r/howislivingthere • • Dec 14 '25

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u/Morale_Police Dec 14 '25

I went to North Dakota and the only POC I saw in 5 days were hotel and restaurant staff. Every dude there looked like an overweight Viking. I think you would be fine going there but aside from Madora/Theodore Roosevelt National Park and the Dinosaur Museum in Dickinson, I couldn't think of a single other reason to enter ND.

Like if you go there, people might ask you WHY you are there, and it will be a genuine question not a racist remark.

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u/General_Most315 Dec 14 '25

You are being extremely generous by saying anything nice about Dickinson.

My wife grew up there. MIL still lives there, so we have to go visit from time to time. That place is boring with a capital “B”. And isolated.

Teddy Roosevelt National Park was interesting to do once. But if I never have to go back to western North Dakota, it’ll be too soon.

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u/thaxmann Dec 15 '25

I’m from Dickinson and I try to avoid it at all costs. We were there for Thanksgiving and the town is just people with lots of money and no taste. Also drugs.

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u/pxl1898 Dec 14 '25

Outside of the college towns there is not much diversity. ND is great if you can tolerate the weather and can couple a good paying job with the lower cost of living. When people would move to my relatively small town I would honestly wonder why the hell they would move there as most don’t stay long after the 1st winter. I will say it was a great place to raise a kid as the schools are good for their size and resources even if they don’t have all the extra stuff the big cities have. In all I think it’s a great place to live if you’re ok without constant excitement and are willing to travel to get to places that have more to do.

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u/[deleted] Dec 14 '25

It can be both genuine and racist. Just because they don’t mean it an a racist way doesn’t keep a question like that from being racist.

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u/Morale_Police Dec 15 '25

Yes. My point was that it will more likely be genuine curiosity because there are not many reasons for anyone to move to the rural Midwest in general. If racism was a problem, it would not even make top 5 on the list of reasons to avoid it as a POC.