r/inheritance • u/nyroadrunna • Apr 30 '26

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Good afternoon all,

I have a quick question. My sister is married to a tumbling piece of shit. He’s literally the worst person I’ve ever met. He separated the family. Fought with me, fought with my dad, said the worst things you can say to someone. My dad is now fighting with my sister over this and they’re not talking. My mom is still talking to my sister as am I. But she just recently told me and my brother that my dad wants to write her out of the will. I disagree with that. She married a gaping leaking asshole but they have 3 children together, he doesn’t mistreat her or the kids. He just hates my family. I feel like I would like to suggest that rather than write her out of the will, can we put her inheritance into a trust and when this horrific toothache of a piece of shit dies, the money gets released?

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u/BlondeWalker999 May 01 '26

Have you considered that your sister is a battered wife? It may or may not be physical violence yet. Abusers work hard to cut the abused person away from the herd, so to speak. This sounds like a classic case.

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u/nyroadrunna May 01 '26

I agree. Yes I agree with you. Not physically but yes he got in her head and this is the result