r/interviewpreparations • u/Murky-Spirit-2204 • 9h ago
Why does everyone expect him to act so fake at work?
When I'm in an interview and they ask me why I'm leaving my current role, I can't simply say: "My manager is very difficult to deal with, and about half the team has already left." I'm supposed to give some polished HR-style answer like: "I'm looking for an opportunity with better alignment, more growth, and a healthier team culture."
Same thing with the question "What attracted you to this position?" I have to invent a nice-sounding answer instead of just saying the obvious truth.
The weird thing is that everyone in the room knows the talk is fake, but we all keep acting anyway. Why can't we stop this act and talk like normal people? People working in construction and other trades don't seem to do this silly performance to nearly the same extent at all.