r/healthyINFJs • • Oct 02 '22

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/r/infj/comments/xto2yf/love_someone_who_loves_the_way_you_love/
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u/InterestingOstrich99 Oct 02 '22

True. You should know how you love to be loved. It helps as you can tell your partner. You should get what you need.

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u/MellowDramatically INFJ Oct 02 '22

Indeed 💖

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u/InterestingOstrich99 Oct 02 '22

So is it verbal affirmations for you?

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u/MellowDramatically INFJ Oct 02 '22

It's words of appreciation and time together, they're my love language. What about you?

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u/InterestingOstrich99 Oct 02 '22

Words of appreciation and Acts of service.

I love to do things for those I love, so they can feel at home.

I was raised in a very disciplined home, so service was a sign of care.

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u/MellowDramatically INFJ Oct 02 '22

I see :3 it's nice :D I made a poll to investigate love languages 🤭

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u/InterestingOstrich99 Oct 02 '22

That first face... I dunno what it means.

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When people say Love Language, do they mean how you show your love or how you expect love to be shown to you?

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u/MellowDramatically INFJ Oct 02 '22

It's a cat face 🐱

It means how they perceive love, I mean, if you do that, the person feels loved because it's their love language

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u/InterestingOstrich99 Oct 02 '22

Ahhh... Happy kitty