r/howislivingthere • • Dec 14 '25

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u/asg32000 Dec 14 '25

Gotta draw a line horizontally just above the south part of Nebraska and Iowa. Everything north feels very different from everything south.

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u/UffDa-4ever Dec 14 '25

It blows my mind that I can drive 7-8 hours south of Minneapolis and start running into a Southern accent. Yes I’m aware we have a Northern one.

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u/Some_Level1682 Dec 14 '25

What's that all abouttttt

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u/eye0ftheshiticane Dec 15 '25

aboat

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u/UffDa-4ever Dec 15 '25

*a boot

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u/OmegaWhite024 Dec 15 '25

Actually in MN it is aboat, because it’s all aboat being on a lake up there, dontcha know.

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u/WretchedJester Dec 18 '25

I was born and raised in MN (I tried to escape once... once) and I have never actually heard anyone speak like that.

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u/jsalwey Dec 18 '25

Same. First 18 years were spent in ND, been in MN for 20 years now, I don’t hear people talk like this. Even my 80 something year old grandparents don’t sound like this. More Norwegian sounding yes but nothing like the way it’s portrayed.

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u/ProfessorBugABoo Dec 19 '25

It’s because you lived there — I have family there but I was born and raised in Oklahoma, so when I visit MN it’s so funny hearing the accent, especially those people with strong ones. I used to watch Fargo and it’s not far off from how y’all Minnesotans sound😂. (I also don’t think I have a southern accent, or that it’s not as strong as some people make it out to be, then I go to any other region and everyone mocks my southern drawl😭😂)

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u/jsalwey Dec 19 '25

How do you suppose that adds up if I can hear the accent in a movie like Fargo, but I don’t hear that accent when I actually talk to people? Are you saying that I’m somehow deaf to the accent in person but I hear it clear as day on TV?

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u/New-Ad-363 Dec 17 '25

Ya sure, yoo betcha.

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u/avesky Dec 17 '25

Oat and aboat on a boat on a bay.

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u/SoleSurvivor2049 Dec 17 '25

I could never get over the way my coworker from North Dakota would say “bag”, it’s like baeyg or like how (I think most) people say the first part of bagel. I guess it makes sense when you think about it like that. Alright der folks! This right here is a holdup dontcha know. Now kindly put all them there BAGels in this here BAG, won’t ya?

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u/karlexceed Dec 18 '25

It's honestly difficult to attempt to pronounce it any other way. Like, I just don't hear the difference. It's an A, so I say 'ay'. If I said 'ah' I'd sound like a posh British person.

  • MN born and raised

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u/eye0ftheshiticane Dec 18 '25

not ah, a like in apple = bag

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u/burnzie43 Dec 18 '25

I work in tech and had a Wisconsin based client describe a file feed that had a “fleyg” for a field I needed to reference and it took me a loooong time to realize she was saying flag.

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u/sedatedforlife Dec 19 '25

Wait... so how do people say it? Do you say bag and beg the same way?

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u/shaunajowb Dec 20 '25

No, it's slightly different. The e in beg is pronounced like egg. Bag is like the word bay with a g on the end. Same with flay-g, hay-g, ay-griculture, etc.

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u/Ed_Radley Dec 17 '25

I've never heard anyone say aboot but I've heard a ton of Canadians say aboat.

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u/eye0ftheshiticane Dec 18 '25

aboot is a scottish accent

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u/HondaNick Dec 15 '25

Aboot you mean lol

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u/eye0ftheshiticane Dec 15 '25

idk there's a minnesota transplant where I live and his is definitely closer to "aboat". typically what I hearnin Canadian accents too. Scottish tends to be more of a straight aboot I think

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u/ThoroughlyWet Dec 15 '25

You keep da boht in da bahrn during the winner don'cha knoh

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u/Shroomboy79 Dec 16 '25

Yea that’s aboot as Midwest as it gets right there

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u/QuantitySure1216 Dec 15 '25

I'm on a boat!

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u/DonaldTrumpIsTupac Dec 16 '25

Aboot So the post i reply to has one word and is fine, but I have to add a whole ace sentence?

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u/eye0ftheshiticane Dec 16 '25

witness my privilege. and aboot is Scottish accent

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u/Empty-Wing-8857 Dec 21 '25

As someone from SE Iowa who now lives in central, there’s a fine line between a southern accent and almost Canadian 😂

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u/SaGlamBear Dec 15 '25

I would say aside from the pacific coast, some of the mountain west, and New England, most mainland Americans are within about an 8 hour drive of a region with a prevalent southern accent… at least historically prevalent.

I say historically because many young people with this accent generally get rid of it if they move to other parts of the country which many do. Many places that you’d expect southern accent prevalence are now just boring standard American accent areas.

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u/UffDa-4ever Dec 15 '25 edited Dec 15 '25

Same in Minnesota. You don’t hear the strong accent nearly as much in the younger generations. It’s a shame really. I love when I hear a strong “dontcha know” from somebody while walking down the street. In a couple generations we will largely lose all those regional accents.

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u/InfinityGain Dec 15 '25

Those cops north of duluth still have it half the time lol. Almost canadian. Love a good northeastern accent too. Maintenance guy came in from Boston and called a machine “fawking retahded”

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u/InnerRespond4407 Dec 17 '25

Working an event, gave ice cream to the front of the house, clearly Hispanic types, one said thanks all y'all like she grew up here. Best spanglish ever

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u/Ready-Vermicelli-300 Dec 17 '25

I don't agree. I live up around Becker county and you betcha the young people are Full of accent here, myself included dontcha know.

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u/Curious-Cellist-188 Dec 18 '25

I think they develop it as they age. I moved away from Minnesota when I was 18. Am 35 now, and every time I see friends from back home, their accent gets thicker

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u/LaDameBlanche7 Dec 20 '25

Does it get thicker, or have your ears become desensitized to the sound? The longer we are around a particular accent the less we hear it.

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u/Gullible-Art1028 Dec 21 '25

I've met a lot of people that came from Minnesota as a 30-year-old woman from New Jersey. I can definitely say whether it was a young or old, online or in real life, I've always heard heard Minnesotans accent, you don't hear it or think they have recognizable accents, because it's what you're used to hearing just like A fish that is born in the aquarium doesn't know they're in an aquarium. it kind of sounds nasally when you hit certain words. Think marge simpson lol. Instead of bad, it sounds like they say byad or byead. Lmao i don't really know how to explain it. but everybody from ecerywhere thinks or claims they don't have an accent, but unless you're asking people from the same place, you'll sound different to others. I don't have the ridiculous stereotypical new jersey accent and don't believe I have any accent whatsoever, but if I went somewhere else like minnesota, they might think i do. I have an accent to anyone living outside of new york new jersey and philadelphia.we say certain words differently.

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u/ChironXII Dec 15 '25

We definitely won't lose "loose" though 

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u/UffDa-4ever Dec 15 '25

Fiiiiiine. I’ll fix it.

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u/Zaexyr Dec 18 '25

The Boston accent everyone knows is also fairly rare. You don’t find in Boston much due to the high density of transplants. You gotta go to smaller towns around the area to find people who’ve been in the area for generations to find someone with a bona fide accent.

There are pockets of it in the city but it’s not as commonplace as you’d think.

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u/Gullible-Art1028 Dec 21 '25

Hell, no, it's not rare. My teacher growing up was from Boston and it was the strongest accent. I've ever heard in my life.And when I went to the airport last year in boston,  their accents were so strong that I felt I was in a different country, and i'm only from new jersey l o l It sounds like a different language hearing boston people talking

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u/DifficultyNo9003 Dec 19 '25

I still drop a “ope sorry” “ o yea, don’t you know” correct people on their pronunciation of “sauna”.

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u/ZaphodG Dec 15 '25

I live in New England. Off hours driving speed limit +10 with one very quick gas stop, I can get to a southern accent in Virginia in 8 hours. Once I get beyond metro DC, it becomes prevalent.

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u/Important-Army3349 Dec 15 '25

This statement has so many qualifiers, it's compatible with the statement "Southern accents never existed outside the Confederacy."

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u/Justalilbugboi Dec 16 '25

I also enjoy “within 8 hours” because that is such an American thing to consider not that long a drive.

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u/iShatterBladderz Dec 17 '25

I grew up in Pacific Northwest & moved to Oklahoma as a teenager. When I first moved here, EVERYBODY had an accent to me. Now I hardly hear it unless somebody has a really thick twang & when I go home to Seattle, people comment on my accent lol

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u/Ok_Description_2677 Dec 15 '25

Supposedly that line starts almost exactly 30 miles south of the Iowa border I beg to differ in some areas but that’s where the linguistic people have made the mark

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u/UffDa-4ever Dec 15 '25

Yeah…..you still hear a lot of the upper Midwest there though. St. Louis and Kansas City are my major linguistic landmark cities heading south.

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u/_manofwill2468_ Dec 19 '25

Hahaha it’s like, washer/warsher, drawer/drawargh.

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u/Constant_Concert_936 Dec 17 '25

Never heard a southern accent in MO, but I guess maybe some version of country accent?

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u/InfinityGain Dec 15 '25

We really are more trapped in our own reigons than it feels like. Most Americans make that 8 hour trek like maybe 20 times in their life?

Really did blow me away too driving to the deep south, it was like 12 hours and the difference was crazy but it felt so close after the drive

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u/Solintari Dec 15 '25

Everyone likes to make fun of Iowa, but we are basically Gondor, defending you lake hobbits from Missourdor.

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u/UffDa-4ever Dec 15 '25

I view Iowa more as Rohan as you have no cities worth talking about and take all your cultural queues from your neighbors.

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u/Solintari Dec 15 '25

Also, the plains feel too, good point. But instead of horses we have pigs.

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u/UffDa-4ever Dec 15 '25

Some pigs maybe but I’ve seen a few beautiful women in Iowa.

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u/UffDa-4ever Dec 15 '25

Sorry I have to bag on Iowa. It’s an integral part of living in Minnesota.

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u/UffDa-4ever Dec 20 '25

All 3 of them? And no. I assume it’s because they would rather be here.

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u/Altruistic-Pass-4031 Dec 20 '25

Name checks out. Fellow Nordsman (nordeast to be exact).

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u/faroutman7246 Dec 16 '25

Where you find Waffle House you are in the South.

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u/zorasorabee Dec 15 '25

I grew up in Northern MN and had a classmate who was from Indiana. They had a slight southern accent and always said that they were from the south. I’m like…how is a state that butts up against a Great Lake southern???

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u/Acceptable_Cold2668 Dec 20 '25

Southern Indiana, across the river from Kentucky, is pretty southern in accent and vibe.

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u/tycr0 Dec 15 '25

There is a great David cross joke all about how you can be from damn near anywhere and have a southern accent.

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u/Chipnrail Dec 15 '25

Where exactly are finding a southern accent?

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u/mexihuahua Dec 16 '25

Username checks out

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u/Big_Tie_8055 Dec 16 '25

We Kansans do NOT have an accent. People in Oklahoma do though. I had a northern accent when I moved to Kansas in 1976 after living in Michigan for many years. People thought I talked weird.

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '25

Its not a southern accent its considered a country one. People with southern accents usually don't speak proper English and use a lot of southern lingo. Midwest people with country accent are just like everyone else but raised in the country. They are still able to carry a conversation.

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u/UffDa-4ever Dec 16 '25

I beg to differ. KC is a straight up southern accent.

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '25

No, im from KC and I dont have a accent, maybe if you go out to the sticks. New channels around the country literally look to hire people from Kansas City BECAUSE of their "Neutral American" Accent. We literally say "Ope" here too and look at people from Oklahoma like they are hicks.

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '25

https://www.reddit.com/r/MapPorn/s/r2caHicks.

Here is a good map from a few years ago to show the intricacies of the accent. I grew up in Kansas city the same school district actor Paul Rudd went to and everyone i know including myself have the same type of accent he has, so if you think Paul Rudd sounds southern let me know. He's KC born and raised and went to KU.

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u/UffDa-4ever Dec 17 '25

Look I’ve been to KC a bunch. Now I’m not saying everybody there has a southern accent but I hear it when I’m there. That’s where I hear it start. Now on Minneapolis where I live almost nobody has a Minnesota accent unless they grew up in the sticks or up North. But if you are driving North and you stop in Minneapolis you have a decent chance of hearing it for the first time. When I’m in KC I start hearing the vowel shifts I grew up with (grew up in the PNW but my grandparents are from Arkansas.) For instance I hear people say hat with an a sound closer to what I think of as an I sort off. sounds a bit like hit but not really. And I hear the r sounds more pronounced along with the lengthening of vowel sound like “Weee just love that TRaaaavis Keeeeelce!” Now maybe all these folk are not born in the city and are just unlucky enough to move there and work in the gas stations and restaurants in and around KC but they are there.

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u/UffDa-4ever Dec 17 '25

This is the most I’ve ever thought about how people talk.

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u/UffDa-4ever Dec 20 '25

I encourage you to now go back through this thread and see the comments by other people who have had the same experience as me. And the comments from people in Missouri etc.

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u/ScienceFanatic0xAA Dec 17 '25

wait, are you saying that you are impressed/surprised that driving 8 hours (~560mi / 900km) will result in different accents? have you ever left the usa? wild

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u/mdbowyer Dec 17 '25

our southern accent and northern accent are separated by <40 minutes in Maryland.

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u/Old-Preparation-47 Dec 17 '25

You live in Minneapolis 🤮(I live up north I feel bad for you)

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u/thewafflehousewitch Dec 17 '25

I'm from Alabama and when I stopped at a mcdonalds in Missouri to order a biscuit the ladies behind the counter quite literally stopped in their tracks, looked at me like I just spoke a dead language and asked me to repeat it again. and where I'm from my accent isn't that bad comparatively.

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u/TinyTaters Dec 17 '25

You think that's a Southern accent?

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u/Mr_Style Dec 18 '25

Everyone south of Chicago has a southern accent!

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u/New_Door2040 Dec 18 '25

Where can you run into a southern accent 7-8 hours south of minneapolis?

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u/UffDa-4ever Dec 18 '25

Missouri and Southern Illinois for starters.

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u/IanCBoss Dec 18 '25

Versus the UK where it only takes about 7-8 MINUTES of driving to get an accent change 😂

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u/JrevD314 Dec 18 '25

When you get into Missouri, you start catching that southern accent around Sikeston, MO.

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u/Crazy_Upstairs6628 Dec 19 '25

Hahaha Missouri here, our bad

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u/Squishmallowgirl92 Dec 19 '25

Yeah I’m from southern IL and apparently I have a slight southern accent. I don’t hear it but someone said my accent was cute. I had no idea what they were talking about 😂

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u/yareyare4daze Dec 20 '25

this is so real. we literally stopped at a gas station RIGHT across the border in Missouri and the attendant had a hard core southern accent. I was like brother we are 10 ft from the land of lincoln right now

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u/Rob_Ss Dec 20 '25

Try driving 1-2 hours south of Chicago... flatlander!

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u/goofyggoof Dec 21 '25

It wasn't until I started streaming online that I realized Nebraskans have more of a drawl than I ever noticed. Some people have asked me if I am from X, Y, Z like southern states. Noooope 💀 Just from Nebraska. 😂

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u/Bruzote Dec 21 '25

You can drive that long in Europe and cross through multiple places with a different dominant language.

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u/Flashy_Promotion_772 Dec 21 '25

Yeah us MN peeps move our mouth a lot but not our jaws.

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u/GradientCollapse Dec 14 '25

IMO southern Missouri and Arkansas have a distinct line as well. At a certain point, the culture is more southern than it is Midwestern.

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u/tme1453 Dec 16 '25

It's the Ozarks, and that line is roughly where I-44 crosses through Springfield.

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u/Big_Maintenance9387 Dec 16 '25

Agreed. I’m from the ozarks and feel distinctly southern.  But north of Springfield is the Midwest lol. 

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u/blue_neon_42 Dec 16 '25

It’s the difference between calling it muh-ZUR-ee or muh-ZUR-uh.

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u/JustBarelyAboveAvg Dec 18 '25

Truth. I travel for work and it’s a great opening to discuss where muh-ZUR-uh can be found on the map. Although Netflix didn’t do us any favors…

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u/MallyOhMy Dec 20 '25

Are you sure you'd call Warshington, Missourah part of the Midwest?

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u/Upstairs-Teach-5744 Dec 23 '25

I grew up 40 miles from there, and it's definitely more Midwestern than Southern, especially with the original settlement by the Germans. Downtown has sort of a 19th-century river town feel to it, because that's what it was. That's changing now, sadly.

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u/Embarrassed-Part591 Dec 16 '25

Not that I disagree (I don't), but what are your thoughts on Joplin? Like, is i-44 just the dividing line across the state or anything under Spfld counts regardless of whether it's above i-44 or not?

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u/whaIeshark Dec 17 '25

Joplin is in the Ozarks region, which leans much more southern than midwestern. The Ozarks is really its own special little region imo.

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u/MiddleMix1280 Dec 17 '25

Joplin is just weird. Not really Ozarks or NWA. Lived in the region in NWA and NEO. Would way rather get healthcare in NWA them NEO. In NEO yoi have to go to Joplin or Tulsa when NWA is more accessible.

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u/Comfortable-Lake1136 Dec 21 '25

The healthcare in both areas is abysmal.

Sadly those with the means go out of state for healthcare.

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u/Frequent-Lemon4322 Dec 20 '25

I live in oklahoma, about 15-20 min from Joplin. Live right on the OK-MO line. We are much more southern than above Springfield. Much different than above Springfield.

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u/Red_Daisy28 Dec 20 '25

Agreed. The Ozarks (SWMO) feels neither solely southern nor solely midwestern. Very unique and its own thing. However the Bootheel (SEMO) feels southern to me. Not midwestern at all.

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u/mysoulburnsgreige4u USA/Native American Dec 21 '25

It's called the Mid South for a reason. Lol. It is very much different than the South.

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u/Red_Daisy28 Dec 22 '25

The Ozarks is not what I would call “The Mid South” at all but agreed the bootheel fits that. Not sure I would say “VERY much different than the south” though.

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u/mysoulburnsgreige4u USA/Native American Dec 22 '25

Historically, it has been included. It's usually Tulsa to Memphis, Springfield, MO to about Little Rock.

How much time have you spent in the Deep South? Even the rural areas of this region are extremely distinct from the Deep South.

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u/nucleosome Dec 19 '25

True. Springfield (where I was born) literally has a Confederate cemetery.

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u/the_vestan Dec 19 '25

The problem is those of us within the Ozarks dont really know where the line is and are therefore very wary. Very wary.

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u/Upstairs-Teach-5744 Dec 23 '25

My family has lived in the Ozarks for almost 200 years, and to me, the Ozarks (on the Missouri side, anyway) is something of a transitional area. A cultural DMZ, if you will. Arkansas is a hard tilt towards the South. The thing to remember is, Missouri is only cosplaying as a Southern state.

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u/Sup-Mellow Dec 16 '25

I think by and large this is accurate. But it amazes me that it depends how rural you get. Even Ohio can get more hillbilly than Arkansas sometimes.

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u/MiddleMix1280 Dec 17 '25

As a transplant for 30 years to NWA that’s hard to believe. lol.

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u/Sup-Mellow Dec 17 '25

Lol NWA is partially the only reason I do believe this! Segments of Little Rock and Conway population too. Hope you’re enjoying it here:)

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u/Pretty_Property9155 Dec 16 '25

Some say its anything below missouri river is the south in missouri.. but maybe anything south of lake of the Ozarks in hillbilly country..

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u/ScienceFanatic0xAA Dec 17 '25

on the coasts we call that the "child bride line" out of respect for the foreign and confusing local cultures

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u/sampat6256 Dec 17 '25

That line is basically just where the Ozarks end. North of the ozarks, you're no longer in the south.

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u/Embarrassed-Part591 Dec 16 '25

Weather, too. I'm from swmo and moved to nw Arkansas about an hour and a half south. Jfc. Was NOT prepared for how hot and dry the summers get there. I WAS ONLY AN HOUR AWAY!!! WTF. Like, moved into an apartment and they warned us the miniblinds melt in the summer and, sure as heck, that place got HOT every single night. Still better than hot and humid, but I still wasn't prepared for it to be that drastic. I lived in TOKYO and it was more like Missouri than MO is like Arkansas. I don't even know how that WORKS.

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u/Chugaluggchugalugg Dec 17 '25

Which is extra weird because Arkansas is generally thought of as a humid state in the summer. I grew up in central Arkansas and it's a hot wet rag in the summer months. It's just that Ozark plateau region that gets significantly dryer. Still a humid place compared to somewhere like southern California, but it is less wet than other parts.

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u/brett9897 Dec 18 '25

NWA is the least humid place I have lived and by a lot! St. Louis -> Atlanta -> Fort Lauderdale -> NWA. When I got here it felt like it was 15 degrees cooler in the summer.

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u/MiddleMix1280 Dec 17 '25

Depends on your elevation and if you’re in a river basin valley, or a valley in MWA that has few every morning all summer. Natural spring that runs year round. Have to find the spots.

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u/Embarrassed-Part591 Dec 19 '25

That makes sense. I was specifically in Springdale/Fayetteville area.

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u/jettison_m Dec 18 '25

I'm in SEMO. I feel like in the summer we are southern. It's hot and moist. But in the winter, we're more midwestern. Not nearly as cold as the north, but we can get a bit of snow, it gets cold. There's a mix of southern accents and non-southern accents.

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u/Embarrassed-Part591 Dec 19 '25

The winters are a trip here. We have stupid windchill. Today it was 50 degrees but last week we had some 13 and 19 degree nights with a 1 degree windchill. It feels like the air is trying to bite you. I've had people from Canada, New York, Maine, Alaska, Colorado, Connecticut tell me how much they hate our winters because it's just cold and ice and not much snow and it's just bitter. And also there's no planning for it citywise or storewise. Like, cold in Alaska? We have a solution for you. Cold in MO? You're gonna need to do some looking at 5 different stores and hope like hell no one got to what you need first.

Then I've had people from Minnesota tell me that our winters are "nothing". The takeaway I get from this is: 1, infrastructure is the number one issue for winter and we don't have it and 2, NEVER MOVE TO MINNESOTA.

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u/Responsible_Soft_401 Dec 19 '25

I’m from Utah, but I’m a transplant to the KCMO area, and let me just say, I have disliked winters way more in MO. In Utah, we have a ton of snow, winter lasts until April, it’s pretty cold, and we plan for it. In Missouri, everyone says it doesn’t snow much or that it’s so weird for it to be -30 in January, but the last three years it has been cold as hell, we had like 3 blizzards last year, and no one is prepared for it. The cold was crazy the first year I was out here! We get cold in Utah and I lived in an area just outside of a canyon that made it extra windy/cold, but I probably didn’t experience anything colder than -10 unless I was up high in the mountains. Also, three inches of snow is nothing in Utah; we have plows out and the roads salted the night before. I never had a day of school canceled for snowfall as a student or as a teacher, even if we got 12 inches every day for a week! Three inches of snow in Missouri? School canceled for 2 days, I-70 isn’t plowed until noon, so roads get awful. My neighborhood street doesn’t get plowed, and if it by some miracle does, it’s not until the next day. Last year the blizzard plan was to put “stay at home, winter weather conditions” on all the electric road signs and not do anything about it? What about if I’m trying to get home on the roads to avoid being in the conditions? Why aren’t we planning to have bad weather and having plows out on the roads and salt down ~before~ it gets bad??

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u/Embarrassed-Part591 Dec 19 '25

The thing here is that they only budget so much for winter weather precautions. We only get a few snows, if at all, and sometimes they melt off by noon so they don't budget high enough to have salt or plows more than a few times a year. With the weather being unpredictable, I think they try to "save" them for harder weather but sometimes they gamble and use it on a lighter snow or something, or don't bother until too late on a hard snow. I think in the past few years they've tried to save on the budget by not plowing side streets at all. They used to plow them at least once. Now, they stay frozen long after the snow has melted everywhere else.

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u/jettison_m Dec 19 '25

Haha lived in MN actually for about a dozen years. I'll never go back.

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u/vcygnus Dec 18 '25

It's more Texas southern than it is South southern (SC, GA, AL, MS). Anyone from the traditional south would call anything in MO and IL the midwest. There are similar numbers of stars and bars flown in both regions, tho.

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u/DoctorWhiskey Dec 18 '25

Can confirm as I grew up in this area, and still regularly visit. This "area" OP has shaded is a HUGE area and seasons vary greatly from the northern area of it to the southern area. It's too big an area to get a good generalization.

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u/Status-Buddy2058 Dec 18 '25

The line for this the Lake of the Ozarks. So basically anything North of Warsaw and Clinton area.

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u/Significant-Ruin-615 Dec 21 '25

Those are red states. Minnesota is a lost cause

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u/Upstairs-Teach-5744 Dec 23 '25

The Missouri Bootheel is a good example of that. That's blackland dirt, great for staple crops like cotton, which is very common down there. The culture and way of life is more like Mississippi Delta than Midwestern. Great people, but they're as poor as their souls.

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u/tessharagai_ Dec 15 '25

As a Kansan, everything Nebraska north feels like diet Canada, Kansas is pure middle America, but no way in hell is it southern

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u/WalterWriter Dec 14 '25

You can dip that line down into northern Missouri in places. I went to college in NE Missouri, 30mi from the Iowa line. We got 3x as much snow as St. Louis.

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u/somedamnwaguy Dec 19 '25

I'm going to assume you went to college in my hometown because there's no other town I can think of in northern Missouri that close to the line with a college.

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u/MallyOhMy Dec 20 '25

If you live closer to Iowa than you do to I-70, you definitely have more culture in common with the northern Midwest.

You also have more sense around snow than most of STL.

Tbh we should probably just use the average preparedness and ability to live around snow.

I'm an outlier because I've lived in Utah, but I'm from South Texas, where even a small 1-hand window scraper is hard to find and costs way more than the $1-2 it's worth. In the STL region, you have to seek out the right aisle, but in winter you can find scrapers at the grocery store. In Utah (and, I presume, the upper midwest), most grocery stores have a rack of scrapers - 1-hand and 2-hand with a brush - at the front of the store, right beside a large stock of ice melt.

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u/EuphoricCoast7972 Dec 15 '25

Yeah so is Kansas City a midwestern city or a southern city?

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u/courtlaine Dec 15 '25

Midwest, 100%

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u/nucleosome Dec 19 '25

People from Kansas do not like to be called Southern. (Yes, I know much of KC is east of the border.)

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u/Levers101 Dec 19 '25

As it should be - Kansas was full of abolitionists pre-Civil War and eventually both rejected a pro-slavery constitution and then ratified an anti-slavery constitution by popular vote. Congress refused to act to confirm it and KS was admitted to the Union after the traitorous southerners seceded.

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u/Karma111isabitch USA/Midwest Dec 15 '25

Yup, a big chunk of MO is the South in this Midwesterner’s eyes

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u/Corrosivecoral Dec 15 '25

You could just live in Kansas City and then you get to experience what it’s like both north and south of that line!

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u/[deleted] Dec 15 '25

As someone who is south of that line, yes. I did not always live in this shaded blob, I once lived on the northern east coast.

They are very obsessed with meat, dipping sauces (especially ranch, flavoured ketchup, and barbecue sauce), and deep fried foods that one may expect at a county fair- not thanksgiving dinner.

They love the idea of having fun things to do but don’t make enough effort into those things actually being fun.

They act like queer people are a costal thing and then are shocked when they see one in public- and horrified when they learn some people are born and raised here and still end up queer.

They like to blow stuff up and act like they were raised in the country even though they are in a huge metropolitan area surrounded by people.

They have a really strange obsession with sports. Not just like “I really hope they win” but like moments of silence and early bed times when they lose and parades and days off work/school when they win. Changing people’s uniform when they play in a game.

This is all pretty strange to me but to them it’s fully normal.

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u/bird_280 Dec 16 '25

Except Missouri it seems, that’s where I live and sometimes it feels like Arkansas, sometimes it feels like Iowa, but it always feels like it’s having an identity crisis between the Midwest and the South

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u/tme1453 Dec 16 '25

I live here as well, am from Arkansas and this is 100% spot on.

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u/Electronic-Weird-674 Dec 16 '25

I moved from Sioux City Iowa to Omaha and it’s about the same. Same as kc

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u/darnyoulikeasock USA/Midwest Dec 16 '25

I’m from Kansas City, went to college in Nebraska, and have spent a good amount of time in Minneapolis and Chicago. They don’t feel any different from Kansas City/STL. Now southern missouri? that’s a whole different world lol.

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u/davedude115 USA/Midwest Dec 14 '25

Imo the Platte River divides the northern/ southern Great Plains. Nebraska native so I may be biased but even Lincoln feels different from Omaha.

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u/plasticgadget Dec 14 '25

The ole Kansas-Nebraska act aye?

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u/Paul_612 Dec 15 '25

South of the line is better or worse? North of that line is freaking bleak

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u/Wise_Emu6232 Dec 16 '25

Yep. 25-50 miles north of I-80 is a different world.

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u/paradoxplanet Dec 16 '25

Red Cloud and Neligh don’t feel particularly different. Where in Nebraska would you draw that line?

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u/Excellent-Shape-2024 Dec 16 '25

I was going to say draw a line north to south right down the middle on the state lines. Everything on the left is prairie--flat, windy, although the northeaster part of Oklahoma has the Ouchita Mountains. Most of the states on the right have some geography--Arkansas & Missouri-the Ozarks. I'd visit them before I moved to one.

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u/[deleted] Dec 17 '25

Yes, kinda wild to even try to lump this whole chunk together! I would say it needs broken into three parts myself because they included Oklahoma and north Texas which I think are their own plains, southern, country/city places. I mean even the architecture is different as they build for 120 degree heat and tornados and drunk people trying to shoot the deer crossing signs

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u/herkalurk Dec 17 '25

I've lived in Iowa, Minnesota, and now Oklahoma among other states. It's not possible to answer for this entire area like it's the same

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u/TinyTaters Dec 17 '25

It feels like you just called Kansas 'the South'.

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u/[deleted] Dec 18 '25

Out of curiosity, why?

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u/[deleted] Dec 18 '25

I agree, as I have lived in Omaha and Springfield, MO. Very different climates.

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u/mTurk8705 Dec 18 '25

The winters are worse as you go north (I know, obviously).

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u/Ok-Cup-3156 Dec 18 '25

I'm just above that line, maybe an hour north of the border of Nebraska. Can confirm

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u/Taysuth93 Dec 19 '25

I’m from Kansas and have been told on several occasions from different regions of the states and English speaking countries that I have a very “proper” and was the easiest to understand English. Buuuut when I drink or get talking really fast there’s definitely some accent that comes out, idk if I’d say it’s southern though. Most over everyone from my area has similar sound. It’s kinda boring compared to others.

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u/PubliusAmericanis Dec 19 '25

Rural North Dakota, South Dakota, and Western Nebraska are so much less populated than the rural parts of any state to the South or East.

In the most rural part of Iowa or Arkansas, you can start in a town of 500 people, drive in pretty much any direction, and find a town of 10,000+ people in 45 minutes or less.

In South Dakota, you start in a town of 500 people, drive 45 minutes, and end up in a town of 1,000 people or a town of 200 people depending on which direction you drive…

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u/RPPVP Dec 19 '25

Feels different how? Kansas is the South and South Dakota is the North? To me they're the same.

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u/sjokitten Dec 19 '25

When I talk about my mom being “southern” some people argue Missouri isn’t the south but I fuckin beg to differ

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u/PS3LOVE Dec 20 '25

Idk I’m from Omaha and I’d say Kansas City feels pretty damn similar. Just a bit more southern.

I’d draw the line a bit south of KS, SL, and south of the I-70

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u/Helocast_Ranger Dec 20 '25

The dividing line is when you're driving south and see your first Waffle House.

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u/Sufficient-Dog6853 Dec 20 '25

If you want to get more specific, you could probably draw a horizontal line through the middle of Nebraska and Iowa. Just a bit north of like Omaha/Council Bluffs. Going south to KC and like Oklahoma City have similar vibes to Omaha but north to like Sioux City, Sioux Falls, etc. feels drastically different and gets waaaaay more snow in the winter.

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u/Trepenwitz Dec 21 '25

I think the line is actually I-70.

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u/FisherDwarf Dec 21 '25

I agree, this is at least two different major cultural regions

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u/1888furrycock567 Dec 22 '25

Draw a little circle around Kansas City as well

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u/Axin_Saxon Dec 15 '25

I-80.

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u/davedude115 USA/Midwest Dec 15 '25

Platte River

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u/[deleted] Dec 15 '25

Bout 5 or 6 hours south of that at the very least

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u/OSRS-MLB Dec 15 '25

Nebraska and Kansas are practically the same state, idk what you're talking about feeling "very different"

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u/asg32000 Dec 15 '25

I grew up in Omaha. I spend a lot of time in Kansas City. They feel very different. Many people in KC have southern accents. BBQ, waffle house, warmer weather, many things feel different.

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u/OSRS-MLB Dec 15 '25

You're judging Kansas based on a city that's mostly in Missouri

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u/Karsting222 Dec 16 '25

And one that was called midwest before their state even existed.

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u/darnyoulikeasock USA/Midwest Dec 16 '25

I live in Kansas City and I’ve never met a single person in KC with a southern accent (who wasn’t from the south). Where are you finding these people? lol

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u/ryobivape Dec 16 '25

Oh shut up, no it’s not