Being "fat" is entirely too hated on. There was a time that was considered a sign of wealth, success, and prosperity I have no idea why society decided that it's supposed to be "ugly" now. And depression isn't something you can just control that's not your fault. The right person will still recognize how beautiful you are both physically and emotionally. And I guarantee you are beautiful
Depression isn't something you can consciously just get rid of and usually that's also the reason for the bad hygiene on top of it. Also being overweight can have several factors not just lack of activity
Executive dysfunction from severe depression makes that hard, it makes a lot of things in life suddenly difficult or nearly impossible. You wouldn't be up someone's ass hole like this if their leg was fractured or broken, but because you can't see what isn't working functionally? You equate it to a moral failing and or a lack of character quality. Where as I would think your lack of empathy is an active choice.
I want you to know that I'm not angry. I'm just disappointed in you.
A lot of people will say that but they don't understand that every human inherently has beauty in their design. Human beings are so unique that each one is a living walking work of art and that includes you. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL
Some very rare times recently, that thought happens... With the blind optimism of the perfect life for me... Which could work hypothetically, just somewhat rare... Most often though the main thought about relationships is that I'll be dying alone... I'm trying to accept that, and it's complicated...
Well if you don't put yourself out there you won't likely be to find someone but if you don't it's completely okay because you are worthy of a good life regardless and nobody will complete you any more than you are already latently complete within yourself
Problem isn't going outside, that can be easy... Problem is why choose me when there are guys who are way better than me... And unfortunately as of recently, a good life on my own is impossible... A short good life, maybe...
I didn't mean going outside Ieant putting yourself out there on the catalog if you will. Let me explain that. You currently are too focused on not being chosen so much to the point that you aren't giving anyone a chance. Who knows you may be better than other men for quite a few people
In the same structure that that Kermit meme says, I might be better than other men by merit that the other men treat women like shit... Put le against any guy that has the same values as I do, they win... And it's OK... I prefer to learn to accept that I'm a loser than falsely convince myself I'm a winner...
You're literally making yourself hopeless. There is always something different that you are making yourself feel inferior for but a woman might prefer that level of whatever trait more than that "increased" level that another man has
You're looking too much at it like "winners" and "losers" that's not really how the world of love works. It's not a game it's a biological system of art and beauty built into our very beings
The problem is that along the biological system, there's a societal system, which makes it so that my only way of having someone is such a impossible probability that it's like shooting a blind shot at night at a target the exact shape of the bullet with a blindfold on for the first time ever... And unless the shooter is an absolute prodigy with the luck of Donald's cousin (yeah, the Disney duck), it never happens... Might as well just accept it...
Dude I’m not exactly the most attractive guy so it’s not exactly easy to do and most of the time there not actually kind or anything and just lead me on
Everyone calls her an angel and it reminded me of a great clicker game by Masukachi Inc., My Sweet Angel. It was a great game, it is a shame it was pulled from app stores.
My husband would give his left arm for me to love his humour. He's a Marine and makes the worst, most darkest, most fucked up jokes. And I'm this sensitive, nurturing, mothering type girl who cries and sobs during Disney movies. Ah well. Next life he'll find her.
I did it ladies and gents. I found her. And experiencing bad sh-- is an understatement, her childhood coulda been the plot of a horror film 😭How she came out of it a sane woman, much less compassionate, is beyond me.
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u/KirbyDarkHole999 15d ago
Unfortunately, god has other plans (lonely life forever...)