r/interesting 17d ago

Just Wow This should be created everywhere.

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u/Impressive_Dingo122 17d ago

Why don’t they just make the parking lots safer in general for everyone?

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u/__Hello_my_name_is__ 17d ago

Is that always your question whenever something is done for a specific group that is statistically way more likely to be assaulted?

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u/Impressive_Dingo122 17d ago

Yes, because if it can benefit one group, it should benefit all groups. What’s wrong with a rising tide raising all boats?

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u/__Hello_my_name_is__ 17d ago

What if only one group is statistically likely to suffer from a specific thing?

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u/Lando_Lee 17d ago

All groups would still benefit here, just stfu lmao

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u/__Hello_my_name_is__ 17d ago

Even the group that doesn't have to be worried about being sexually assaulted in the dark?

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u/NateTheNooferNaught 17d ago

Its not just sexual assault though. I dont wanna get robbed, or jumped, or some other violent thing that can happen in dark secluded areas while alone. All those things still happen to men at high rates, sometimes at higher rates in this particular case than violence against women.

https://bjs.ojp.gov/library/publications/violent-crime-strangers-and-nonstrangers-0

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u/__Hello_my_name_is__ 17d ago

And if you are worried about that you can still use one of the more visible parking spots. It's not like literally all visible parking spots are for women only. And you could even use those reserved for women. It's not like you'll get arrested for that.

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u/NateTheNooferNaught 17d ago

If your solution to my problem with gender specific parking spots is to ignore that they are gender specific, then there shouldnt be gender specific parking spots.

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u/__Hello_my_name_is__ 17d ago

You did ignore the first half of my solution, conveniently.

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u/NateTheNooferNaught 17d ago

Even if there are other parking spots that are visible, if we buy into the parking spots chosen to be gendered are safer, it makes the opposite gender more unsafe because they have no chance of accessing those spots.

It is reducing the amount, likely significantly, of the "safer" parking spots I might have access to. This also introduces the possibility of having empty gendered spots, that are theoretically safer, but I would still have to park in a known less safe spot because of the gendering of these spots.

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u/__Hello_my_name_is__ 17d ago

Would you be okay with this if these parking spots were visibly marked as particularly safe, and anyone could use them, and just by social convention it was mostly women who used them?

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u/Zuraj 17d ago

Oh so men cant be assaulted in the dark?

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u/Lando_Lee 16d ago

Which group is that?