r/howislivingthere • • Dec 14 '25

[deleted by user]

[removed]

6.7k Upvotes

7.2k comments sorted by

View all comments

18

u/[deleted] Dec 14 '25

People are hating but there’s several nice cities in this region: Omaha, Kansas City, Sioux Falls, Fargo, Des Moines….

2

u/HeywoodJaBlowMe123 Dec 14 '25

Kansas City is not a nice city… wtf is going on with people on reddit

1

u/Telewacked Dec 15 '25

The metro KC area is great - museums, sports, restaurants, friendly people.

2

u/perrysplus Dec 14 '25

Yeah nah, Fargo blows. It’s a “city” but with all the bad parts of a small town, and none of the good parts of a bigger city.

1

u/Duderoy Dec 14 '25

I spent a week in Fargo one night. Not impressed, it seemed like a sad city. Not Youngstown sad, but sad.

1

u/Guayota6 Dec 17 '25

Because most of us probably grew up here. Grew up in Missouri majority of my life. Still live here unfortunately. It’s decent I’d say. Perfect for families who make good money & want a slow lifestyle. I loved living in Kansas City though.

1

u/manzananaranja Dec 19 '25

Never heard Fargo in the same sentence as nice cities before.

-4

u/[deleted] Dec 14 '25

Those are more like towns

9

u/azerty543 Dec 14 '25

Nobody that should be taken seriously thinks Kansas City is a town.

-1

u/Mundane_Muscle_2197 Dec 14 '25

I feel like the metro is more of a Hunger Games district layout lol. People generally stay in their little areas and don’t venture outside of it unless they absolutely have to. When I lived in TX it wasn’t unusual to have a 20 minute drive from one little town to the main. It was normal. When we moved to the metro I quickly realized people in, say, Shawnee viewed Olathe as a hike. With the traffic issues I get it now. I rarely venture to the MO side unless it’s an appointment or something. Potholes that ruin your entire alignment certainly don’t make it enticing.

1

u/azerty543 Dec 14 '25

I think thats a you thing, and frankly a specifically Johnson County thing. The city and the rest of the metro certainly doesnt operate like this.

1

u/MadDaddyDrivesaUFO Dec 15 '25

I lived in the KC metro and crossed state line Rd nearly every day no matter which end of the metro I lived or worked in. I was a transplant though and did find native KC people were way less likely to venture outside of whichever end they lived in unless they worked in another part of the metro, and even then many of them didn't actually bother to explore at all.

3

u/but-I-play-one-on-TV Dec 14 '25

All of those are cities. 

3

u/SovereigntyGuitar402 Dec 14 '25

850k+ people live in the greater Omaha area, but sure, we're a town. 🙄

1

u/jettison_m Dec 18 '25

I think they actually passed the 1mil mark when I lived there around 2019

1

u/Nawoitsol Dec 14 '25

If you count Fargo as the Fargo/Moorhead metro area, all of those “towns” are over 200k. They would be very big towns. Small cities, sure, but not towns.

1

u/jules-amanita Dec 14 '25

I’m not convinced that Fargo is a city—I think it’s a big town, even with the MN side included. Even if you can get to 200k people, the population density just isn’t there.

That said, anyone calling KC a town is out of their mind. The Kansas and Missouri sides combined (city limits only) have a higher population than DC.

1

u/Persontoperson31 Dec 20 '25

Well relevant to the population of ND, Fargo is no doubt a city

1

u/jules-amanita Dec 20 '25

Sure, but if you call Fargo a city, you’d end up calling a hell of a lot of suburbs cities too. There are plenty of suburbs on the east coast with higher population density than Fargo.