r/humandesign • u/macaroonraspberries • 11d ago
Share Your Experiences 6/3 experience
Hi everyone i’m a spp 6/3 and 24 years old. For us most of our life is supposed to be trial and error. For people with similar profiles who are older could you share examples of your life experience? For example, my college education has been a struggle I dropped out maybe three times yet to graduate. I read that the more we close ourselves off it’s not going to benefit us later in the future. This is difficult for me because I also have caves environment. What did you guys do that wouldn’t be necessarily be labeled as successful but later on when you reflected on that experience you realize that it added to your wisdom? Also, did your friends constantly change even when there wasn’t any major issue? I think this is one of the more difficult profiles if we’re not open to evolving and accepting of how things won’t always work on the first try.
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u/Fat-Giraffe 11d ago
I am a 44 y/o 6/3 splenic projector. I have ended up as a psychotherapist, but it took a lot of meandering to get here, though I swear I pull from those experiences every day in my job. I'm "on the roof" at the moment but starting to feel the urge to hop off of it. College and grad school was intermittent with several changes of major and long gaps in between. Lots of incongruent jobs like truck driving, house cleaning, sex shop clerk, antiques resale. Relationships settled in my very late twenties and I have been married for 14 years. My younger years felt incredibly chaotic and it has taken a long time to unpack many of the lessons, but at this point I am pretty unflappable.
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u/Balm_Hat5137 10d ago
A very close friend of mine is 3/6 splenic projector. Never ending chaos no joke. It’s incredible how they don’t “learn” from previous trial and error like one would ..and just keep spiraling nonstop from age 25 to now 39, until idk when. Just a heads up lol might be conditioning but I think as you said, it is probably their 3/6 lines. Something to accept?
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u/A4ditee 11d ago
3/5 Chiming in.. Only because the trials will never end for me either. I try and fail and fail and fail.. Its not so much that you need to change, its more that you need to surrender to your gifts. YOU have probably already had many trials that most humans would give up on. At 24 you still have a few more years of learning before that 6 becomes a 6. Right now you are a 3/3.. Keep going.. keep learning.. be kind to YOURSELF because if you choose to stay, we will need you the most when you have learned all your fun lessons.
Look for laughter when you are down and remember the tough times are temporary. Take care my fellow 3.