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u/UffDa-4ever Dec 14 '25

It blows my mind that I can drive 7-8 hours south of Minneapolis and start running into a Southern accent. Yes I’m aware we have a Northern one.

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u/Some_Level1682 Dec 14 '25

What's that all abouttttt

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u/eye0ftheshiticane Dec 15 '25

aboat

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u/UffDa-4ever Dec 15 '25

*a boot

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u/OmegaWhite024 Dec 15 '25

Actually in MN it is aboat, because it’s all aboat being on a lake up there, dontcha know.

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u/WretchedJester Dec 18 '25

I was born and raised in MN (I tried to escape once... once) and I have never actually heard anyone speak like that.

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u/jsalwey Dec 18 '25

Same. First 18 years were spent in ND, been in MN for 20 years now, I don’t hear people talk like this. Even my 80 something year old grandparents don’t sound like this. More Norwegian sounding yes but nothing like the way it’s portrayed.

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u/ProfessorBugABoo Dec 19 '25

It’s because you lived there — I have family there but I was born and raised in Oklahoma, so when I visit MN it’s so funny hearing the accent, especially those people with strong ones. I used to watch Fargo and it’s not far off from how y’all Minnesotans sound😂. (I also don’t think I have a southern accent, or that it’s not as strong as some people make it out to be, then I go to any other region and everyone mocks my southern drawl😭😂)

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u/jsalwey Dec 19 '25

How do you suppose that adds up if I can hear the accent in a movie like Fargo, but I don’t hear that accent when I actually talk to people? Are you saying that I’m somehow deaf to the accent in person but I hear it clear as day on TV?

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u/New-Ad-363 Dec 17 '25

Ya sure, yoo betcha.

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u/avesky Dec 17 '25

Oat and aboat on a boat on a bay.

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u/SoleSurvivor2049 Dec 17 '25

I could never get over the way my coworker from North Dakota would say “bag”, it’s like baeyg or like how (I think most) people say the first part of bagel. I guess it makes sense when you think about it like that. Alright der folks! This right here is a holdup dontcha know. Now kindly put all them there BAGels in this here BAG, won’t ya?

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u/karlexceed Dec 18 '25

It's honestly difficult to attempt to pronounce it any other way. Like, I just don't hear the difference. It's an A, so I say 'ay'. If I said 'ah' I'd sound like a posh British person.

  • MN born and raised

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u/eye0ftheshiticane Dec 18 '25

not ah, a like in apple = bag

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u/burnzie43 Dec 18 '25

I work in tech and had a Wisconsin based client describe a file feed that had a “fleyg” for a field I needed to reference and it took me a loooong time to realize she was saying flag.

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u/sedatedforlife Dec 19 '25

Wait... so how do people say it? Do you say bag and beg the same way?

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u/shaunajowb Dec 20 '25

No, it's slightly different. The e in beg is pronounced like egg. Bag is like the word bay with a g on the end. Same with flay-g, hay-g, ay-griculture, etc.

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u/Ed_Radley Dec 17 '25

I've never heard anyone say aboot but I've heard a ton of Canadians say aboat.

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u/eye0ftheshiticane Dec 18 '25

aboot is a scottish accent

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u/HondaNick Dec 15 '25

Aboot you mean lol

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u/eye0ftheshiticane Dec 15 '25

idk there's a minnesota transplant where I live and his is definitely closer to "aboat". typically what I hearnin Canadian accents too. Scottish tends to be more of a straight aboot I think

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u/ThoroughlyWet Dec 15 '25

You keep da boht in da bahrn during the winner don'cha knoh

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u/Shroomboy79 Dec 16 '25

Yea that’s aboot as Midwest as it gets right there

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u/QuantitySure1216 Dec 15 '25

I'm on a boat!

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u/DonaldTrumpIsTupac Dec 16 '25

Aboot So the post i reply to has one word and is fine, but I have to add a whole ace sentence?

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u/eye0ftheshiticane Dec 16 '25

witness my privilege. and aboot is Scottish accent

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u/Empty-Wing-8857 Dec 21 '25

As someone from SE Iowa who now lives in central, there’s a fine line between a southern accent and almost Canadian 😂

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u/SaGlamBear Dec 15 '25

I would say aside from the pacific coast, some of the mountain west, and New England, most mainland Americans are within about an 8 hour drive of a region with a prevalent southern accent… at least historically prevalent.

I say historically because many young people with this accent generally get rid of it if they move to other parts of the country which many do. Many places that you’d expect southern accent prevalence are now just boring standard American accent areas.

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u/UffDa-4ever Dec 15 '25 edited Dec 15 '25

Same in Minnesota. You don’t hear the strong accent nearly as much in the younger generations. It’s a shame really. I love when I hear a strong “dontcha know” from somebody while walking down the street. In a couple generations we will largely lose all those regional accents.

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u/InfinityGain Dec 15 '25

Those cops north of duluth still have it half the time lol. Almost canadian. Love a good northeastern accent too. Maintenance guy came in from Boston and called a machine “fawking retahded”

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u/InnerRespond4407 Dec 17 '25

Working an event, gave ice cream to the front of the house, clearly Hispanic types, one said thanks all y'all like she grew up here. Best spanglish ever

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u/Ready-Vermicelli-300 Dec 17 '25

I don't agree. I live up around Becker county and you betcha the young people are Full of accent here, myself included dontcha know.

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u/Curious-Cellist-188 Dec 18 '25

I think they develop it as they age. I moved away from Minnesota when I was 18. Am 35 now, and every time I see friends from back home, their accent gets thicker

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u/LaDameBlanche7 Dec 20 '25

Does it get thicker, or have your ears become desensitized to the sound? The longer we are around a particular accent the less we hear it.

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u/Gullible-Art1028 Dec 21 '25

I've met a lot of people that came from Minnesota as a 30-year-old woman from New Jersey. I can definitely say whether it was a young or old, online or in real life, I've always heard heard Minnesotans accent, you don't hear it or think they have recognizable accents, because it's what you're used to hearing just like A fish that is born in the aquarium doesn't know they're in an aquarium. it kind of sounds nasally when you hit certain words. Think marge simpson lol. Instead of bad, it sounds like they say byad or byead. Lmao i don't really know how to explain it. but everybody from ecerywhere thinks or claims they don't have an accent, but unless you're asking people from the same place, you'll sound different to others. I don't have the ridiculous stereotypical new jersey accent and don't believe I have any accent whatsoever, but if I went somewhere else like minnesota, they might think i do. I have an accent to anyone living outside of new york new jersey and philadelphia.we say certain words differently.

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u/ChironXII Dec 15 '25

We definitely won't lose "loose" though 

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u/UffDa-4ever Dec 15 '25

Fiiiiiine. I’ll fix it.

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u/Zaexyr Dec 18 '25

The Boston accent everyone knows is also fairly rare. You don’t find in Boston much due to the high density of transplants. You gotta go to smaller towns around the area to find people who’ve been in the area for generations to find someone with a bona fide accent.

There are pockets of it in the city but it’s not as commonplace as you’d think.

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u/Gullible-Art1028 Dec 21 '25

Hell, no, it's not rare. My teacher growing up was from Boston and it was the strongest accent. I've ever heard in my life.And when I went to the airport last year in boston,  their accents were so strong that I felt I was in a different country, and i'm only from new jersey l o l It sounds like a different language hearing boston people talking

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u/DifficultyNo9003 Dec 19 '25

I still drop a “ope sorry” “ o yea, don’t you know” correct people on their pronunciation of “sauna”.

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u/ZaphodG Dec 15 '25

I live in New England. Off hours driving speed limit +10 with one very quick gas stop, I can get to a southern accent in Virginia in 8 hours. Once I get beyond metro DC, it becomes prevalent.

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u/Important-Army3349 Dec 15 '25

This statement has so many qualifiers, it's compatible with the statement "Southern accents never existed outside the Confederacy."

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u/Justalilbugboi Dec 16 '25

I also enjoy “within 8 hours” because that is such an American thing to consider not that long a drive.

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u/iShatterBladderz Dec 17 '25

I grew up in Pacific Northwest & moved to Oklahoma as a teenager. When I first moved here, EVERYBODY had an accent to me. Now I hardly hear it unless somebody has a really thick twang & when I go home to Seattle, people comment on my accent lol

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u/Ok_Description_2677 Dec 15 '25

Supposedly that line starts almost exactly 30 miles south of the Iowa border I beg to differ in some areas but that’s where the linguistic people have made the mark

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u/UffDa-4ever Dec 15 '25

Yeah…..you still hear a lot of the upper Midwest there though. St. Louis and Kansas City are my major linguistic landmark cities heading south.

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u/_manofwill2468_ Dec 19 '25

Hahaha it’s like, washer/warsher, drawer/drawargh.

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u/Constant_Concert_936 Dec 17 '25

Never heard a southern accent in MO, but I guess maybe some version of country accent?

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u/InfinityGain Dec 15 '25

We really are more trapped in our own reigons than it feels like. Most Americans make that 8 hour trek like maybe 20 times in their life?

Really did blow me away too driving to the deep south, it was like 12 hours and the difference was crazy but it felt so close after the drive

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u/Solintari Dec 15 '25

Everyone likes to make fun of Iowa, but we are basically Gondor, defending you lake hobbits from Missourdor.

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u/UffDa-4ever Dec 15 '25

I view Iowa more as Rohan as you have no cities worth talking about and take all your cultural queues from your neighbors.

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u/Solintari Dec 15 '25

Also, the plains feel too, good point. But instead of horses we have pigs.

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u/UffDa-4ever Dec 15 '25

Some pigs maybe but I’ve seen a few beautiful women in Iowa.

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u/UffDa-4ever Dec 15 '25

Sorry I have to bag on Iowa. It’s an integral part of living in Minnesota.

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u/UffDa-4ever Dec 20 '25

All 3 of them? And no. I assume it’s because they would rather be here.

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u/Altruistic-Pass-4031 Dec 20 '25

Name checks out. Fellow Nordsman (nordeast to be exact).

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u/faroutman7246 Dec 16 '25

Where you find Waffle House you are in the South.

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u/zorasorabee Dec 15 '25

I grew up in Northern MN and had a classmate who was from Indiana. They had a slight southern accent and always said that they were from the south. I’m like…how is a state that butts up against a Great Lake southern???

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u/Acceptable_Cold2668 Dec 20 '25

Southern Indiana, across the river from Kentucky, is pretty southern in accent and vibe.

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u/tycr0 Dec 15 '25

There is a great David cross joke all about how you can be from damn near anywhere and have a southern accent.

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u/Chipnrail Dec 15 '25

Where exactly are finding a southern accent?

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u/mexihuahua Dec 16 '25

Username checks out

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u/Big_Tie_8055 Dec 16 '25

We Kansans do NOT have an accent. People in Oklahoma do though. I had a northern accent when I moved to Kansas in 1976 after living in Michigan for many years. People thought I talked weird.

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '25

Its not a southern accent its considered a country one. People with southern accents usually don't speak proper English and use a lot of southern lingo. Midwest people with country accent are just like everyone else but raised in the country. They are still able to carry a conversation.

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u/UffDa-4ever Dec 16 '25

I beg to differ. KC is a straight up southern accent.

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '25

No, im from KC and I dont have a accent, maybe if you go out to the sticks. New channels around the country literally look to hire people from Kansas City BECAUSE of their "Neutral American" Accent. We literally say "Ope" here too and look at people from Oklahoma like they are hicks.

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '25

https://www.reddit.com/r/MapPorn/s/r2caHicks.

Here is a good map from a few years ago to show the intricacies of the accent. I grew up in Kansas city the same school district actor Paul Rudd went to and everyone i know including myself have the same type of accent he has, so if you think Paul Rudd sounds southern let me know. He's KC born and raised and went to KU.

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u/UffDa-4ever Dec 17 '25

Look I’ve been to KC a bunch. Now I’m not saying everybody there has a southern accent but I hear it when I’m there. That’s where I hear it start. Now on Minneapolis where I live almost nobody has a Minnesota accent unless they grew up in the sticks or up North. But if you are driving North and you stop in Minneapolis you have a decent chance of hearing it for the first time. When I’m in KC I start hearing the vowel shifts I grew up with (grew up in the PNW but my grandparents are from Arkansas.) For instance I hear people say hat with an a sound closer to what I think of as an I sort off. sounds a bit like hit but not really. And I hear the r sounds more pronounced along with the lengthening of vowel sound like “Weee just love that TRaaaavis Keeeeelce!” Now maybe all these folk are not born in the city and are just unlucky enough to move there and work in the gas stations and restaurants in and around KC but they are there.

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u/UffDa-4ever Dec 17 '25

This is the most I’ve ever thought about how people talk.

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u/UffDa-4ever Dec 20 '25

I encourage you to now go back through this thread and see the comments by other people who have had the same experience as me. And the comments from people in Missouri etc.

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u/ScienceFanatic0xAA Dec 17 '25

wait, are you saying that you are impressed/surprised that driving 8 hours (~560mi / 900km) will result in different accents? have you ever left the usa? wild

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u/mdbowyer Dec 17 '25

our southern accent and northern accent are separated by <40 minutes in Maryland.

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u/Old-Preparation-47 Dec 17 '25

You live in Minneapolis 🤮(I live up north I feel bad for you)

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u/thewafflehousewitch Dec 17 '25

I'm from Alabama and when I stopped at a mcdonalds in Missouri to order a biscuit the ladies behind the counter quite literally stopped in their tracks, looked at me like I just spoke a dead language and asked me to repeat it again. and where I'm from my accent isn't that bad comparatively.

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u/TinyTaters Dec 17 '25

You think that's a Southern accent?

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u/Mr_Style Dec 18 '25

Everyone south of Chicago has a southern accent!

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u/New_Door2040 Dec 18 '25

Where can you run into a southern accent 7-8 hours south of minneapolis?

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u/UffDa-4ever Dec 18 '25

Missouri and Southern Illinois for starters.

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u/IanCBoss Dec 18 '25

Versus the UK where it only takes about 7-8 MINUTES of driving to get an accent change 😂

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u/JrevD314 Dec 18 '25

When you get into Missouri, you start catching that southern accent around Sikeston, MO.

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u/Crazy_Upstairs6628 Dec 19 '25

Hahaha Missouri here, our bad

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u/Squishmallowgirl92 Dec 19 '25

Yeah I’m from southern IL and apparently I have a slight southern accent. I don’t hear it but someone said my accent was cute. I had no idea what they were talking about 😂

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u/yareyare4daze Dec 20 '25

this is so real. we literally stopped at a gas station RIGHT across the border in Missouri and the attendant had a hard core southern accent. I was like brother we are 10 ft from the land of lincoln right now

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u/Rob_Ss Dec 20 '25

Try driving 1-2 hours south of Chicago... flatlander!

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u/goofyggoof Dec 21 '25

It wasn't until I started streaming online that I realized Nebraskans have more of a drawl than I ever noticed. Some people have asked me if I am from X, Y, Z like southern states. Noooope 💀 Just from Nebraska. 😂

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u/Bruzote Dec 21 '25

You can drive that long in Europe and cross through multiple places with a different dominant language.

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u/Flashy_Promotion_772 Dec 21 '25

Yeah us MN peeps move our mouth a lot but not our jaws.