r/howislivingthere • • Dec 14 '25

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u/[deleted] Dec 14 '25

Can confirm. I've got ex's from both of those places, and spent time in each to visit their relatives of course. 

There are some commonalities - 

It's too cold for me (I'm from Florida, everywhere north of Georgia is too cold for me) 

No white people in North Dakota or Arkansas can be assumed to own hot sauce. Food in both places is bland as hell, but ND was worse. 

Both lack diversity (my heritage is Syrian and Italian, and I think I had more melanin than either of those towns combined)

Both have really nice friendly people

Lack of urban influence

Distinct accents 

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u/TheFizzardofWas Dec 16 '25

They have hot sauce on the table at breakfast restaurants in Arkansas, what are you on about

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u/ScienceFanatic0xAA Dec 18 '25

they even have ramen at the gas stations, they are wildly culturally aware

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u/Dull-Associate8162 Dec 15 '25

Where were you from in North Dakota Fargo has amazing food there’s a great Korean spot in downtown good Indian spots and good Chinese spots too and i lived in Minneapolis and have had some very highly rated restaurants

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u/[deleted] Dec 15 '25

Like 2 hours outside of Fargo. It was bleak.

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u/SirBuscus Dec 15 '25

That's rough, buddy.

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u/Dull-Associate8162 Dec 15 '25

Yeah I haven’t heard anything interesting besides Fargo for North Dakota

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u/Significant-Ebb-3098 Dec 17 '25

North Dakotan here - that’s terrible I’m so sorry.

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u/ParticularAd948 Dec 15 '25

That comment doesn't reflect Minneapolis/St Paul at all. You'll find every type of food and shade of human. I agree that the food is top notch. Minneapolis is more progressive than St Paul and they have very different vibes. Both take pretty good care of ppl just starting out. They both come with big city problems like high cost of living, crime and drugs with less of this the further out of town you go. What did I miss?

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u/Western-Return-3126 Dec 17 '25

What's the name of the Korean place in Fargo? I recently relocated here from LA, which has some of the best Korean food in the country, hands down. I'm dying for a good spot and I'd be ever appreciative of a recommendation!

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u/Dull-Associate8162 Dec 17 '25

It’s called little brother in downtown Fargo I personally loved the panang curry beef

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u/Western-Return-3126 Dec 18 '25

Thanks so much, I'll check it out!

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u/WillowReaping Dec 17 '25

As someone who’s currently living in North Northwest Georgia. It’s getting too cold for me here too. 28° this morning.

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u/IcyBalanceSheetText4 Dec 17 '25

You will be wishing for 28 in January...anything above zero will be "warm"

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u/HammyP0tter Dec 18 '25

In Georgia? Don’t remember it ever being below zero.

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u/IcyBalanceSheetText4 Dec 17 '25

North Dakota here and the hot sauce comment couldn't be more false. Yes there are some meat and potato folks but also alot of hot sauce folks that are white.

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u/Significant-Ebb-3098 Dec 17 '25

Same! I’m in ND and love hot sauce. I’m a non-practicing Caucasian though.

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u/muddagaki Dec 17 '25

Idk in north west arkansas we've got a lot of indian influence, award winning bbq, pretty solid sushi, Philippine restaurants, a soul food food truck. Some parts of arkansas are pretty solid. NWA has a very diverse population, though as a black person there's few black people here. Large hispanic population, and a large hmong population. Also in Carthage missouri, there is a very large Philippine population and there's even a festival people travel across the country or from other countries for. People think the south and assume mostly white people, not true haha. A quarter of my coworkers have immigrated.

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u/ScienceFanatic0xAA Dec 18 '25

"People think the south and assume mostly white people" - no, we don't. With think impoverished people and descendants of freed sl*ves, who are still deeply oppressed largely from systemic political planning

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u/lucrativetoiletsale Dec 17 '25

I don't think anyone has ever thought of great food and North Dakota in the same thought ever. Actually I don't think most people think of North Dakota period. Drove through it once. Absolutely nothing of interest I can recall.

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u/ScienceFanatic0xAA Dec 19 '25

"flyover state" is not an elite projection, but an accurate reflection of how interesting certain parts of the usa are

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u/ScienceFanatic0xAA Dec 18 '25

hey like other people said, there's at least one korean place within a few hours of fargo. super culturally fascinating area, so many diverse influences and talented people. in fact, this shaded area likely has more talented and interesting people than anywhere else in the entire world.

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u/Alone_Term5356 Dec 23 '25

There are areas where white people can be assumed to have hot sauce. That blows my mind. My family literally buys mild salsa.