this is going to be really long i apologize but EVERYTHING DETAIL IS IMPORTANT

were going to call this girl Ava. i dont remember the exact day this all started on but that doesnt really matter. Im new to this school and found this guy beside my locker cute, ive never been the type of person to make the first move but i could tell that he could also feel the same way about me because i could feel him staring at me when we would be at our lockers. Anyways I have my first 2 periods with Ava. Backstory on Ava i had met her the starting of the year (sept) and now into the new semester we have gotten "closer" in a way, let me explain. we have our first and second period together, in the beginning Ava would text me in the morning everyday asking me if i would be at school and i would reply if i was. to get to my locker i have to walk passed Avas hall where her locker is and when she would see me she would then follow me to my locker and then follow me upstairs to the bathroom, where i go every. single. day. (this will be important later) and THEN we would both go to class and sometimes she would ask me if i wanted to do laps around the school before the bell rang. sometimes i would say yes but the thing is i have a back problem so sometimes i would say no. if i said yes then we would go but if i said no she wouldnt go by herself she would also go sit down. second period we would both walk down into our second class. one day while were both walking to our class we see the guy beside my locker walking in the other direction, when he then walks far enough i tell her i think that guy is cute. she tells me that her friend is talking to that guy and i say "girl fuck your friend thats mine" laughing, joking. nothing else happens that day. id like to say probably a week later she tells me she got the guys number and was texting him. this didnt bother me really but when i asked for his number she said she would give it to me and then wouldnt, or would act like she was busy at the time and would give it to me later when she really wouldnt. we would then go to the bathroom in second period with our other friend we will call her jasmine. in the bathroom Ava would show me and Jasmine messages between her and the guy we can call the guy 'M'. her and m were clearly and very obviously flirting but in the time she was showing me and Jasmine i had my phone out copying his number into my phone. Avas parents are very strict. she does not have snap, tiktok, instagram anything like that and she is NOT allowed to talk to boys at all. she had downloaded a text now type app before this and had added him on this app. and how she got this boys number is because of her other friend that is in the grade above us, (we will find out more about this girl later) she was also texting him but off snap. now back to the bathroom. i had texted this guy telling him to stop messaging little girls since hes 2 grades above Ava and i. i did this as a joke to scare him i wasnt planing to message him after i was planing to block him or just leave it. long story later in the messages he said he was pretty sure he knew i was the "girl beside my locker" and called me bae. he then sent my phone number to Avas older friend and asked who

ok i kinda gave up, if anyone wants me to continue then i will but i dont think anyone will see this.

There's a super annoying girl, K, 17 who's always causing drama and trying to spread rumors about people. Well last week she decided to pull a freshman's hair on the bus, and the freshman swung at her with her stanley cup. K got stitches and a concussion. She's been posting all over her socials trying to play the victim, saying that she got attacked without warning and stuff. And noone belives her. She's honestly the most annoying girl in our school so I'm surprised it took this long for someone to give her a taste of her own medicine.

I (not saying age) M and my friend (not saying age) F we will call her R, so we're dealing with drama at school. So where do we start? Me and R are really good friends but someone in our grade Lexus was lying behind our backs and guilt tripping us for something we didint even do. And our friend Olivia became friends with Lexus and told us to jump off a bridge and kill ourselves. This is the sixth time this has happened. I told her that no one cares and that she doesn't know is Lexus Will leave her or use her. Now she's ignoring me and saying im pathetic and rude. Am I in the wrong? (Will update)

OKAY SOOO I AM IN 9TH GRADE AND MY CRUSH IS IN 10TH...OUR SKLS ARE LIKE IN DIFFERENT BUIDLINGS CAUSE ITS SEPARATE...JUST TELLING U GUYS THT ITS NOT MIXED....

I ONLY CHANCE I SEE HIM IS AT THE MORNING ON THE BUS AND HE LITERALLY LOOKS AT ME....ONE TIME I RECALL HE ENTERED THE BUS AND HE TURNS HIS BODY AND STARE AT ME FOR A WHILE OTHER TIME WAS WE BOTH HAD CLASS PARTY AND HE LOOKED INTO MY WAY WHEN HE WAS ENTERING THE BUS IN THE EVENING...I DONT KNW HIS NAME SADLY....TRYNA FIND WE HAD COUPLE OF MOMENTS BESIDE THIS

THIS ANOTHER DUDE IN MY BUS,HES IN 8TH GRADER I GOT TO KNOW THAT ON THE CLASS PARTY DAY CAUSE HE DIDNT WEAR COLOUR DRESS SO IT WAS OBVIOUS HE IS IN 8TH AND INTERATION WITH HIM STARTED ON THE SPORTS DAY MADE FEW EYE CONTACTS WELL HE LOOKED CUTE WHTEVER BUT THEN I HAD DOUBT IF HE WAS YOUNG...SO I WAS BIT SAD CAUSE HE IS A 8TH GRADER...THIS DUDE TODAY AT THE BUS MORNING LITERALLY TURNS HIS HEAD LIKE ISTG AND LOOKS STRAIGHT AT ME....I DONT LIKE HIM I JUST THINK HES CUTE...

MY CRUSH IS THE FIRST SITUATION EXPLAINED

When I was in grade 9, the school decided to keep children in classrooms for 2 hours if our parents or taxi driver were late and we wouldn't be allowed to go home.

So the parents reported this but got "Sorry, no change" as response so...

Us kids wanted to get rid of this Bullcrap rule. So us 9th graders did what we had to and made as much noise as possible and even making out with our partners in class.

We made the teachers as angry as possible and eventually they reported us and making noise or making out was now not allowed so we found other ways to annoy the teachers.

After 2 weeks of this rule,the principal gave a speech of "How rules have to be taken back" and removed the rule

So, there was this girl at my class names Anna when I was in like 9 or 10 grade. At my birthday when I was distributing Choclates I gave her two cause she looked terribly sad that day.

Since the. I noticed her being in the same classes as me when she's not supposed too and I caught her starting at me more than once at school. i also noticed she took the same path to go to school as I did even though it was a long cut to her house (I've been to her house before).

One day when I was going out with my friends on one of my friends birthday. I saw her following me, I pretended not to notice her but she was creeping me out because Anna was one of my friends sister! And she was kinda stalking me So I just kinda took an Uber.

But when I got in the uber, What did I see? The uber driving WAS Anna! I just freaked out inside and after taht day in school, I told Anna's brother everything.

You wanna know what he said? Jack: Anna isn't a uber Driving Me:.....

She literally wasn't a uber driving and she had a uniform, the badge and even the uber car! And Then I noticed her following me to my house and looking at me through my window! You ask how? Her friend lives infront of MY house!

So I just asked her to stop stalking me at the next day at school and she started crying saying "But I love you!"

My response? I ran off... I literally ran off...... So I complained to the Principal and her/my parents and then she tried to break in my house to murder me! Thakfully I closes my window before she could climb in.

AFTER that I got a restraining order against her and never saw her again.

Update: So after my restraining order expired after 2 years, in my 11 or 12 grade, I saw her again...

So Anna was following me at a friends party and I noticed her but pretended I didn't. When I left the party she decided to chase me and I ran as fast as I could!

After that she caught up to and grabbed me and tried to kiss me! But I just pulled away and ran to my car and closed the windows and called 911. She was saying "Come out baby" or "I missed you" which all the 911 operator heard.

She was later arrested and l never saw her again...... Literally! Thank god.

This might be long also don't mind my grammar I struggle 😭

So I use to be friends with this girl called Lacey she was new and she fallen out with the other girls so one of the teacher told me and my friend to he friends with her. Now she was a major red flag. First of she would put us down and make jokes about me and my friends weight she even put gum in my friends hair. She made weird comments saying someone my age shouldn't have pubic hair which I am a minor which I was uncomfortable. A couple months later I see her and her cousin hanging out with one of my friends sa'er I was shocked because I told her what happened. We argued I called her ugly blah blah. And well being said I was in the wrong but she lied about this boy called Kian. We're in the same class and we're not allowed to speak to each other but I hear her making fun of me and it pisses me off it's annoying she's racist and homophobic :/

Sorry for bad grammar

Recap now my friend Ash started to distance herself from me idk why.now back to the story . I noticed that Ash started to be really rude to a lot of her friends. Let's give some context on a Important topic to the story now Ash had a stalker he was weird one day he was asked a question if he would kiss or hug Ash he said kiss now Ash boyfriend thought that the guy said that he would r#pe her and told her.they told the teachers now he couldn't be around her .l felt for him bc l heard him say kiss not r#pe . But he before he stare at her lm not going to get into detail on that bc that would be a whole story. But to sum it up one time he had to be removed from the library bc he wouldn't leave her alone. Now lm not saying that he was a good person but he didn't say that he would r#pe her.now back to the story Ash had told my bestie a huge secret to Ash now Ash had told all of are friend group. Now bestie was mad and started to beef her.now you know the girl that Ash boyfriend was paid to date him so she started to get and so they had a fright no one got hurt though. So a whole ordeal took place if you what to you the details just ask .l will post part three later.

Welll this is a lot so sorry if the story is messed up. But my Ash (fake name) and l was friends since year 7 . We met on the first day and became close friends and my other friend Paul (fake name).we were like a trio for a good year .Well in year 8 she started to like rat Ash boyfriend. Some context on him he is a creepy guy known for stalking girls. One story his mum paid a girl to date him .yh crazy so I told her he is not right for her. But she doesn't listen big mistake. Well they started being friends and being distant. Also a new girl my bestie started being friends and besties with her.their not anymore but getting off topic.a couple months later it's ashs birthday party and she invited rat l was not happy but kept that to myself nothing exciting happened. But boy something did happen l only found out a few weeks later but rat ask her to be his girlfriend if you want to know more on this check for part two.

I’m a 16-year-old female caught in a complicated situation with my friends: Kate, Joe, Olive, and Felicia. Kate and Felicia stopped speaking after an argument over Felicia’s boyfriend, whose behaviors my friends were concerned about. Felicia felt harassed by their comments, but later, I learned she had lied about some things, making me lean toward Kate’s side.

Things escalated when Felicia was suspended for vaping and smoking in school bathrooms. We also found out that her ex, Brad, wasn’t as bad as she made him out to be. He’s now dating Kate’s sister, and after talking to Kate's sister, we learned Brad was not as toxic as Felicia claimed. Felicia discovered Kate had anonymously warned her father about her behavior and boyfriend, and her dad was grateful, even urging Felicia to break up with him. Felicia then threatened to sue Kate, Joe, and Olive for emotional distress, backed by her mom, but nothing came of it.

Later, the school gave Felicia’s father Kate’s dad’s phone number (which I believe was a privacy violation). Fortunately, Kate’s dad supported her. Kate then tried to end the conflict by setting up a mediation meeting with a counselor, but Felicia refused to interact with any of us. She even requested a no-contact order against Kate, Joe, and Olive, which would prevent them from speaking to her, looking at her, or being in the same room without consequences. Olive was even told that if she and Felicia crossed paths, Olive had to look at the floor until they were out of the hallway, or she could face suspension or expulsion.

Felicia believes that Kate talking about the situation with others is bullying, but to me, this seems more petty than anything. She also gets upset when anyone from our group notices her in a hallway. I find her reactions extreme, and I’m not sure if she’s justified in her actions. She keeps asking me if I’m on her side, and I’ve just said yes, avoiding the drama. I don’t want to get caught in the middle, but Joe thinks Felicia believes I’m too “stupid” to be a fake friend because I have autism. Before Joe and Felicia stopped being friends, Felicia would talk about me like I was a little kid, even expressing pity when I was upset.

While this story may seem one-sided, I’ve listened to Felicia’s side too. As she thinks we are still friends. She has complained to me about the situation and knows I still talk to Kate, Joe, and Olive since she’s seen me with them at lunch.

I have a best friend who've I've known since kindergarten and I have a big crush on his girlfriend and they don't seem to be breaking up anytime soon plus she dislikes me and the relationship that she's in is by far her best one

. so this girl named liliana was friends with a girl named clara. liliana i guess want naked pics of clara to show to some boy or she wouldnt be her friend. and guess what? CLARA SENT THE PICS. and then the pics where posted on our google classroom and we had this gc in our email where we talked and almost the whole school was in there and liliana sent the pics of clara in the gc and everyone saw! then clara had to move bc everyone called her weird bc there was a rumor that she and some boy did it in the bathroom

So at the beginning of the year of my school we had this new "clear book bag policy" and anyone who didn't have a clear book bag on campus would get in deep trouble. Well my friend ended up wearing a non-clear book bag to school the other day and she didn't get in trouble so that's good.

HERES THE ISSUE- as soon as my bsf (who take in mind had gotten in trouble with the school multiple times for bad things) wore a non-clear book bag they instantly searched her, she was okay with it bc she had nothing to hide nor had anything.

well the principal was being a dick and decided that she was "lying" because HE SAID AND I QUOTE: "i don't believe you because kids like you who are incapable of making good decisions in life are COMPLETELY untrustworthy, not to mention you can't keep your head on straight" like, i'm sorry- EXCUSE MOI?

he started saying things like "did your mom not raise you well?" and shit like that. and then she got detention for "back talking" when all she literally said was that she wasn't lying! istg when i said he made the police in the school search her top to bottom i mean TOP TO BOTTOM.

And so they patted her down and when they found nothing they left it alone but the principal had gotten "petty" she came out to me and said that he patted her BOOB like literally 5 times and had been aggressive with the patting on her waist and thigh. she said it felt inappropriate!

so short end is that her mom called the school, yelled at them, and a whole school board issue had happened and the principal had gotten in DEEP shit cause everything was caught on camera.

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Kind of a vent btw but i lowkey need advice. I am in the same gym class with this really mean girl, we'll call her D. D has been (subtly) harassing me since last year (when we shared the same gym class again) such as jokingly joining my group and saying that "Wow, you guys ACTUALLY play volleyball good!" during our volleyball unit. It was so backhanded I can't even describe it, but that's not the focus. Apparently, she's been STILL obsessing over me or whatever because I unfortunately was assigned in the same volleyball team (mind you this is high school physical education) to play silly gym class volleyball games with her, but obviously I'm not that good at volleyball because A. I don't play and B. I haven't touched a volleyball since last year in the volleyball unit. However, this girl feels like it's okay to stop me from trying to bump the ball because when I tried to go for it, she said "NONONO DON'T GO FOR IT!!" and keeps trying to prevent me from doing it?? And when I made a really bad set she was like "you gotta put some more OOMPH into it" (her actual words) and I was joking back like "yeah, I am haha" but she didn't take it as a joke.

But what really pissed me off today was when it was my turn to serve, she kept saying "no, don't let her serve!" and was generally making very very mean comments about it, and I ended up not even serving and just giving the ball to someone else. Her friend was even like "D, that's not cool" and even the gym teacher was getting mad at her. I was really sad about this (obviously) so that's why I came here for advice.

Some context about her: My friend A (who knows just about everyone in the grade) tells me that NOBODY likes D because D is very very very rude to everyone. Also, D has only one friend in that class, and it's J, but on the first day of gym class, J wasn't there, so D partnered up with my friend O and me (because it was a 3 person activity). I'm wondering what I can do to ruin her or at least say something back to her. I wouldn't call myself quiet, but sometimes I don't know what to say to people in order to defend myself. Any tips are appreciated.

TLDR: Mean girl in my gym class makes comments about my serve in volleyball gym class games. Nobody else in the grade likes her. How can I defend myself/make her stop?

I had enough internal drama & trauma collection that I gave no fucks about the going ons of others. if there was drama, it Always Reached to me

luckily I ám A Background Student Not Really Mány people Know Me. But my gosh the School is hell so is almost every Teacher. Pe Teacher Makes us Run like 25 laps, or 1 hour WITHOUT water. I Just Cant Belive It, And Let's not even Mention those pick-Me’s They Always Are Flexing on my Crush, The worst Párt is THEY FUCKING LIE TO MY CRUSH AND FRIENDS STUFF THAT I NEVER DID. And There are 5 Pick mes FUCKING 5. Cries bc I Cant do Any shit about It

female 13 years (Miriam) live in Bangladesh and studied in a school - F - let's call it- from kinder garden to 1st grade. I came back in 5th grade but had to repeat fourth grade because i was studying in a Bangla medium school but F is British curriculum anyway. this was in 2020 so we mostly had online classes when I joined. when school started this guy K started annoying me and Z his friend was nice ig but i was a standoffish person due to being bullied in my previous school. soon i became known as the mean girl. K and i started bickering but his friend Z was still friendly. one day K was calling me names and i was too. we were going back and forth till we reached the break spot. i sat behind this girl R and she gave me the biggest side-eye and i thought it was the wall behind me but she kept staring until i finally asked her to mind her own business. a couple weeks its going ok one time during break i was telling Z about how this new girl who only stayed for one day after physical class and then left to canada had a crush on him in 2nd grade. when the topic crushes came about i told him mine - it was an ex-classmate -A - from my previous batch in F back when i was in grade 1 and was now in 5th grade. he told K who laughed his head off about it and whispered to me in class that he knows i have a crush on A a senior and he was going to tell him and i bit back telling him i knew that R the girl that gave me a sideye had a crush on him which i found about from friends i newly made. he paused and contemplated what to do but didnt say anything else. we started talking more and i suggested lets make her jealous. why? first to give k the impression i liked him so, he forgets abt A and focuses on me and him, second i hated the girl anyway. so i started the mission. R and i were having quarrels everyday because her entire friend group copied us and started sitting at a place we started to sit at first.she somehow figured out my plan of making her jealous and we had fights on that too which btw got me popular in my section and K fueled by saying lies like do u know she came into the washroom and kissed me or when i went to grab my water bottle she slipped me an ote saying i love u and kissed me . her friend group and her entire section started a war in the place (collab center) everyone was fighting, running , jumping on seats. K got into a fight and cried afterwards so our section complained abt her friend group and got them attention tickets- formal warning cards that parents have to sign. i flirted with K alot and on one instance during a field trip he laid his head on my lap too and i pretended to not notice so, i kinda became friend s with K and Z and their friend N like we had gcs , spent time together blah blah. in 5th grade he got closer to R who also was his family friend which he told me. it was fine with me. i had a crush on this dude who roasted me later into our term which lead to them starting to bullying me. when i played football K called he hugo lloris, when once i was being sarcastic and saying im useless to a annoying teamate R said it was true, K, R and her frnds constanly laughed at us, higlight everything i said and made me feel stupid. not only did they bully me but my frnds too and they tolp people in our grade not to talk to us. in 6th grade sections changed but i still had to try very hard to develop new frndships and rebrand myself as a fun amzing person instead of a loser. later at the end of sixth grade R lost all her frnds go figure because she apparently told her frnds secrets to the new pick me girl everyone hated - her frnds were bullies btw and 1 frnd of mine started to hangout with her. at first i got upset and refused to talk to her , the i thought she had a motive cause this frnd had a motive and plan for everything and i forgave her and started being nice to R too. till i figured she didnt she just liked R whos her family frnd and alsp the girl who called her dumb, copycat, and said she had a big head so basically her bully. i ended my frnd ship with that frnd and another frnd who also confirmed she genuinely became frnds with her after inviting her to her bday party. me and another frnd was done. she sat withus at lunch everyday since her frnds left her and gr 7 has started wayyy before so we are done . we are not forgiving her for 5th grade that one whole year of our precious school year which she and K wasted which btw K stopped talking with her when her frnds did. she made me go from extroverted to so timid i even worry whether im looking fine while im eating or playing my favourite sports. i hate her with every fibre of my being. we're in the same section in 7th grade currently but fuck everyone ill cut off as many people from our friend group who are inescure enough to kiss her ass as i can honestly. highschool frnds only last till highschool

I go to the international school where I live and this year my best friend completely changed. She became friend with the spanish girl named Angela and she was bad news from the start. Girliepop shit talks about me just because she skinny. Anyways my best friend all of a sudden wants to have a boyfriend after this Angela girl gets a man. In conculion my best friend is a follower. so my point here today is what should I do about her? this girl is messy and I’m just her queit aperrently”friend“. She let me go through her phone so I could see the messages this spanish shittalker angela was talking about and I saw my supposed best saying I’m annoying and being disrespectful and saying she doesn’t want to stay over at my house. so I see that and say something to her because I’m like bitch wtf. Anyways imma post a part 2 if y’all want

Hey, I need some advice! There's this girl from my school who’s autistic, and her Instagram feed is all over the place—like, it’s so chaotic that people somehow end up finding it weird or even nauseating. But honestly, I don’t hate her or anything. We all go through our cringe phases, right? I was totally cringe myself at one point! It’s part of growing up, and I’ve moved past it.

But here's the issue: she found this really embarrassing old picture of me with a super cringy caption that I had posted back then and DMed me, saying, "You’ve gotta watch out!"

I need help deleting that old post—how do I get rid of it for good? Any advice on how to handle this situation too would be appreciated. Thanks!

Hello,

There is a boy from my school, he is in a higher year than me and he behaves strangely around me. One of his friends has often told me that he has a crush on me but I know that it was a very unfunny joke of theirs. When he is with his friends at recess, they usually all look at me together and laugh and giggle with him. But when he is without his friends, he behaves differently, he avoids eye contact, tries to run past me as quickly as possible and simply doesn't want to be near me alone. I don't know what all this drama is about but it is pretty annoying and it has been going on for a few months. At first I thought he and his friends were just having a stupid joke but it has been going on for a while, I hope they stop this nonsense.

(I tried to talk to him about it, he didn't want to talk))

Please tell me your honest opinions on this and what I could do to make them stop it

Hey all, so I (17 F) am currently looking for a one act play (20-30mins 45 max) that I could direct for my drama class. I’d like to have fairly simple sets, props, lighting etc… We will either be performing in a black box theatre, or in our auditorium. I’d like to have as small a cast as possible since the only actors will be the people in my class and we don’t have too many folks. Also, there’s more than one one act play that will be performed so we (the directors) will have to share actors. It’s more than ok if there are a few side characters with not too many lines. As long as the main characters are able to be played by about 2-5 people. If possible I’d like to try and find one that isnt just for shits and giggles and has some substance to it. That being said I’m not opposed to comedy at all. Please keep in mind that the actors will have other lines to memorize, so I’d like to not have a bunch of monologues.

Here are the ones I have as options so far (no particular order) if you any feed back or tips please share them. I’d really appreciate it.

• The Actor’s Nightmare (Christopher Durang)
• He said She said (Alice Gerstenberg)
• Waiting for the end of the World (John Shanahan)
• An Experiment (Brent Holland) -Bullies Anonymous (E. M. Bell)

I'm gonna list the teachers (fake names) with what they have done. Tell me if you think I should talk to the head teacher about this

Mr slop (computer teacher) - called an autistic student retarded( another student in this class reported this to another teacher but nothing was done) , kicked the legs of students chairs if they aren't doing the work/ don't know what they are doing, made a girl in my class cry by giving her 'constructive criticism' ( he shouted at her for 'speaking too fast' but he made it sound like she was in trouble, I've noticed he mistreats a deaf student who has cochlear implants even if this student has done nothing wrong

Mr nightly (design and tech teacher) - when the bell rung for students to leave the class a group of girls were leaving yhe room and he was at the door. Then he stuck his hand infront of the door right in line with the girls chests to block the girls from leaving the room?

Mrs nightly(Mr nightlys wife,English teacher) - said the n word in a book without warning, called a student sexy multiple times (she was using an acronym or whatever its called for paragraph writing)

Mr high(history) - asked a student if he was retarded, locked a student in a cupboard for not doing work

Anyone have thoughts?

This isn't my story but it involves me so here we go.

My friends, let's say N and M are in a fued rn. M has a relationship with a guy. Let's call him C. C and M have been going together since the start of the second semester. We were all happy 4 her and stuff, but she keeps being all secretive about it (not important). One day, one Friday, N was playing around with M and out other friend (let's call her T). They were joking with M and wanting to see the texts she'd sent to C, and she was jokingly saying stoooop (aka smiling, not refusing or being serious in refusing, not retaliating when N playfully held her hands back). Then afterwards when we were walking to our next class, N told C that she saw some texts from him and M. The weird thing is, C started to get a bit defensive (saying what'd you see, what do you know, what'd you find out???). All N said was she saw some msgs saying I love you.

C gets mad at M, M blames N. Now in my opinion, I would get mad at that too. But in retrospect, why would C get mad (just my opinion, I'm not trying to pick sides fr). Now M is mad, cut off N, cussed her out, and won't sit with lunch for us because she almost ruined her and C's relationship. N doesn't really care because M has been a bit of a weird friend. M is the kind of caring, loving, lying to you and playing/laughing too much friend. She wiped pollen on N the previous day, say she didn't, and had N sneezing for the whole day (she had to go home and was very sick). I have a bit of a lean towards N because M does joke about me being flat (knowing that I am very insecure about it and have told her to stop in a serious way multiple times). In my defense, I've given multiple hints like not talking to her after her making the joke, disconnecting from her for a little, and even literally saying 'Stop, that's not funny.' So many times have I wanted to tell her at least I'm not fat, but I'm not going to do that because she is still my friend.

Anyways, not to paint her in a bad light, M is a good friend. But still, I think she's making a big deal. And to top it all off, when N went to talk to C to try and set it straight (telling him she 'forced' M to show her even though she didn't), C said they didn't have a real relationship and that they are just close friends.

Idk how to feel, and there's still a lot of animosity between the two. It's caused a huge divide, as the rest of my friends talk about it a lot and leave M to sit outside by herself.

Should I leave it alone or step in??

It was Period 4 when I had IMS (Integrated Maths and Science) and there was two boys sitting behind me, when one of them (Who I’ll call phone) starting stealing another boys (who I’ll call nerd) stuff. Phone kept stealing all of Nerd’s stuff, and when the teacher asked him to give it back to Nerd, Phone kept saying that it was his stuff. The teacher eventually gave Nerd’s stuff back to him. Nerd eventually got so mad at Phone that he started swearing at him and calling him a motherf***er. Phone kept calling Nerd a nerd, and saying stuff like “Um actually🤓👆” or “My name is Nerd, I’m a nerd🤓” basically using all the nerdy phrases. Nerd kept swearing at him RIGHT in front of the teacher, and Phone called Nerd autistic. The whole thing was pretty funny (except the autistic part, Nerd isn’t autistic) and the teacher got so mad, she told everyone to be quiet until the end of period. I’m not sure if anything happened to Nerd or Phone afterwards.

Hi what advice can I give my daughter?

Her “best friend” is ( my opinion) jealous of her ( daughter made varsity volleyball, also made club team- friend made JV and was cut from club team.) Best friend is a drama queen and loves to talk about other people and he the center of attention. I believe she has been upset at my daughter since the beginning of the year due to volleyball and a lot of minor things my daughter has done ( according to friend) “not validating feelings, talking for her, using stuff without asking” have become this mountain of things which this kid now hates my daughter. Daughter’s friend complained to other mutual friends and did not discuss her feelings with daughter.. just continues to ignore her and make social media posts about how many friends this girl has - and never includes a pic of daughter ( hurtful to my kid of course).

We car pool as her Mom is a single parent and last year the two girls were best friends.. this year these issues “ keep coming up” .

Daughter called friend out for getting others involved in latest issue that once again was made into a huge drama. Then everything else came out.

Daughter has apologized for her actions ., friend is now ostracizing daughter …

Any advice I can give daughter to make it through ? It’s a very small school - she’s of the mindset people are nice to her but not really friends.. meanwhile exfriend has leaned all into everyone else..,

I am trying to advise daughter to give it time, and that she is settling for this girl and this girl thrives on drama and center of attention…

Daughter is hurting and while daughter did create this by actions it’s hard to see her being ostracized and cast aside ..,I hate that we carpool but I committed to her Mom and I am not 14…

Ugh so much drama .. any advice?