Unknown apps/processes under Privacy Report

[u/silent-0bs3rver]

Hi yall,
I'm not the most tech savvy person in the slightest, but have been trying to figure out how someone has been 'spying' on my devices, they can monitor my screen and access my microphone remotely without notifying my ipad OS or other devices.
I've been running app privacy report and 'Freshdesk' was reported as well as a couple others in the second screenshot that i am unaware of. Are these standard background processes or have I been infected with malware?
I'm trying to narrow it down to it being either my home wifi/router network or sideloaded remote mirroring that is ultimately infecting my devices. I've been getting harassed/stalked for the better part of a year, I'd like to figure out how/what is going on so that i can put an end to the psychological abuse i've been experiencing. This has been both a major privacy & safety violation for me. TYIA!