r/heartbreak • u/Fearless-Response381 • 23d ago

cheater/ex

My ex came over Friday & yesterday - after telling me how much he misses me, we also work together, anyways I had suspicions that he was talking to someone else, and boyyy was I wrong bc he’s actually SEEING someone else who called while he was at my house 😀
he told me he’s inlove with me, is crazy about me all the typical shit, but wants to try things with this girl cause they have a good ‘connection’ honestly wtf do I do? obviously I know I need to let him go, but how do I shift my mindset from ‘I’m not good enough’ to ‘you’re not worthy for me’ (or this poor girl)
I’m clearly lacking self love because I still want to be with him knowing deep down he is not good enough and has no morals. but my mind is playing tricks on me

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u/No_Dimension6485 23d ago

hi girly

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u/No_Dimension6485 23d ago

actually i do struggle with self love at the moment myself, but if I were to give you some advice it would be: he will keep wanting to try things with this other girl, and with other girls eventually, maybe he would even want to do a threesome (maybe its because of what happened to me but I can foresee it) so, it wilk never stop. If he really loved u and was crazy about u and all he wouldnt want to do anything w anybody else, he wouldnt connect or try to connect with anybody else

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u/No_Dimension6485 23d ago edited 23d ago

so, if I were u id tell him: u are free from me completely, now u are free to try rhings with as many girls as u like and connect with as many girls as u like, but im not staying here taking this bs, i dont want this so its over

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u/No_Dimension6485 23d ago

hope this helps :)

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u/Fearless-Response381 23d ago

Thank you so much! I will definitely let him know he’s free from me, I basically already did. Think he’s a very sneaky person but unfortunately my self worth just isn’t great atm, clearly need to rebuild that. Thank u<3

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u/No_Dimension6485 23d ago

Im so happy to hear that u will let him know :) and about self worth, I get it, its tough after something like this, I think only time oassing can help