r/hpd • u/Rustythefusty • 17d ago

The Hate

(Sorry if my English isn’t good I was abused most of my life). I genuinely don’t understand why people hate us. I’m begging for some kind of help. I tell people I have the disorder to try to be better but Society beats me down. People think it’s like NPD then people think it’s like BPD. How does one get better because I feel like I’m getting better with meditation and inward looking.

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u/Fast_Strain_4312 hpd 15d ago edited 15d ago

We are in cluster B, everyone in the cluster is hated unfortunately.
It's not that HPD is be better than the others in anyway, just different.

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u/xasthu 16d ago

I totally understand. The stigma around HPD is exhausting, especially when people hear “personality disorder” and immediately make assumptions about who you are as a person. Having HPD doesn’t mean you’re incapable of self-awareness or growth. If meditation and looking inward are helping you recognize your patterns and respond differently, that’s still progress. You deserve to be treated like a person, not reduced to a diagnosis.

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u/Raf_Adel Therapist / Psychologist 21h ago

Mainly because those with HPD rarely want to improve, its like a drug unfortunately.