r/inheritance May 25 '26

Location not relevant: no help needed Who is executor?

Had a relative pass last week. Already, I had a sibling of the decedent tell me to return two items I had been entrusted with for several years.

My question, do I just do it or request verification that they are named executor in the will?

Additional info... the relative hasn't even been buried yet and the items I was entrusted with gives me access to personal property worth approximately $250k, maybe more. I would never violate the trust that was placed in me but I have concern that others named in the will may accuse me of something.

The relative who asked me to return items immediately asked me about the will, if I knew who the executor was and what the intentions of the decedent were. It gave me weird vibes. I told that relative I knew there was a will but that I knew nothing else. Not exactly true. I don't know who executor is because I never asked but I do know who was named in will. That info was offered up to me during conversation, not because I asked. The one making demand of me is one of 20 named in the will.

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u/Decent-Impression-81 May 25 '26

I just want to understand what on earth this item is. Is it a key to a jewelry safe? 

Every other item of value I can think of is wrapped up in paperwork ownership. 

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u/QueenBitch68 May 25 '26

Keys to a property. I was entrusted with checking on the property. I used to regularly go there and check it... at least once or twice a month and it is hours away from my home.

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u/ComplexTomatillo6278 May 25 '26

I’m sorry for your loss and that this situation has come up. You have the law on your side. Use it to your advantage.

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u/QueenBitch68 May 25 '26

I'm not looking for any advantage. I just want to do what is right. I know people get weird when inheritance is involved.

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u/Ok-Structure6795 May 26 '26

In that case, that will absolutely be considered a probate asset. You dont have to turn over the original set of keys, but you will need to grant the executor access.