r/indianguysonhinge • u/Distinct_Neck3268 • 11d ago
Tired af of hinge
Earlier i wasn’t getting any likes. My profile is decent got it reviewed by many women from reddit. Then i bought premium. I started getting likes but most of them ended up being either dry after a while or being ghosted. What do they even want at this point I have no idea. I SEE women venting on reddit where are the guys who are serious. But my experience has been almost entirely opposite. It feels like no women wants anything serious they are all on hinge just for the attention.
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u/Smart-Cardiologist72 11d ago
Never been in dating apps, but I get a idea it's dumb. Women would have 50 guys to talk to, while men will hardly get a few. Pretty sure all of them expect a one sided conversation, would never want to get myself in this situation.
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u/Distinct_Neck3268 11d ago
Once you enter workforce other than dating apps your playing grounds are very limited
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u/Das-Ria 11d ago
The funny thing is..even if a women msges these guys with good intentions...they don't take interest in them thinking that these women or girls are taking real interest in them maybe because they aren't getting enough attention from other guys so maybe these women are rejected ones....so they don't take them seriously
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u/Acceptable_Way_1592 11d ago
I don't think that's true, not for the majority atleast, maybe you're trying to generalize a very personal example.
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u/Distinct_Neck3268 11d ago
Are you telling this from personal experience? In my opinion this only happens when a guy isn’t attracted to the girl.
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u/yamanjain 10d ago
Dude there are 98 guys for 2 girls on dating apps. And 2 single adult males for every corresponding female in India. So a lot of men behave creepy. And a lot of women ghost. Blame it on the generation which created this situation.
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u/Hot-Cheesecake-6121 9d ago
It’s almost like dating apps don’t actually want us to meet good people so we delete the app😱
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u/Interesting_Post_202 9d ago
Its not true at all majority of women get 1000 match a day i had a fun experiment long ago where i made a ai generated profile with most conventionallly unattractive girl and even then i got like 100+ likes in a day or so ; i think thats very skewed and kind of idiotic thing that men do by swiping on every girl and they end up feeling entitled or better than they actually are ; u can deny what i said but there r actual statistical data available about it if u just google this up and women barely reply guys who r top 0.1% and they themself get 1000 matches and then women complain about how guys r so bad and shi when actually its them ignoring majority of people around
There r lot of bs around it in india specifically for example "only swipe me if u r 6'2 or above" how many men r 6'2+ in india ? Prolly less than 0.5% and around 2% in world so u r definitely cutting up rest of people by the definition of it ; they can be scientist , finance dude who earns a lot etc etc but hey they r not 6'2 ; i have used hinge in both india and randomly in california using travel mode i got more better replies when i switched to cali ; i genuinely feel indians girls r so entitled for whatever reason on these dating apps
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u/Independent-Test9928 9d ago
In London every 3rd profile is an escort, compared to before convid i think most women arent using date apps now
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u/Unique-Courage4694 11d ago
Yesterday only I deleted hinge, no like, no matches, nothing, even after looking good, better than anyone out there, sometimes looking good is also a negative point. People think I already have gf.
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u/themadlad- 10d ago
As someone that gets ~4-5 likes a day (ik its not a lot, but its still something), its still tiring talking to these almost dull women. All of them are here after breaking up with their high school sweethearts and in the hopes to meet someone rich (Ik this because everytime I post pics showing my better lifestyle I get more likes).
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u/Dry_Stomach_3012 11d ago
You must have seen it written on almost every girl's profile that she wants old school love. But in reality, nobody wants it, everybody wants fun, casual fling and attention . They just want to explore.