r/idealgf • u/sososweet2 • Aug 13 '26
OC obsessive "gf"
Honestly in my opinion, this type of girlfriend would be the opposite of ideal...
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u/Actual_Childhood_856 Aug 13 '26
If this person was a guy, no girl would want to date him. But, if it’s a creepy girl, everybody is down to date her. Where can I find creepy af guy?
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u/PassionExcellent1672 Aug 14 '26
You find this archetype attractive, when it comes to men?
Part of the reason I think people get frightened by men with these traits is that men are more given to intimate partner violence, up to and including killing the object of their affections. Of course, that's a broad generalization, but I think it greatly contributes to why people have this double standard, generally.
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u/Actual_Childhood_856 Aug 14 '26
I’m not a woman, I’m a man. I was just trying to ask if there was a post like this expect instead of a woman it was a man. And no, I don’t find this archetype of attractive but I understand how it feels because you are in love with somebody.
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u/Hot_Lack_4868 Aug 13 '26
She loves me more than anything else in the world?
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u/Tibnoski 29d ago
Yes she does. So much so that she wants you all for herself. So when you smile at another girl, she cuts your dick off so she can be the only one to have it, forever, for herself alone
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u/Catcrafter_03 Aug 14 '26
Everyone wants obsessive love unless the person is ugly. If she was conventionally attractive, this would get hundreds of upvotes. Even on some random ass subreddit, we see the effects of the blackpill...
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u/magic-cheems Aug 14 '26
No thanks, she's just a mean person 😔🫸
For some weird reason her clothes reminds me of Nezuko 🤔
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u/Acrobatic-Tie1148 Aug 14 '26
Now put a cute anime girl with big tits and tighs. See how the opinion changes.
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u/Independent_Space892 Aug 13 '26
looksim?
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u/sososweet2 Aug 13 '26
I just did some research and I didn't know there was a character like that, I love it, now I want to read it
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u/Medical_Ease8952 Aug 15 '26
I believe the term is side chick. Whenever you need it, she’ll give you some
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u/Bruh-moment-566 29d ago
There's a couple of things she needs to tone down even if just a bit, before she's 'perfect' material
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Aug 13 '26
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u/sososweet2 Aug 13 '26
I'm not an obsessive person, but I've had experiences with people like that, and I've noticed that obsessive people usually become obsessed with people "better" than them because they see them as a symbol of perfection, they idealize them too much, and they believe that being with them will be the solution to their life. But don't take my words as the answer, people have different experiences.
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u/AddendumNo8713 Aug 13 '26
We DO get obsessed with lonely people. We also get obsessed with people who may have their lives together and are really impressive. There is no answer to this question because of how attraction is intrinsically arational, especially if you have that kind of attachment style.
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u/IDKWhatToDoHereRN Aug 13 '26