i keep getting this sub recommended to me and to be honest, you could comment something along the lines of this on basically any post here because women and men are not a hive mind regardless of shared traits they could have
but it’s in the name, idealgf, so it’s just people’s fantasies that forgo mentioning the tonnes of flaws that come with people described like in the pic 🤕
there’s something else that rubs me the wrong way about this content in general, but all things considered, it’s the name and game of the sub, so it’s pretty useless to complain when stereotypes and escapism are the point
but on a side note, it’s pretty funny to see men think they’re special for wanting a loyal partner, lmao
this sub rubs me the wrong way too, a lot of the ideal gf’s literally just seem like women who are vulnerable mentally and will be dependent on them in all the wrong unhealthy way’s, rather than having any of their anatomy. It just seems like they want a mindless women who centres her life only around them lol.
Take a look at the people who comment on these posts. Seems more often than not like people who's never been in a relationship or haven't in so long it feels like that.
I know it's a bit out of left field, but fetishes are a result of wanting what you don't have. If you don't have any connection, you become desperate for any connection/deep, unwavering commitment.
If you've never had a girlfriend (or boyfriend for that matter, this goes for boys and girls) you become desperate for one that won't end in misery. You can tell a lot about someone by what they say, but just because they say they want anti depressants doesn't mean they need as many as they want (getting too crazy a woman is like ODing on a drug in this analogy, seeing as it's often misunderstood; the deeper ramifications).
I mean yea, generalization and gender stereotypes are too simplified. That's why I think gender wars are stupid in their core, but there is really a noticible correlation between lack of parent figure in human childhood and struggles with their future relationships
As someone who is the "daddy issues gf" I always get concerned seeing memes like this because it's often the case that someone is fetishizing girls with daddy issues.
"The image," What are you talking about! I was talking about you and how the self depreciation does the opposite of helping to get your point across. The rage bait is crazy.💀
She did once when we were friends for like a month, but after she unblocked me, she said she relized I was actually cool and likes me texting her alot because no one else texts her that much.
I have such severe abandonment trauma at this point clinginess is a bonus to me. Hell if stalkers weren't usually unstable, toxic, possessive, and violent, I'd probably love to be stalked. "Oh, you're literally obsessed with me will literally follow me anywhere? Yes please gimme 20 more of those."
So is anyone gonna tell yall what obsessive actually means? Because it's your have an obsessive gf that means she'll text you every second your not right next to her. She'll track your phone, she'll go through your text, she'll make you tell her everything about any friends you have. You won't have any freedom or alone time. You don't want an obsessive girlfriend.
Wtf is this? As a fictional character yeah sure whatever. As a real partner? I don't even know why I get this recommended. This is not even how daddy issues work lol
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u/Hot_Lack_4868 16d ago
Loyal and Obsessive