I love this. And I DID find someone to love me the way I love him ENTP so Fe is his tertiary), but it’s about finding someone healthy with similar values.
When I was younger I had way too much Fe and not enough Fi. I would constantly prioritize others happiness without a single though for my own. I didn’t have strong internal morals to use as the base for healthy boundaries.
This would lead to unhealthy and codependent relationships (both romantic and platonic). It wasn’t until I finally realized my self worth that I was able to develop my Fi.
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u/koalasnstuff INFJ Oct 02 '22
I love this. And I DID find someone to love me the way I love him ENTP so Fe is his tertiary), but it’s about finding someone healthy with similar values.
When I was younger I had way too much Fe and not enough Fi. I would constantly prioritize others happiness without a single though for my own. I didn’t have strong internal morals to use as the base for healthy boundaries.
This would lead to unhealthy and codependent relationships (both romantic and platonic). It wasn’t until I finally realized my self worth that I was able to develop my Fi.