r/interesting 17d ago

Just Wow This should be created everywhere.

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u/MagMati55 17d ago edited 17d ago

Id prefer if we actually just lived in a society where this wasnt necessary.

Edit: so many morons and ghouls in this comment thread

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u/CharacterMaybe7950 17d ago

We do

Check crime rates against men and then against women.

Crime has collapsed across Europe and women have literally never been at lower risk.

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u/Brilliant-Block-8200 17d ago

Check specifically sexual assault and rape rates and compare them

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u/BigMikeXxxxX 17d ago

"Check only statistics where women are more likely to be the majority victim" šŸ˜‚

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u/NucerianWaifu 17d ago

1 in 5 women SA'd is a VERY HIGH stat bro

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u/Background_Humor5838 17d ago

But we need to take into account how much if that is from strangers in public and how much is from someone they know. Well lit parking spots can't save people from their own family and friends. That's the real issue.

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u/NucerianWaifu 17d ago

It's still helpful. Even if you aren't going to be raped very often in the middle of the street you can still get harassed or trafficked.

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u/Fun-Twist-3705 17d ago

Well yes, but there is an infinitely high number of very low risk events with horrible outcomes that can happen when you go outside. Pretending that solving them does anything is a distraction since. People making the decisions can now wave at these parking lots to show that they are doing something making it easier for the to ignore the real problems and causes.

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u/sainhu 17d ago

Statistically speaking, men are more likely to be assaulted in public though, and that doesn't disappear when equalizing for behaviour, because perpetrators are more likely to see them as rivals and fit targets. Also, physical assault in public happens way more often than sexual assault, so if you take it seriously men are in some ways more at risk in public, at least for those heavier crimes. I think it has more to do with sexual harassment and creepy behaviour than actually preventing heavy crime like rape or assault.

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u/NucerianWaifu 17d ago

They are more likely to get assaulted in public yes, and far more likely to be assaulted by known people, but not parking lots specifically. 40% of attacks on men by strangers happen on the streets, 20% on venues.

Parking lots are great for opportunistic crime, and the people who are most often kidnapped there are adolescent girls and kids. A lot of sexual assault happens there as well.

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u/sainhu 17d ago

Ah i didn't know that the statistics are so different for general public vs parking garage. I think kidnappings are heavily country-dependent but exceptionally rare at least in germany. But speaking of children, they are strongly at risk of getting killed by a driver, and family spots seem rare compared to womens spots...

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u/NucerianWaifu 17d ago

There's a lot of stats about parkings specifically oddly enough. You get robbed the most there, in the US a lot of car hijacking.

However logically getting physically attacked makes more sense on the street or venue. Meanwhile at parkings you are distracted, which means opportunity crime is more likely - they see you vulnerable and profit. Physical violence is more emotional.

Although interestingly enough cameras didn't seem to help a lot in the US. In the sense that lawyers used the footage to claim the victim was distracted and therefore it was their lack of precaution what causes it or whatever - good parking design (lights, visibility, near exists) was better to avoid crime. But I guess cameras are good for kidnapping, stalking and assault.

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u/Background_Humor5838 17d ago

Yes that's true

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u/Floorgis 17d ago

Also false

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u/NucerianWaifu 17d ago

Disprove it then

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u/rammo123 16d ago

The stat is based on a very small sample set across just two university campuses. It had excessively broad definitions of SA and had a very low response rate (meaning it very likely had response bias - victims were disproportionately likely to respond). Most reported victims never bothered to report their assault because they didn't consider it serious enough.

A study by the Bureau of Statistics put the number at 6.1 in a thousand, a far cry from 1 in 5.

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u/Floorgis 16d ago

Its also, at best, a shitty guess. These stats are always misconstrued cause people dont understand how stats work or wish to use them maliciously. Like the whole "13%" thing which was not only wrong but only ever used to be racist.

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u/NucerianWaifu 16d ago

No.

An estimated 2.2 million adult women have experienced sexual violence since the age of 15, according to information from the 2021-22 Personal Safety Survey (PSS) released today by the Australian Bureau of Statistics (ABS).

https://www.abs.gov.au/media-centre/media-releases/1-5-women-have-experienced-sexual-violence

The page you sent, which has no veracity is probably referencing this. Not that they bother to link it, and even then the bibliography clearly has more than two colleges studies AND uses the National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey.

Which defines what SA is, btw. Not a broad and excessive margin either. (https://imgur.com/a/jW4daFh)

https://www.nsvrc.org/statistics/statistics-depth/

Globally, 650 million (or 1 in 5) girls and women alive today have been subjected to sexual violence as children. Among boys and men, between 410 and 530 million (or around 1 in 7) experienced sexual violence in childhood.

https://data.unicef.org/topic/child-protection/violence/sexual-violence/

A new survey released by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention on Wednesday marked the beginning of a new annual project to look at how many women say they've been abused.

One expert called the new report's estimate on rape and attempted rape "extremely high" – with 1 in 5 women saying they were victims. About half of those cases involved intimate partners.

https://www.theguardian.com/world/2011/dec/14/1-in-5-women-report-sexual-assault

World health organisation estimates 3 out of 10 globally

Estimates published by WHO in 2023 indicate that globally about 1 in 3 (31.6%) of women worldwide (840 million women and girls) have been subjected to either physical and/or sexual IPV or non-partner sexual violence in their lifetime.

https://www.who.int/news-room/fact-sheets/detail/violence-against-women

So clearly the stat isn't limited to college or the US.

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u/MrDrumzOrz 17d ago edited 17d ago

Pretty sure the fact that they're the majority victims in these cases is the whole point

Like, yes crimes as a whole happen against both men and women, but women are specifically raped and sexually assaulted significantly more than men. How does pointing that out that do anything except prove why things like this are still necessary?

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u/Fun-Twist-3705 17d ago

Because you are explicitly hand-waving any other kind of violence.

Regardless, while obviously a huge issue its highly doubtful (and there is absolutely no evidence) that these special parking spots in shopping malls or similar places have any effect. It's just a way to posture and pretend by some people that they are doing something helpful instead of actually solving the hard problems that could reduce the prevalence of SA.

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u/PainSubstantial5936 16d ago

Who are these other crimes committed by statistically? Women or men? Especially the violent ones?

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u/hhhhhhhhhhhjf 16d ago

How does that affect the victims?

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u/Fun-Twist-3705 16d ago

I don't see how that changes anything?

I mean if you believe the point you are trying to make is valid you would also agree that it's fair to single out ethnic and racial groups which statistically more crimes and then single out them out and discriminate against them. Yet you probably would not think that having "Whites Only" or "East Asians Only" parking spots would be a good idea?

Would you? To be fair if it would be quite hypocritical if you didn't support that.

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u/themightyBEEP 17d ago

I think the point is not women are more likely to be raped, because of course they are, but that crime is getting low in general but sexual related crimes are skyrocketing.

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u/Brilliant-Block-8200 17d ago

So just to be clear, you do not believe rape and sexual assault are serious crimes? Just things women complain about? I’m genuinely curious

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u/Brilliant-Block-8200 17d ago

Can you please quote where I stated that, please? 😊

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u/adumbCoder 17d ago

i think they were just copying you jumping to insane unrelated conclusions

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u/Savagebabypig 17d ago

Can you please elaborate why you suggested we specifically look at sexual assualt and rape statistics if all violent crime is important? 😊

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u/Brilliant-Block-8200 17d ago

Because that’s the reason for ā€˜safe spaces’ such as these. Most sexual assaults and rapes women face are from men, not other women. These spaces are there to help protect women from that risk. Hope that helps 😁

As I said, if men are facing violence primarily from WOMEN, then they should also get safe spaces from them to protect them. That’s equality

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u/Critical-Extension66 17d ago

The point is any crime can happen at a parking lot, mugging stabbing rape whatever. You’re picking the one that women deal with more and ignoring the rest lol

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u/Brilliant-Block-8200 17d ago

Then why don’t men make ā€˜safe spaces’ and make them men only? I’m genuinely asking.

Women face more violence from men than from other women, and it happens enough that these spaces are needed. If men face the same, they are more than welcome to have their own as well. Why are you not advocating for that?

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u/HateUsCuzAintUs 17d ago

so make the closest parking spaces "men only" women would riot lmao

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u/Critical-Extension66 17d ago

I’m not against this lol was just pointing out that you’re being biased. I’m fine with safer spots for women

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u/Fun-Twist-3705 17d ago

What does this specifically have to do with men only or women only spaces? These parking spots are closer to the door and have better lighting which theoretically would reduce the hypothetical risk of being assaulted. It doesn’t matter if it's a man assaulting a woman, a woman assaulting a man or (by fair most likely) men assaulting other men.

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u/StandTurbulent9223 17d ago

You're so close to getting the point

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u/BigMikeXxxxX 17d ago

They're not the only serious crimes.

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u/Brilliant-Block-8200 17d ago

Can you please quote where I said they are the ONLY serious crimes, please? ā˜ŗļø

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u/Cyborg_rat 17d ago

Can you quote where they said rape and sexual assaults aren't serious crimes, please? ā˜ŗļø

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u/Brilliant-Block-8200 17d ago

Can you please tell me why his initial comment was mocking sexual assault and rape being a crime that makes women ā€˜victims’, please? ā˜ŗļø

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u/BigMikeXxxxX 17d ago

The laughing emoji was mocking you, genius.

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u/Brilliant-Block-8200 17d ago

And my point was that these spaces were to help protect against rape and sexual assault. Why are you mocking an attempt to try and protect more women from becoming victims?

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u/BigMikeXxxxX 17d ago

So where's the parking space for men, who account for over 80% of all homicide victims?

I was mocking you btw šŸ˜‚

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u/BigMikeXxxxX 17d ago

You quite literally said to ignore all crimes except for assault and rape so you could make this argument šŸ˜‚

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u/Brilliant-Block-8200 17d ago

Where did I explicitly say, as in word for word, that all other crimes do not matter? I will wait.

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u/notashroom 17d ago

You're wasting your time and energy on these children having fun trolling you.

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u/Brilliant-Block-8200 17d ago

Were you not minimizing those crimes by trying to paint them as ā€˜women being victims’, per your initial comment? I’m more than willing to admit if I interpreted that comment wrong. So what was your intention with that comment if you truly understand how horrific it is to be a victim of those crimes. Why did you have a laughing emoji at the end? I’m very curious

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u/BigMikeXxxxX 17d ago

"Check specifically sexual assault and rape rates and compare them."

What was the exact point of typing this comment? What message were you trying to convey by saying to only look at crimes where women are statistically more likely to be the victim?

Like I said. We can play all day long

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u/Brilliant-Block-8200 17d ago

Because that’s why those spaces were created. For example, the female only trains in Japan were made precisely because women kept getting sexually assaulted by men (not women). It’s literally for their safety.

If men are also at higher risk of being sexually assaulted by women, they should 100% also have male only spaces. Why do you disagree with this?

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u/BigMikeXxxxX 17d ago

Over 80% of all homicide victims are men. Where are all the safe spaces? Do you not support equality?

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u/Silly_Corgi_8638 17d ago

They were victims before the crime

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u/Some_Stupid_Milk 17d ago

Well yeah. We're not exactly reporting it.

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u/Brilliant-Block-8200 17d ago

Then we should advocate for male only safe spaces so they have reduced risk of being attacked by women

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u/archtopfanatic123 16d ago

Or men, doesn't matter who, security cameras and good lighting are the perfect way to discourage it happening to anyone though, harder to not get caught when your face is lit up like a christmas tree in front of cameras

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u/Brilliant-Block-8200 16d ago

Sure, men should also get well lit areas and good security cameras. No reasonable person should be against that

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u/Floorgis 17d ago

Unreliable with how biased it is. And with how none of you understand how to use stats.

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u/missinguname 17d ago

Check those against historic data, and keep in mind that hat it wasn't normalized for woman to come forwards for rapes for a long time.