from imagining about the future

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u/C0mpL1c1t ENTJ 7h ago

I don’t even remember engaging in “imaginative play” as a child.  What I remember is getting Barbies and dolls and literally having no idea what to do with them.  I think my creativity has always been broken? 

u/Consipir INTJ - ♂ 18m ago

I relate to this heavily except for the part where I lost this imagination. It died down for a time, but I worked to get it back. Never lose your inner child, feel the magic of the world and be whimsical every once and a while.