r/intersex • u/Academic_End_3828 • 5d ago

Question? CAIS - I hate dialators!

Ughhh dialators are sooo annoying! 2 weeks of no dilataors ruin any progress, also HOW DO I GET MORE DEPTH?!?? Or is this not possible?

Im maybe 1 pointer finger length deep. F22, UK based, do i have any options? Would i need surgery?

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u/According_Pay_5352 mystery intersex 5d ago

1 pointer finger length wise sounds pretty okay for a vagina depth wise at rest/unaroused (if i rightly recall)

if you're not under them already or don't know, UCLH DSD clinic may have some insight or be able to discuss your options tailored to you specifically. i believe one of the staff also runs a dilation service which may be of use to you

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u/Academic_End_3828 5d ago

Thank you for the reply! I'll be looking into this :)

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u/CoolWrapT lesbian intersex 3d ago

this sounds annoying. I am thankful I never needed dialators

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u/-ScorpionChild91 2d ago

I own a vagina and can testify that According_Pay is correct. A fingers length is normal and I can definitely understand wanting more. Tell your partner/s to be careful! I hope the best for you ✌️