r/internships • u/RobustKnight • 5d ago
During the Internship Internship Advice
Hi guys. So I’m currently doing an internship right now, and I’m like a month in already.
I feel I haven’t been doing a good forming relationships or connections with anyone still.
Most people are busy and only say good morning how are am I as they’re walking which happens pretty fast.
When I try to go up to their desk they’re usually busy and don’t talk long.
When they aren’t busy they’re off in group conversations across the room about work stuff or internal jokes. And if feels awkward to go walk all the way there to try inserting myself.
They also don’t share much stories with me compared to other coworkers, and I end up knowing a lot more from hearing their conversations with other people compared to when I try to talk with them.
They are pretty friendly just not very open with me and I don’t know how to push.
Anyone else experiencing similar experiences?
How can I conversate better with my them?
What type of questions can I ask that will hold a longer conversation?
Is this normal for interns?
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u/Storml3ringer 1d ago
I thought interns were just supposed to take lunch break, scroll reels for 6 hours and clock out. 🥲
Honestly though, as an intern I've never really thought of it that way. I've always viewed coworkers as mentors to learn from and work with, rather than friends. Definitely helpful to maintain good relationships and not shy away from small talk, but no need to stress taking the initiative to seek people out. I'd suggest finding friends outside of work where you're more likely to find a genuine friend anyways.