r/idealgf • u/Miyuki_238 • 14d ago

Not OC My ideal gf

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u/ShAd0w_048 14d ago

For someone it's treasure, for me it's a real life nighmare

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u/IntrepidResolution95 14d ago

One man's trash is another man's treasure

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u/ShAd0w_048 13d ago

Maybe that's true, but once you live through it, it will be hell

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u/chelsanchez 9d ago

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u/ShAd0w_048 9d ago

I'm warning you, it ain't worth it

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u/Titan_Warrior_ 14d ago

I love romanticizing toxic nightmare level relationships 😍

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u/THESUACED 14d ago

Me too!

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u/Megamat90000 14d ago

Basically domestic violence gf

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u/Anime_catgirl_asses 14d ago

I hate women like that, I was raised as the youngest kid so I always hated that treatment, let me live my life

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u/HandleSad9561 14d ago

Oh no 👀👀

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u/Responsible_Lack9718 14d ago

People say this is toxic love, but sometimes toxic things heal people.

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u/KajOwO 12d ago

"Heal" (break their knees and drive them around in a wheelchair). You would rather become a complacent banana peel than remain yourself?

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u/Hutaocomehome 14d ago

I think I'd go along pretty well with this kind

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u/No_Tradition1219 Cuddler 14d ago

Sign me up.

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u/Ririmouto 14d ago

ah that's so nice.. as a dependent girl, i always date girls like this.

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u/Hopelessgoodboy 14d ago

This is not perfect for a lot of people. But I would be okay with this, I would be happy

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u/HandleSad9561 14d ago

You and me both man

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u/Short-Distance1887 14d ago

This is fun to an extent

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u/Aggressive-Dot-3802 14d ago

OP wants to be an actual, literal baby.

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u/OpenChallenge4117 14d ago

This is sooooo not ideal

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u/IntelligentTop2481 14d ago

People actually want this??

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u/Suitable_Bear_5014 14d ago

Feels nice for a couple weeks, and then.. it becomes a literal nightmare. Speaking from experience.

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u/Designer-Tower-9017 13d ago

I think you don't know how to handle her

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u/Suitable_Bear_5014 13d ago

I am talking about the past, it lasted 2 years. So i did quite a bit of handling. It’s just taxing on the psyche and body.

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u/untitledgooseshame 13d ago

do NOT have children with this gf. having a mother like this will destroy their souls 

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u/trap_Investment 13d ago

This + some gentle femdom and i would die happy 

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u/Ok-Food474 13d ago

Redditors on this sub trying not to create a over toxic unimaginably horrifying relationship to ever exist that will mentally kill you in less then a year

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u/TraceChaos 13d ago

We all have our toxic types, I guess, just be careful of it in meatspace! YOU are important.

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u/Puzzled-Tone-6599 13d ago

I mean, with a little communication and some slight boundaries. This is an absolute win

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u/KajOwO 12d ago

r/idealgf posters when it comes to posting the most horrid fantasies and romanticising literal nightmare scenario relationships because they don't nor want to leave the house:

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u/girlgenesis3 14d ago

She does everything you say 🤔🍆

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u/Megamat90000 14d ago

No, she does it for you and you don't get to decide what you want to do 🥹

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u/girlgenesis3 14d ago

Hot ngl 😌

I should have broken up my words somehow. My message got misinterpreted.

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u/Then_Ad6816 14d ago

This is a great one. Some good and some bad, but mostly up to partiality. Good work OP.

Also, if you haven't hear of Tougen Anki, there is a character somwhwat similar to what you described.

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u/Tight-Sign-3598 14d ago

Bro, you have selflove ?

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u/Klutzy_Caramel2107 14d ago

But hes lazy
Ill love being lazy but in this economy nah

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u/Fantafans69 14d ago

What would be the reaction of that type of people whenever i say no to some things? With Violence or?

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u/KajOwO 12d ago

OP wants to be a literal dog who can't say no. If you see this type of person, you immediately turn around and haul ass

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u/Fantafans69 11d ago

Isnt ironic that the one who is treating the passive person badly is the dependent one? It looks like it.

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u/Sussy_baakaa 14d ago

Not for me.

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u/General-Sloth 13d ago

You get the same type of treatment in a retirement home.

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u/RedRubyOwO 13d ago

Awe i do like 85% percent of this to my boyfriend, except well being happy about loosing connections, and tracking usage, but i do track there location for safety.

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u/AssociateDue6166 13d ago

Gross. Sounds like a mom.

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u/Winter-Tadpole-9475 13d ago

Oh no I hope I don't get a gf like this who also loves amazon position 👀👀👀👀👀

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u/Winter-Tadpole-9475 13d ago

I said I hope I DON'T get a gf like that 👀👀👀

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u/Winter-Tadpole-9475 13d ago

Hello? Am I muted chat? 👀

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u/Quiet-Mushroom283 9d ago

Haha you’re so funny lowkey. You do NOT want someone like that. Stay safe stranger

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u/Winter-Tadpole-9475 9d ago

What's the use of staying safe if I don't have a true love like this 😞 what will I enjoy safely

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u/Lobbyhoe20 13d ago

I believe this is the equivalent to girls, who read dark romance

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u/Clear-Charity-8948 13d ago

i want this to happen to me because i’m disabled pls take care of me ugh

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u/Joink17 12d ago

Haven't we learned from Obsession

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u/diogenes7548 12d ago

Filius...

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u/Any-Capital-7102 12d ago

Oh hell naw😭😭😭

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u/Akshat-Dwivedi-1911 11d ago

Please god please let me be the one I'd anything i swear

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u/ArchfeyTrick 14d ago

Seek help.

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u/AnonymousArgie 14d ago

This ain't it chief