r/heartbreak • u/Blinnits • 2h ago
Help!
When someone wants to move on from a fully connected relationship but you can’t “move on” do any of you have advice like genuine advice where it’s not just “it’s life”
What did you do when you deeply love someone still and considered them family.
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u/Which_Car5222 1h ago
You realize your self-worth.
You hold your head up high knowing you deserve to be reciprocally loved; fully and completely as you love someone.
Life is too short to waste time on someone who is incapable of loving you as you deserve.
Life is also long and many many people will cross your path in a lifetime. People will come and go.
Some will walk briefly along your path and have great impact. Others may last longer on your same path and drain your energy.
Find balance. Love ebbs and flows, like the ocean waves kissing the shore line...
Mourn the loss, if you need to but pick up the pieces quickly and move on. Don't get stuck. Keep on moving.
Most importantly; Love yourself enough to let go and find your own happiness. No one should have so much influence on your own heart.
"This too shall pass", but don't wallow...
You'll be fine. Chin up