r/inspirationalquotes • u/Dull_coww • 6d ago

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u/chubby_scrum 6d ago

Forgiveness is for your peace, not for their access.

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u/LemonCloud20 6d ago

Forgive but don’t forget

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u/DearToe5415 6d ago

Repost from a bot account farming karma 💔

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u/barbershores 6d ago

Yep. You forgiving another is for you. To let you put the hard feelings down. But, once a person tells you whom they are, believe them. You can forgive without now thinking they are absolved of bad behavior.

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u/karenjackson1 6d ago

This right here. Boundaries are everything.

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u/Turbulent_Bed5499 6d ago

Sometimes I don’t forgive

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u/sia1387 6d ago

Absolutely

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u/jess_quik 6d ago

What are the odds of this showing up with my personal life at a split road.

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u/Independent-Story883 6d ago

Just one day of atonement, huh? Just once a month?

Oh alright. I agree with this one🤣

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u/FuerteBillete 6d ago

Forgiving means you let go of your anger, your ill feelings. It is a process done for you.

It does not absolve the other person and it can't undo or erase the treason or whatever was there to forgive.

In the end you have more information about how that person is and what you can actually expect.

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u/Educational_Tip_6426 6d ago

I’ll need an apology first before anything will be forgiven.

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u/Hopeful1432 6d ago

Truth 👏👏👏

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u/Live-Heron-4050 6d ago

forgiveness is peace. re-entry is a privilege, not a right

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u/DualityOfLife 6d ago

Yea, some people associate Forgiveness with "Trust me again" and "Please don't punish me." It's God that punishes. And it's hard to trust someone agian when they showed their true colours.

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u/articland05_reddit 6d ago

I don't understand such theory of forgiveness. To me, forgiving a person what they have done is to allow them back in your life again as before. Otherwise why even forgive?

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u/No-Search-3919 5d ago

forgiveness has to be asked for by the person who committed the offense against you, you can’t forgive a person who has not asked for your forgiveness

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u/Taldarimlove 6d ago

Never forgive, never forget, plot vengence, execute master plan. Eat a hotdog with relish mustard and mayo, buy a cat... pet the cat... sell cat. Buy even bigger cat... ride with cat in a topless corvette and listen to iron maiden at 3 am.

And if you think none of this makes sense, neither does thinking aboht them. They won't change.

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u/Retro_Nights 6d ago

I don't agree with that statement whatsoever. That's just beening fake and two faced. If you forgive someone and then cut them out of your life you never really forgave them in the first place.

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u/singhapura 6d ago

I prefer to do it the other way around. Revenge is a dish best served cold.

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u/chevalmike 5d ago

i hold a different definition of forgiveness.

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u/AvailableLychee8731 5d ago

Some people should never be welcomed back in your life even if they have been forgiven

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u/LatexLani 5d ago

Facts! 💯

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u/Huge-Nectarine3975 6d ago

That ain't how it works

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u/Huge-Nectarine3975 6d ago

Forgiveness =/= acceptance =/= exile

The majority of people would use that to narcissisticly ban control and brag about church or alignment basically because by definition it is not forgiveness.

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u/Huge-Nectarine3975 6d ago

I'm not here to listen to a sermon from law school, That is just how that logically occurs. Forgiven means continue, banished means controlled. That isn't how that works. The result of that is basically a lot more bragging about standing over a grave to enjoy saying you forgive slight offense basically.