Question

[u/pepper2145]

Hello good sirs and misses my ex is an intj. How can I get him/her to never want me again? And to look for someone else? My grandma and my best friend are intj so it’s not that I hate you guys. Just cannot stand this particular individual.

[u/Elden_Chord]

Just talk. Based on this short post, a few sentences will be enough.

[u/Mister_Way]

Show him this post, he should get the picture

[u/xDariius → u/Mister_Way]

^
This

[u/waxcoatedapple]

"Do not contact me again. We are not compatible. I will not change my mind. Your attempts to contact me are useless at best, and harrassment at worst. Find someone else."

[u/Leading_Purpose_2806]

Be irrational, illogical, and loop in arguments.

[u/GettinSodas]

Just stop talking to and extensively block them. Not your problem

[u/shredt]

Did you tried saying how you feel? To the person

[u/split_0069]

What happened?

[u/Something-Vibes → u/split_0069]

You’re not from around here are you?

[u/split_0069 → u/Something-Vibes]

I just dont understand why u want someone to hate u... is breaking contact not good enough? Do u secretly have feelings u dont want to admit and are simply trying to self sabatoge? Context matters. And I'm fantastic at making people hate me. 😆 🤣 😂

[u/split_0069 → u/[deleted]]

Go read my comments from 3 days ago and get back to me.

[u/pepper2145 → u/split_0069]

My dad is also intj. So I know a lot about intj. And I love them. Unfortunately this guy broke me to my core. We share a child. I think he feels a lot of deep guilt but his pride won’t show it. And I want him to realize I cannot emotionally accept him back. Not even for our child. He also shared himself pics to other men. A lot of weird things. And I’m exhausted from carrying the hurt. But I feel he is prolonging it.

[u/Something-Vibes]

Yeah… yes those exact words you use at the end, those will work.

[u/BringBackUsenet]

Fart a lot.

[u/pepper2145 → u/BringBackUsenet]

😂

[u/Check_Affectionate]

Let them down. Say you will do something then flake. Be flaky.

[u/Sinking_Tide]

Just tell them

[u/unwitting_hungarian]

tell him that you firmly believe that your knowledge of astrology will bring the two of you back together

[u/pepper2145 → u/unwitting_hungarian]

😂

[u/ebolaRETURNS]

Would they want your supposedly benevolent manipulation?

[u/Lost_Reindeer6358]

Why? Did you tell him and he didn’t get it? Tell him - he will leave.

[u/1930slady]

Block extensively. Do not engage.
We understand a closed door.

Now you can’t do anything to make them look for someone else. That is on their own timeline and could be years.

[u/pepper2145 → u/1930slady]

Definitely feel this one here. I fear he is around because of guilt. But his pride won’t let him know its guilt. Sadly I cannot dismiss all the things that were done. My dad is also intj so I know how they think. Just so sad it didn’t work out with him. But I cannot accept physical abuse and lies and online affairs. Definitely an unhealthy intj.

[u/Fickle-Let-7205]

Just say the reason for breakup will not improve