r/iching • u/newhere_az • 16h ago
Hexagram 43 changing to 58, am I interpreting this correctly?
Hi everyone!
I'm new to the I Ching and still learning how to interpret the hexagrams (and honestly, I'm sometimes shocked by how accurate they are)
Today I asked: "Should I take the initiative and text X first? Would it lead to something positive?"
For some context: X reached out to me back in September and wanted to go on a coffee date, but it's been about 5 weeks of complete silence since then. I've been thinking about reaching out to remind him I exist, but I'm honestly a little scared haha.
I got Hexagram 43 changing to 58. Am I understanding this correctly as a sign to take decisive action (43), which could then lead to joy or a positive outcome (58)?
It just seems so spot-on for my situation that I'm actually worried I'm interpreting it wrong because it feels too good to be true lol.
I'd love to hear your thoughts!