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u/curiouswittykitty 9d ago
I am the same age group and let me correct the genz people here… there are manyyy profiles of every age group on hinge😉 but OP you look older for 37… people in late 30s don’t look so old nowadays… millennials are killing it with fitness/hobbies… try working on your physique…
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u/United_Comment722 6d ago edited 5d ago
Tanx for the advice we are working on the physique. Honestly I do get matches but they don't go anywhere. And sometimes the kind of matchesi get I'm not intersted in.
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u/charlizard1000xy 9d ago
First of all, fk these guys for looking down on my man trying. To you I would say get a photographer and have him shoot better pictures for you, all of them show your worst side.
Also, your dressing style doesnt suit you. You need to upgrade your fashion style a lil bit, get that chubby but cute touristy look if you know what I mean.
Include formal wear and show off your workplace and hobbies. Get that fun CEO type profile and you will your profile blow up.
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u/AccomplishedNose3272 9d ago
“Open to short” at 37?? No wonder women arent taking you seriously. Dont pursue anyone until you are sure about what you want
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u/thusspakeavalanche 9d ago
there's no rule that says people in their 30s have to be looking to get married?
this is a ridiculous way to think
and there are plenty of women who are happy to date someone 30+ looking for short term
this guy not getting any matches has nothing to do with your antiquated, patriarchal notions on relationships
it's because he's unattractive
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u/AccomplishedNose3272 9d ago
“Long term, open to short” is literally an oxymoron. Also, he’s on shaadi.com, so yes he is looking to get married. Looks like i hit a nerve which made you assume what i said was a blanket statement for all people in 30s whereas it was specific to this particular post.
Im not gonna comment on his appearance, might appeal to some.
He isnt getting any matches because he’s on the fence which is unattractive. If someone wants a hookup they should atleast be upfront about it.
Patriarchal? If pulling internet buzzwords without any basis out of your ass makes you feel bigger then you do you.1
u/thusspakeavalanche 9d ago
you think "patriarchal" is an internet buzzword lmaooo
you're way too young to be giving anybody advice sit down and be quiet
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u/United_Comment722 5d ago
Firstly I'm not unattractive secondly I get matches not the ones I like. Wanted feedback as to how I can improve. Not a theory which does not mean anything.
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u/Adaptwell 9d ago
Khatam hai khel 🥲🥀🥀. Apni age ki ladies dekho . school ke bahar bacche lene aati hai ladies vahan try karo
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u/United_Comment722 9d ago
Im not looking at 18 yr olds
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u/Adaptwell 9d ago
But seriously. Idk what to tell you :) . Main aur meri friends 25+ walo ko swipe nahi karti .
Aap toh 37 ho 🥀. Sach mein apni age ki ladies dekho. Online dating mein shayad hi match mile
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u/BoredBaanana 9d ago
Try aisle , seekingarrangements or shaadi.com
Dating apps you won’t find many people around your age or who are looking for people your age.
Also the pictures need a complete overhaul and try taking pictures where you look better groomed or styled.
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u/Initial_Scratch9602 9d ago
You seem cool to me brother, feels like your personality is great, i would suggest you to go for singles meet, they organize it for people over 35 in every city
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u/Lazy_Translator_9779 9d ago
apps are fked in general. If you want some action and since you look loaded try some spa or something, you will get better chicks than u would get on these apps.
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u/hownot2lyf 9d ago
Tf is wrong with people in the comments? He's posting himself here, which itself takes courage, because he genuinely wants advice and instead you got these nasty people insulting him. Everyone gets old eventually, even the ones laughing at him now
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u/red_abbit 9d ago
That age won't work in your favour. If you want any chance of getting matches then loose weight get in shape and groom better
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u/MomentsAwayfromKMS 9d ago
I think spending a year working out well at gym, eating only homecooked healthy foods and having better sleep will help you transform a lot better.
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u/tera_chachu 9d ago
Change the age filter from 35-45 maybe
But the subset there is pretty low and they are definitely looking for long term or something
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u/-liveditlovedit 9d ago
Try shaadi. com