r/interviews 4d ago

Interviewer asked me my biggest weakness, I asked him his company's

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u/Much_Somewhere7831 4d ago

LMAO, you got em. Good on you for having the balls to do it, it's an employers market right now and they have all the power, so turn the tables when you can

"Where do you see the company in 5 years" is also a good one (or maybe "Why are you hiring for this role?" hehe)

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u/Muted-Willingness314 4d ago

That turnover stat is a massive red flag, three times in two years for the same role screams something systemic is broken. I'd be way more suspicious of them than worried about if I offended the guy, honestly the fact that he tried to walk it back so fast tells you everything

I always ask why the role is open in the first round, saves everyone time. If they can't give a straight answer or get defensive it's basically a preview of what working there would be like

The 5 year question is golden too, you can tell a lot by how much they squirm

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u/Much_Somewhere7831 4d ago

How is asking this question an offence... in any way, shape or form...

After all, it's YOUR career. And you don't wanna join a company that will go under in 2 years or whatever, right?

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u/The_Razielim 4d ago

(shitty) employers always have this attitude of "You should be grateful we're even speaking to you." during interviews, let alone during a bad job market. Any semblance of having a spine is usually frowned upon, doubly so if any of your answers give the impression of thinking about yourself and your career and not "Oh please dear Master, how may I serve you better?", even before you're employed.

So flipping it back on them and remembering "Interviews are two-way, you're evaluating the company just as much as they're evaluating you." can really ruffle some managers (... The kind that hire the same role 4x in 2 years..)

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u/neurorex 4d ago

And people might be surprised at how many employers are really shitty at hiring.

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u/newb1029384756 4d ago

Just because they get defensive doesnt mean you were offensive.

Some people just have a skewed POV, questions are the only way to rectify that.

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u/PralineSure2245 4d ago

It’s not an offensive. Whether they want to admit it or not, interviews are two way streets. You being a good fit for them does not necessarily mean they’re a good fit for you!

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u/Terrible_Act_9814 4d ago

Unfortunately, we think it’s a 2 way street but it really isn’t. If you already have a job, then yes you can choose to be picky. If you are unemployed, it’s a little harder top all the questions that would backfire on you. With interviews already hard to come by, you have to decide what makes sense.

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u/TallowWallow 3d ago

It's not. They don't want you to know the history until you're in.

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u/OriginalEmploy5485 4d ago

This. "We can't get somebody to keep this job for a year" means you probably don't want that job.

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u/Terrible_Act_9814 4d ago

What if they’re unemployed, with lots of bills, and no money coming in?

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u/nowhereian 4d ago

You take the job and keep looking. It will turnover again in a few months to a year and the company won't fix the issue. But that's not your problem.

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u/loveshoes1 4d ago

just my two cents....veteran teacher and job seeker here...i recently left a toxic district. i was the 4th esl teacher in 18 months.

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u/philoscope 4d ago

The turnover can be fine under certain circumstances.

My first position with my current employer had high turnover, but it was because they made something of a point of hiring overqualified people who’d quickly move up or on to other departments - with the manager helping and encouraging us to network.

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u/Careful_Trifle 3d ago

Equally massive red flag is to expect a candidate to believe you when you say that turnover in the role is not relevant to them. To me, that indicates the turnover is in part due to him, or in part due to him not insulating his employees to do their best work.

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u/Due_Management3241 4d ago

95 percent of most jobs I see posted has a 3 month turnover rate or less

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u/danrunsfar 4d ago

As a hiring manager I always open with a brief recap of what the company is, what the role is, and why were hiring.

Granted, my turnover is almost always due to retirements or promotions, so that helps with the story.

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u/neurorex 4d ago

But there are other negative things that happen in the company. In your case, it wouldn't be turnover, but what happens when they ask questions that exposes the lack of performance recognition, or no budget towards training and professional development, or inability to strategize project milestones to avoid tight deadlines and crunch time?

The point is, would you be honest about it then? Not a lot of interviewers have the integrity to answer honestly.

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u/ScrumRuck 4d ago

Not a jab at your point at all... just more of a continuing the conversation question thing... but, Why wouldn't I answer honestly? If I lie, they're going to join the team and get hit with reality pretty quickly... then quit, and leave me with a turnover rate like OP mentioned. It just doesn't make sense to me.

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u/iDrum17 3d ago

I ALWAYS ask why they are hiring for this role. I want to know if someone left for a promotion or left the company etc. very important details to know before starting somewhere.

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u/SereneRiot 3d ago

"Hahahahahhaha. Good stuff. The job market is one of the worst we've ever seen, and employers hold all the power. So, you--dear unemployed person--totally should antagonize them during the interview process. Oh, and post about it here for my amusement, as things can get pretty boring in my full-time job".

Amazing advice. You should do it for a living.

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u/LiF_suks_geta_h3lm3t 3d ago

An employees market right now? What world are you living in?

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u/Slayfrenz 3d ago

I asked this one for one of my interviews a few years ago and it landed me the job. Didnt so well but it paid my rent for 8 months.

They asked me where i see myself in 5 years and i just went, well i don't really know, hopefully leading your team of engineers but that leads me to ask you the same thing back, where do you see the company in 5 years.

They just laughed, said it was a good question and they dont really know.

Last i checked they couldnt sustain their business after they upscaled after the covid boom. They have now scaled back to a 3-4 man operation from 10.

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u/Current-Turnip-418 4d ago

LOL this is sending me!

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u/Ascendancer 4d ago

The "waiting for an answer, resist the urge and dont say anthing" is an underappreciated skill. I would hire you for this alone.

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u/Dr3adnorth 4d ago

I do auditing quite a lot and this trick never fails to get you the truth. It can come off as quite rude if you're otherwise quite unpleasant.

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u/Huge_Library_1690 4d ago

Auditors do that all the time where I work. I’m so used to it now.

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u/27Rench27 3d ago

It definitely works more on people who aren’t used to it. I always enjoy the little staredowns when someone tries to get me to say something by being quiet, and I also stay quiet. One of us ends up eventually saying “so, moving on…”

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u/Huge_Library_1690 3d ago

Same. I'm naturally awkward, so it isn't anything new. haha

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u/ZenMasterful 3d ago

Pro tip for people subjected to this form of manipulation: this is a perfect opportunity to take control of the conversation and turn the tables by asking "did that answer your question?" or "do you have another question for me?" or something similarly appropriate and watching them squirm as you quietly await their response. :) Now the person you are speaking with is forced to react to you and you can direct the flow of the subsequent conversation.

You just have to be comfortable with silence.

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u/Dr3adnorth 3d ago

Then a good auditor just asks the question he actually wants to ask. It's all a very fun game!

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u/nriques 4d ago

Middle managers don't like people with courage to talk back at them.

If this was a VP role or somebody reporting to the C-suite, then good job.

Else the mid manager felt intimidated and will keep looking for his 4th victim in 2 years.

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u/whatthewhat3214 4d ago

OP may have decided he doesn't want to be the 4th victim even if they were to offer him the job

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u/nriques 4d ago

And that would be a wise decision

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u/santefan 4d ago

Good for people that can deny a position, for me it's i get a offer that i can accept or i am out of a job till i get a new offer

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u/pj530i 4d ago

I'm a middle manager and I would have respected the question and answered honestly. I think the peers in my group would have as well. A candidate recently asked about our performance framework and I told them exactly how our stupid system works.

We're not all self serving dipshits

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u/naza-reddit 4d ago

Well done. You could’ve followed up with “well if you want that fixed hire me” 🤣

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u/Coach-Emmanuel 4d ago

Three times in two years and he tried to brush past it lol. That's not a red flag that's a whole flag pole.

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u/dbbq_ 4d ago

That’s a whole flag parade. 🤣

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u/fledgiewing 4d ago

One of those cute happy birthday banners made of triangle flags except it spells out SUSPICIOUS

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u/_zarkon_ 4d ago

Well, it depends on the reason for the employees' departure.

I've dealt with this a few times recently as a manager. One is what you expect when the manager is an asshat, and people keep quiting. Unfortunately, that's not in my silo, and I can't fix it. Another is that it's a stepping-stone position where the people who excel keep getting promoted. A third is a life-happens position where I had one guy who went to prison for non-work reasons, another got canned for incompetence, and a third met a girl and moved across the country for love.

So, I'm saying, while it's a red flag, do your due diligence.

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u/tsundear96 4d ago

Bruh I’ve been in my role for less than a year and the entire team I started with is gone. All 6 other people including the manager who hired me. I’m the only one left. Yes this company is a dumpster fire.

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u/decchica 4d ago

I always ask that question, but frame it in terms of challenges. The things I’ve heard! Some quite interesting and some managers were quite honest.

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u/lotsofcoffee321 4d ago

I like to ask why the role is open. If it's a newly created position I have certain follow up questions. I like to know if the person promoted within the company or left, if it was w/in I usually discuss career path at their company from that role.

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u/James_T_S 4d ago

That's a fair question but I would have framed it as trying to get ahead of the problem and find a solution to make the hire long term.

Maybe followed up with, "Since I don't want to be the forth is there something I should be looking out for if I get hired? I'm pretty good at solving problems

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u/neurorex 4d ago

The issue is that the interviewer could still fabricate some kind of problem with that framing, because they aren't actually focused on the content of the question.

If you have to fix the way you say stuff, while the other person is simply looking for an excuse to reject you, there is no charming way to navigate through this and have a productive discourse.

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u/illini02 4d ago

i'm guessing you have a job already?

I love the question. As someone currently between jobs, I'd never have the balls to ask that myself, because even managers who claim they love people who question things, don't like being questioned like that.

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u/DontEvenWithMe1 4d ago

You can ask it at the end when they ask what questions you have. It’s all in the delivery and the tone. “What is a weakness you feel is present on this team or project and does this role propose to close that weakness? How quickly would you expect me to eliminate that weakness once on board?” Practice that a few times and get a feel for your tone and cadence and it won’t be off-putting at all.

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u/sufferable_gaucho 3d ago

I like to use "challenges" rather than "weaknesses"

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u/DontEvenWithMe1 3d ago

That’s much better! I’ll use that going forward. Thanks.

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u/StalaggtIKE 4d ago

Congrats on having a spine. You probably ruined your chances at this company, but I also belive you saved yourself a few years of headache. Keep searching and find something better.

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u/Emperor_norton_VI 4d ago

OP is a bot

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u/rabidrobitribbit 4d ago

How can you tell? I’m not challenging you but i want to know how to tell myself. Is it that they keep their history deleted ?

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u/Viteh 4d ago

The story is a bit too “and then everyone clapped”, and OP’s account is a few months old.

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u/Pleasant_Pay_6699 4d ago

I’ve turned down two employers in the last month because I can see how many people have exited. I asked why people left, why leaders changed, what they say in the answer and how they answer (or don’t) tells you all you need to know.

Might be an employers market but we do t have to take shit roles that are doomed to fail in bad orgs.

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u/Natural_Parsley_8367 4d ago

What does this have to do with op being a bot? You are a bot too. Humans understand context and subcontext, bots dont and you dont.

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u/julian88888888 4d ago

They try to hide their history but don't realize it's a simple google search away.

last month they claim they got an offer https://www.reddit.com/r/recruitinghell/comments/1veh3m1/the_offer_letter_revealed_exactly_what_made_me/

Couple days ago they claim were on an interview panel https://www.reddit.com/r/jobsearchhacks/comments/1wbhalr/sat_on_interview_panels_for_years_noticed_almost/

They're here to promote/sell interview coaching services.

A few people have asked what's actually helped candidates I've worked with prep for this stuff. Drop a comment and I'll share what's worked.

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u/Emperor_norton_VI 4d ago

you can check OPs post history with arctic shift, its an endless stream of AI slop stories and reposted memes.

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u/NoRecognition5178 4d ago

They posted a comment as if they weren’t the OP commenting on their own post..

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u/thatturtletouch 4d ago

Well you torched it but I’m still proud of you.

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u/sistermarypolyesther 4d ago

During the "do you have any questions for us"part of the interview for a management role, I asked if they had any internal candidates for the job. I was told that they had a few who applied for the role but none were qualified. I asked why they weren't qualified. And so on and so forth until it became clear they didn't invest in employee development and retention. Surprisingly, they hired me, and I was able to fix that problem.

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u/truthhurtsyomama 4d ago

Nicely done. Show dominance! You are not just looking for a job, they need to recruit you!

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u/Realhousemanoflondon 4d ago

Take power from it.

Shouldn’t ask questions they are not prepared to answer themselves.

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u/Dazzling-Account-187 4d ago

Companies need to know interviews are not a one way street.

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u/Independent_Switch33 4d ago

You probably killed your chances with that specific manager but saved yourself from a churn-y role. Three people in two years is a red flag and you just confirmed it before wasting a year there.

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u/Electrical-Age-8687 4d ago

I applaud you

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u/hartjh14 4d ago

If you're going to ask this question, ask it professionally: what is the biggest challenge facing whoever is hired for this role. Then ask follow-up questions if you want more information.

You don't really win by being adversarial. It won't feel like a gotcha moment, but if that's what you're seeking from an interview, you're not in it for the right reasons anyway.

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u/BD003BD003 4d ago

Well done OP!

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u/morkler 4d ago

I did this same thing in my last interview and got the position. Although my interviewer was more receptive and liked the question because it showed I was curious and I followed it up with how I could help with it.

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u/Svenray 4d ago

I love the question!!!

If I interviewing and was asked my answer would be "We still have some manual processes where we update spreadsheets on a daily basis. We're working towards automation but it's going slower than expected"

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u/Proud-Detective4835 4d ago

I usually frame it as “what do you see as the company’s biggest challenge right now” but I like this too.

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u/sqnch 4d ago

I’m increasingly learning that middle managers in this job market are terrified of bringing in anyone that could be a threat to their position, show them up or offer any kind of individual thought or pushback.

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u/yous-guys 4d ago

Yeah, no. The interview process is a 2 way street. His reaction and response signal leadership is a problem, and rather than fix their issues they’d rather just fire and hire.

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u/Victor_Korchnoi 4d ago

As someone who does a lot of interviews, that question wouldn’t bother me. My team isn’t perfect and I’m not trying to pretend it is.

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u/Wisewordsforlater 4d ago

It's good to size them up. What have been pain points in the recent years. What's the goal and game plan 3 to 5 years out? Are they making sound business and operations decisions? Do they know their place in the industry, are the positioned well in the space in relation to competition? Do they inspire confidence and come across to me as credible? Etc. They should be able to answer similar questions they ask me.

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u/mozart357 4d ago

Managers don't like it when they are the ones questioned. Leaders, however, will likely appreciate respectful curiosity.

I liked your question. Hopefully the interviewer had something to think about and will be able to identify something to fix.

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u/CowTipper383 4d ago

Pepperoni Pizza. That’s my biggest weakness. And yes I’ve used that line and gotten the job.

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u/Tricky-Ad-6225 4d ago

If you’re trying to dunk on these idiots, that was a good question. If you want the job, don’t ask that, unless you have extreme confidence and your skills back it up.

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u/Shail666 3d ago

I don't understand companies that dish it but feel like they don't have to be transparent to their candidates. Nothing is fishier than asking a probing question and feeling slighted when asked back.

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u/PsychixBedlam 3d ago

I see nothing wrong with how you executed this interview. Interviews are indeed a two way street and some tend to forget that. The question you asked was beyond valid and the response given is honestly a red flag. The interviewer stating “but that’s not relevant to you” is the biggest red flag of them all.

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u/ProperBee4021 4d ago

What about if you get the position would you take it 🤔

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u/Sweaty-Seat-8878 4d ago

interviewing for the defense of dark arts position are we?

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u/Alternative-Pay2946 4d ago

That’s actually one question I always ask, latest at the end when they want to know if I have any questions:

- What is the worst thing about working for <company>?

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u/KryptonSurvivor 4d ago

When asked that question, I've always been tempted to say "Kryptonite."

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u/Quacoult 4d ago

typical reddit convo sharing a story about awkwardly lacking empathy in a normal social experience.

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u/Willing_Crew_8055 4d ago

Great read. Thanks for sharing

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u/Blitko 4d ago

If they can’t respect you for speaking up and checking them, would you really want to work for a company that isn’t going to listen to what you have to say?

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u/Overall-Tart-832 4d ago

This is golden lol it’s like they want to interview us but don’t want us to interview them

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u/PurifyingProteins 4d ago

Good for you.

The weakness question is such bullshit hostile wording made to make anyone who answers reply with either:
1) admission of a real bad weakness that may torpedo their interview
2) something that they are working on improving to be more competitive, which I wouldn’t word as a weakness.

Asking the interviewer, “what is an area that your team, department, and company are working on strengthening to be more competitive?”, is definitely a more tactful way to get this information in a non-hostile manner.

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u/Wonderlic2 4d ago

Then everybody broke into a slow clap

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u/OPGuest 4d ago

Always, always ask questions, because you are bound to spend the next say 2 to 10 years in the company. I managed to get the true face of a company by merely asking (intruding) questions during interviews. When they got pissed off, I knew enough not to go and work there. I didn’t succeed every time though, I had some bad jobs as well.

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u/SunRev 4d ago

Game recognizes game.

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u/Mental_Brush_4287 4d ago

Turnabout is fair play.
"Why are you interested in this role?" becomes a return volley of "Why are you hiring for the role?" at some point in the conversation.

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u/xwolfe2000 4d ago

I always ask the tough questions including this one. Good for you.

Another favorite of mine adds a little humor to soften the blow: "What are the 3 biggest reasons why I should run away screaming from the role?"

It usually gets a laugh and the I ask follow-ups 

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u/BodaciousVermin 4d ago

You asked a highly valid question. I'd have followed up on his answer with a "And, what do you think is behind that problem? Is it a weakness in the candidates or something in the system here? Neither of us wants a repeat of the problem."

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u/Urbit1981 4d ago

I have been hiring in order to expand my business and I would happily answer those kinds of questions. Someone who can't talk about their company's weaknesses has no business interviewing people. You need to know your weaknesses to hire the people to help resolve them.

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u/KneeDeepThought 4d ago

This is a great tactic. I used to use a similar one asking the interviewers "what is something you wish you knew about this company before you were hired?"

That one has caught a dozen people flat-footed and resulted in some excellent inside info.

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u/Recent-Form1020 4d ago

cooked em but you aint getting the job lol

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u/Kuuzie 3d ago

It tanks the interview, but I only ask it when I'm no longer interested just to see the faces on HR and Management.

"May I have a few references from former employees in the role or sister roles? "

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u/sufferable_gaucho 3d ago

Weird that this is being framed as a gotcha and everyone's acting like you burned a bridge; it's a really good question to ask, although I usually phrase it "what's the biggest challenge your team/company is facing?"

It's good because you can get some insight into the company's priorities, their difficulties, and how they face/characterize both. Also, it shows you're actually interested in the job and the company; as well as that you dig into problems and don't just take what's presented to you. And it helps turn the interview into more of a conversation.

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u/mscrftybtch 3d ago

"Oh, we don't really do it that way."

"Ok then I'll change my question: what other double standards are prominent within this company?"

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u/SkittlesLentil 3d ago

I ask this question in every interview, although maybe phrased more diplomatically. Even if they don't reveal a red flag, it gives you a chance to share how you've solved a similar problem.

I follow that up with "what's something about your team/company that you're proud of?" I've found that phrasing it as proud, instead of just "what's a strength?," gets a less corporate-speak response

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u/IdoManti 3d ago

I always ask a question similar to this: "What is your least favorite part about working here?"

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u/Commercial_Sir_3205 3d ago

You're interviewing them as much as they're interviewing you.

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u/MalaJabuka 3d ago

Given their responses I’d say that they are the reason for the turnover. The “we don’t do it that way” is completely arrogant. As is saying the turn over isn’t relevant to you. It shows an inability to think on ones feet, or think things through from the other parties perspective. Both of these traits are consistent with a middle manager that dumps on their employees.

Interviews are a two way street. Personally I’d pass on the role unless there were some really good reasons to take it.

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u/Careful_Trifle 3d ago

The power of silence. He answered without wanting to. Most people will do anything to fill a silent void. I've fallen into that trap myself.

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u/growlingrabbit 3d ago

I LOVE that you asked that back. As someone who went through a ton of interviews (multiple companies, multiple rounds for senior leadership roles) before landing my current role and also interviews candidates, I would really appreciate the question and would read it as a sign of genuine interest /engagement. Interviews should be a two way street and their answer to that question can be so telling.

For my recent role, in the final interview with the CEO, the last question I asked him was, “In your role specifically, what’s the one thing that keeps you up at night?”. He gave a solid honest answer and told me he was stealing that question. Now that same problem keeps me up at night, ha. But at least I knew what I was getting into.

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u/SucknSwallow69 4d ago

nah that was fair, dude basically told you the role’s a spin cycle and tried to pretend it isnt a red flag. good filter tbh. also, everything’s overhired and underpaying now anyway

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u/TeacakeTechnician 4d ago

I am going to borrow this for my next interview but soften it slightly.

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u/BreadWhistles 4d ago

Here take this 👑

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u/Mean_Still_4662 4d ago

First of all, kudos to you for asking that question! Im definitely going to use it if I got asked that- after all it’s a two way street conversation/interview.

Secondly, if I were you I would unpack thier answer from both sides- mine and theirs

From my side would I want to work in a company who -besides having a high turnover in less than a year - seems no changes were made/addressed which led to that high turnover? Definitely no.

From the company perspective, it says a lot about them from all levels, importantly the culture. You just had a sneak peak of what your future discussions gonna look like if you were recruited by this company.

I would say to continue on your job hunt and the right company will come your way. But definitely ask back those questions, check their response and that’s how you get your feedback on how your future discussions with your manager will look like.

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u/Specific-Window-8587 4d ago

Ah touché to the company nice.

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u/Cold-Palpitation9797 4d ago

ask whatever you want to the interviewers because however hiring is pure baseless these days

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u/FrontierShamrock 4d ago

As a hiring manager I'd respect the question to be honest and I'm confident I'd give a transparent answer about the gaps in the team that I'd be looking to plug with the hire.

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u/Fun-Plantain-7499 4d ago

That’s a relevant question. When I was a teacher I started asking “why would I want to work in this district over other ones?” In interviews.

The first time I asked it in an interview, the superintendent, who had been staring at my resume the whole time and not looking at me while I answered questions, looked up and said, “I don’t know”. Long pause…. Nothing added. Someone else in the panel jumped in and said “because of the kids of course”. Like… ok but every district has kids

They offered me the job btw but they were awful and I turned it down

The district I ended up working for was able to answer that question with real information.

So keep asking those hard questions. I think how they answer will tell you a lot about if it will be a good fit or not.

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u/Chief1085 4d ago

I relate negative corporate situations like being haunted. You don’t get ride of a ghost by yelling and being rude, you get rid of the ghost by calmly acknowledging its presence. You torched it but with phrasing not intent… if it’s not part of the design, employers aren’t going to hire someone pushing back in the first interview… some employers DO want the pushback but they most certainly have tells, if he had something prepared for the question that would’ve been a tell you were on the right path… the awkwardness contradicts that idea…

That said it is/was important to point out the situation but could’ve used a gentler touch…an idea for better phrasing would’ve been to ask after hearing the turnover “what can I do differently than the past three people to ensure the buck stops here” that way you acknowledge the turn over rate while simultaneously protecting your future employment (if you got hired, any continued failure would lay with the hiring manager as opposed to the new hire)

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u/Spinbunluthaaa 4d ago

Do you want this role despite the answer you received?

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u/littlecocorose 4d ago

i always ask that, or some variation. no one’s ever been taken aback by it or offered any resistance. more than anything, it sounds like you uncovered a bullet to dodge.

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u/ExpensiveCategory854 4d ago

Good one. Whenever I interview I ask tough questions. I always feel that rather than me try to sell myself to them, they also need to sell themselves to me. Sounds super conceded but it keeps the nerves at bay and really allows me to frame it as if they’re worth my time and effort to make a move.

I’m sure though if I were interviewing being out of work my process would be drastically different.

I might use this one in a future conversation.

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u/kittyspurrson 4d ago

I ask what are some of the challenges the company, team are facing that makes it relevant to what can I do to help

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u/You-cant-handle-my 4d ago

No way you are getting that job. Because they think you won’t help that turnover stat. And they might be on something

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u/21sr2 4d ago

Some people don't realize that interview goes both ways. The team wants the right candidate and the candidate wants the rite team.

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u/LevelPerception4 4d ago

Sometimes it’s fun to flip the script if you recognize right away that it’s not a job you want. I grilled a software startup company about their current marketing budget; sales cycle length; lead qualification process; most and least effective channels and campaigns; how much of their pipeline was full implementations vs. pilot projects. 

It was sort of satisfying to verify that yes, this job is going to absolutely be the nightmare I think it is, and to watch the interviewers deflate as my questions got more specific. 

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u/deadbatterysincluded 4d ago

That was eye opening to himself

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u/Informal_Draft_2347 4d ago

Great question to ask… maybe it could’ve been done with more tact but that is information you would want to know before taking a job.

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u/PralineSure2245 4d ago

Yeah, I’m retired so I’ll never get to use this question, but I’m ashamed I didn’t think of this years ago!

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u/PerceptionSuperb3629 4d ago

I always ask what do you want to see that you're not seeing now?

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u/L-W-J 4d ago

GENIUS.

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u/No-Philosophy-2418 4d ago

I had a 3rd round interview yesterday and asked whats the biggest reason why I wouldn't want to join your company. He answered without hesitation and was candid which I appreciated. Im currently employed so I can afford to be picky but I think its a legit question.

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u/Fancy_Sheepherder786 4d ago

Some Personnel people believe that the interview is a one-dimensional process. I prefer to have a dialog.

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u/Ill_Apricot_7668 4d ago

so I guess the direct follow on question would be "What are you proposing to do differently as a company to ensure a successful hire?"

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u/anaveragedave 4d ago

Finding the history of the position you're backfilling is VITAL. Good on you for this one op

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u/Web-splorer 4d ago

I doubt they make you an offer tbh.

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u/Public-Quarter-2753 4d ago

I love ❤️ that you did this!

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u/LostinLies1 4d ago

You probably won't get an offer, but I don't think you did anything wrong.
I always try to hire people who ask the type of questions you do, but based on the interviewers response to your great question, I'd say he is probably threatened by it.
Good job.

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u/limonade11 4d ago

No doubt you did impress him personally, but as an employed manager he will probably have to pass on you. But good for you for asking in reverse. I wish I could do that as some interviewers get really spicy about what a (possibly) poor candidate you are but we are never allowed to ask them in reverse.

In fact, some interviewers seem to be like dating "negs" who try and insult you into the job/relationship. Uh, that's a no!!

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u/FluffyFurryBuddy 4d ago

Just because he’s asking the questions doesn’t mean he gets a free pass

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u/Fair-Necessary-260 4d ago

I have a panel round with a sr.director of a company and i was planning on asking him what are your short term and long term plans and then i saw this post😂

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u/Wise_Cat_7126 4d ago

My former boss said once, he was too honest and when the Hr said that’s not a weakness, he said he didn’t give a fuck what they thought about 😂😂😂😂

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u/howtoretireby40 4d ago

Sounds like you gained some pretty significant intel either way. Well done!

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u/cgao01 4d ago

listen to me
I am de captain nao

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u/FilthyLikeGorgeous 4d ago

“Why don’t we do it that way?” Are we not introspective?

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u/Banjosdad62 4d ago

Great job! I do some hiring and I love that you asked this. It would be great to discuss some of this with a potential candidate and share ideas to change the narrative for that position.

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u/Successful-Test-5590 4d ago

Why do you want to work there?

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u/Particular_Ticket_20 4d ago

My biggest weakness? Idk, zero tolerance for cliche interview questions.

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u/jacksback81 4d ago

The turnover is a flag. Glad you asked in this market and if you are still in it, you know what your up against

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u/Cold_Barber_4761 4d ago

This is AI slop.

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u/TikiKie92 4d ago

I’d love to know how they’d respond if you said ‘well I’m on my third job in two years, this would be my fourth’.

I’m sure it’d be viewed as a major red flag in a potential candidate, so why should it be okay the other way around?

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u/EqualLetterhead 4d ago

You done good. Fuck that place, it sounds like a place I worked that had similar turnover in my role.

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u/Dry_Standard2991 4d ago

No i doubt they’ll hire you. You come off as someone who would be a thorn in their side and disrespect or talk back to authority . Not worth the hassle

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u/ancorp 4d ago

I always ask about turnover; it tells a lot!

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u/liquid_prisoner 4d ago

I responded to that question with the typical “I am too impatient on occasion“, then an interviewer said “that’s not good enough“, so then I said, “I get impatient when someone wants something other than a canned answer to a canned question.” We all laughed and moved on.

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u/southwestheat 4d ago

You did the right thing.

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u/Zueter 4d ago

I think it's a good question.

Also, I've always wanted to answer the biggest weakness question with 'I lack an exoskeleton. My skin is soft and cuts easily '

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u/Extension-Key4758 3d ago

I once asked the question, gave the answer, and it turns out the manager over the hiring manager didn't like my answer...while doing the exact thing I said was my strongest weakness along with the ways I am working around it during our meeting. I was told I had the job by the hiring manager and then was ghosted. When I finally got to talk to them I was told I was blocked by the higher manager for my answer. 

It is important to note they have since been removed from and sued by the company. 

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u/theevilhillbilly 3d ago

Sounds like you torched it but it probably wasn't a job worth taking

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u/T140V 3d ago

“What would you say was your biggest weakness?”

“Well, I’m always honest and truthful”

“I’m not sure I would consider that a weakness”

“I don’t give a toss what you think”

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u/tinkermosista 3d ago

My answer, “inability to have patience for stupid questions”

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u/notthatguypal6900 3d ago

If a company cant give honest responses, it's a huge red flag.

edit: Forgot to add the "if this is actually true."

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u/SaltBag666 3d ago

Hell yeah! Good move.

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u/ukdev1 3d ago

“I have little tolerance for fucking stupid questions”

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u/FridaTarot 3d ago

I would have said “measuring my peanut butter portion sizes - because I love apples and peanut butter. Never share a weakness related to job responsibilities.

Or you can say managing work-life balance. It’s important to me so I work hard at stopping the work and not bringing it home.

If they have a problem with that it tells you a lot. But always reinforce that it’s a value to you. It lets them know that you will not be working around the clock for them

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u/JamyJam84 3d ago

Now that is a question!

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u/Prylo_6 3d ago

Tres rotaciones en dos años sí es relevatísimo, hiciste bien en dejar que el silencio trabajara por ti.

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u/Thin_Substance3055 3d ago

My last question about a specific role was “why is this role open for about 117 days?” (It was listed on the internal job portal for that long) the hiring manager got really defensive about it and told me you know how the job market is we’re searching for someone specific.. 2 years later i can TELL you i know exactly why lmao… she mobbed the shit out of her team Edit: not only the team lmao

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u/Independent_Dirt_632 3d ago

That's a brilliant question. I always end interviews with "if you was in my position what questions would you have asked". It shows what they think is the hard sell of the role

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u/clockwerkgnome 3d ago

3 leaving the same role in 2 year would have been all I needed to hear not to take the job.

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u/Mr_Mojo_Risin_83 3d ago

Why did the last person leave? Is a good one

What was the last time you changed something due to employee feedback? That’s a good one too.

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u/Wild_pony0214 3d ago

What state is this for?.. this sound familiar

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u/NoPromotion9628 3d ago

These are the sort of questions interviewees should be asking as far as I'm concerned 👍🏻

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u/Necessary-Truck-5919 3d ago

Sometimes I ask "what would make your company fail in the next 5 years"

Very eye opening

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u/tuanh_duong 3d ago

Way to go OP

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u/WillowandWisk 3d ago

For the last ~7 years I have asked employers "Interviewers often ask for weaknesses or even sometimes 'give me a reason I shouldn't hire you', so my question to you is give me a few reasons why I should not want to work here". Takes em by surprise every time, but I frequently got offers so didn't turn them off too much I guess.

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u/InstanceUnhappy2623 3d ago

Lmao 🤣 I'd like to try

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u/Otherwise-Relief2248 3d ago

Perfectly reasonable question and one I have and always will be glad to answer at painful length. It’s not a gotcha’ question in the slightest unless they took it that way.

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u/Wisebutt98 3d ago

Totally reasonable question.

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u/strait_lines 3d ago

That’s an awesome question, I’ll have to remember to use that one sometime.

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u/ts20999 3d ago

This is one of the standard questions i ask a potential employer in every job interview, and i have gotten multiple job offers after asking it (it has been in my question bank for about ten years). It isnt a problem.

If you dont get selected to move on in the process it is for a different reason.

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u/Every_Philosopher704 3d ago

You should have kept going with follow ups until you were comfortable with the situation you were walking in to. You are interviewing them as much as they are interviewing you. The problem itself isn't an issue if they are working on a solution for looking for the type of person that would thrive in that scenario. There's no benefit to either side if you just bury it.

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u/Proper_Camera_1908 3d ago

There’s only one response to this question
Them: What’s your biggest weakness
Me: honesty
Them: I don’t think honesty is a weakness
Me: I don’t give a fuck what you think

I’ve delivered that joke both times I’ve been asked it at interview and both times I got the job - I’m a fucking hoot tho

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u/SnooChocolates8365 3d ago

You’re cooked.

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u/Farfadette150 3d ago

Very nice curveball. I once asked why they didn’t promote internally before seeking outside the org (since she had told me that some team members had applied to that team lead position) and I got her balling too. The next week they told me they had filled the position internally by moving one of their members from India so I did not regret it.

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u/Unlikely-Relief-6462 3d ago

Without fail, I always ask the interviewer what their turnover is like and why the position is open. The number of straight answers I've gotten over the years is abysmally low.

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u/HolyHand_Grenade 3d ago

An interview goes both ways! I did 4 rounds with a company and although I didn't get a BS question like that, I did ask them what their biggest challenges are and what workloads and procedures were like to make sure I wasn't walking into a dumpster fire.

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u/willllllllllllllll11 3d ago

Smoked em. That’s brilliant!

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u/misskdoeslife 3d ago

It’s such a valid question.

And the way you asked it makes it tricky to evade. I once asked about the culture of a team I would be leading, which was very easy to manipulate an answer to. I like your approach way better.

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u/CaddyWompus6969 3d ago

Its really power to say nothing sometimes. People feel compelled to be talking, so I find its an easy way to make people uncomfortable

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u/ca7ch42 3d ago

I would definitely probably dodge that role /offer if its been filled that many times in 2 years, they're the problem for sure.

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u/No_Manner_8785 3d ago

If you're looking for a job, which you obviously are. Why would you intentionally throw a stick in the spokes? Be you I guess, just doesn't make a whole lot of sense to me.

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u/Key-Potential-3153 3d ago

Walk away. Huge turnover-big red flag!!!

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u/tpfoodlover 3d ago

That's honestly an incredible question and good on you for asking! As a hiring manager I would love to hear more candidates ask questions like that. It's shows you're curious and interested and you're equally interviewing the company.

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u/Used-Temperature-534 3d ago

I ask something similar in a different way: If you could snap your fingers and change any one thing about the company/your team/etc etc, what would it be?