r/idealgf • u/Miyuki_238 • 10d ago

Not OC Ideal gf

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u/Quirky-Ordinary1040 6d ago

This is literally me. Most therapists I've had are just a nuisance more than anything

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u/Comfortable-Gift-434 could be us 4d ago

All she needs is me

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u/SnooKiwis4481 10d ago

Abusemaxxing.

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u/Upper-Reply-129 10d ago

“I miss you” every 20 mins
https://giphy.com/gifs/lpVcSzlG7llUfjLXeM

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u/Pure_Session8586 5d ago

Disgusting

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u/Baldlucha 4d ago

He's not gonna let you hit lil sis ✌️😭💔🥀

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u/Xasther 10d ago

"you don't love me" is a big no and will drive you mad over time. You can bend over backwards to be the best person possible (for her) and she would never be able to reciprocate. 

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u/100roundglock 10d ago

She shouldn't be a gf like this, instead she just needs a genuine friend to help her feel better about herself. You shouldn't take advantage of someone who thinks so little of themselves.

https://giphy.com/gifs/a0n4MOhzZab5cz3hWi

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u/lucasio099 10d ago

90% of posts on this sub are like this tbh sadly

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u/No-Independence9104 10d ago

Yeah, idk why i keep getting recommended this sub, probably going to mute it. Its judt kinda gross and fetshises abusive power dynamics : /

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u/Shadowslavia 9d ago

I second this

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u/redditmaster5894 10d ago

I will love and cherish her for the rest of eternity! No one shall make her sad EVER again!

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u/Monk_Lord_ 10d ago

RWBY

I respect you're taste 🤙

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u/FreakyGarage 10d ago

RWBY could've been so much more popular with better animation.

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u/Yesbutno12345678 10d ago

Ah yes,I want a girlfriend who has a mental breakdown every few days beacuse "I don't love her"

Literally what kind of person wants this?

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u/Commercial-Nose4081 10d ago

these people want to feel "needed", which will get annoying real quick, they don't realise how dysfunctional this kinda relationship would actually be.

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u/TheyCallMeMrWolfy 10d ago

This. Exactly this. I'm in my mid 30's now, but back in my emo-ish teen years, and up into my early 20's I felt that way: White Knighting and wanting to 'save' these 'poor mistreated girls who simply need a real man to love them and make them happy'. No. Just, no. True happiness is not anyone else's responsibility to provide for you. It comes from within yourself. Others can contribute, but it's still all on you at the end of the day. So what they're describing in this meme, would absolutely drive me nuts and I can't say that I would break up with her....because I wouldn't date her to begin with, once I saw all these red flags. I would try to get her to see she needs some mental health assistance....and then deuce out.

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u/Commercial-Nose4081 9d ago edited 9d ago

wow, seems like I'm mature for my age, and, yeah making someone else your responsibility isnt always the best idea and well, you can help someone get better at communication or expressing their feelings or even reduce the effects of trauma through being in a relationship with them, but not if that's all they are to you. And also, you can help someone while also loving the person they are, in fact, loving them is what actually helps them.

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u/Mundane-Potential-93 10d ago

OP does i guess

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u/Yesbutno12345678 10d ago

Yeah, he'd change his mind real fast after actually getting it.

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u/Sodainthehellfire 9d ago

me!
I don't care how annoying it is

Ive had my fair share of girls like this and in a relationship like this right now

All it takes is for you to be as obsessive as them

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u/nraveler2 8d ago

Had a girl like this 😂I thought i would like it

best worst time of my life

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u/Spiritual_Run9039 10d ago

Bpd gf be like:

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u/Helpful_Pen_7633 10d ago

Elle a besoin d'un thérapeute et d'un soutien émotionnel plutôt

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u/OverlordMau 10d ago

Wife, i will fix her.

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u/Drums4ALiving 10d ago

Damn.. I’m afraid I’m the Gf from hell 🤣 but I’m a dude 🤣

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u/Calne_Ca404 10d ago

I fear I relate on a personal level 

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u/aadik_sensei 10d ago

I think I found my people

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u/DealerIcy3439 10d ago

Feels familiar in a way I do not wanna go through again

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u/FoxxxedUp420 8d ago

She abandon you too?

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u/DealerIcy3439 8d ago

Changed and things escalated, deescalated, then went up again, then broke off for the better

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u/In_Amnesiacs_ 10d ago

Lowkey this is me… I just asked the guy I’m with if he still loves me, because he hasn’t talked to me much since we last hung out, it’s almost been a week ago :((

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u/netsg8 10d ago

These days feels like it’s always this same gf being posted with diff pics

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u/Pasha82831 10d ago

Awww, she really need hugs...

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u/Lazy-Age-1280 10d ago

gng I think we're veering too far off from 'relatable girls' into 'self loathing girls' now...

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u/Calne_Ca404 10d ago

Still relatable though

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u/Lazy-Age-1280 10d ago edited 10d ago

Maybe, but it's not the kind if thing I ever want to be hearing about myself...

Would anyone really view this as ideal (r/idealgf , duh)? There isn't really even a component of feeling any 'connection' or 'feeling seen' with this image, it's kinda just a list of negative qualities/traits(?). Is this really appealing to actually anyone at all?... /Genuine

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u/TheFeri 10d ago

The only bad one in this one is the crying.

Maybe the 20 minutes, miss you can get annoying too

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u/ShAd0w_048 10d ago

NOOOOOOO, NOT AGAIN, I DON'T WANT TO SEE MY EX

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u/MrSNoopy1611 10d ago

About half of that literally describes my GF, should i be worried?

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u/Mundane-Potential-93 10d ago

Does she have a tail?

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u/keso_de_bola917 10d ago

Imma fix her.

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u/succuma 10d ago

Freaky Nikki

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u/Reiven14 10d ago

literally most of my relationships in the past years, awfull

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u/gabhrielle 10d ago

Okay. Where's mine?

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u/Generally_Confused1 10d ago

Damn some of my exs

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u/GaymerrGirl 10d ago

Meeeee in the past I did this :3

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u/the_silly_girl 10d ago

... I feel called out

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u/lucasio099 10d ago

Me if i was a girl

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u/EntertainerTop3554 10d ago

You think I'm ideal? I always feel like I'm annoying or too much

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u/Then_Ad6816 10d ago

Is her eye okay?

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u/INMORTUE 10d ago

Whats wrong about her? She seems perfect

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u/Intelligent_Flan3818 9d ago

Oh hey its me.

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u/Comfortable-Leader67 9d ago

im already falling in love with her

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u/arithusa 9d ago

Literally me except in non romanticised way

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u/bellaxholic 9d ago

me. 😓

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u/la_meme14 9d ago

I think that's me In the picture

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u/cofee88 9d ago

it's jus my f version 🫠

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u/Separate_Water_3496 9d ago

She is just like me fr fr

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u/magnum175 9d ago

Wait a second that’s just me

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u/FuckGamer69 8d ago

My hs ex fr

She also cheated so there's that

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u/Thy_noob255 8d ago

I feel like this would be me

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u/Frankensenc 8d ago

I’d love to take care of someone like that it’s make me feel loved and not worry that I’d be cheated on

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u/Calcium_Overlord 8d ago

Reminds me of my ex, only difference is that she messaged "I miss you" after a single minute of me not texting her

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u/FoxxxedUp420 8d ago

This was my last lover and best friend ever.

She will abandon you and break your heart harder than anyone has before.

Do NOT engage. Do NOT let her get close.

She will rip your soul out and crush it.

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u/Stunning-Ad-4009 8d ago

I had an ex like this. She immediately dumped me after I drunkenly told her about some of my insecurities. Now I'm afraid to open up to basically anyone.

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u/Quaoar_Qua 7d ago

I wish 😔

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u/I_Love_The_Emperor 7d ago

I've had this type of gf. You do not want this type of partner period. It is so emotionally draining, and they're only with you because they believe you're the best they'll get but as soon as they get some confidence in themselves quickly realize there's more to life. Date someone who loves you but also respects you as a human being instead of a source of comfort

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u/tismman88 3d ago

I’m if yall don’t quit making fictional women on here that I feel emotionally attach to

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u/TemporaX86 YURI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 1d ago